Confused About a Pisces Man ! Helppppp

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Vickivirgo1
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13 Years

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After months of lurking this forum trying to figure out a reason why this Pisces man stop talking to me I thought I share my story and see if anyone can give me some answers cause right now I'm confused ...
I started messing with this Pisces Man at work (btw I'm a Virgo) we started off as friends I was in a relationship and so was he matter fact he has a baby mother and is living with her . The more we hung
Out at work the more we started to like eachother flirting , we generally enjoyed eachothers company but eventually we ended hooking up. We talked everyday when he was at work only ... The feelings I develop became deep and his as well I didn't want want to get hurt by him and he told me he didn't wanna hurt me neither but there was no way he could leave this girl because he was afraid she would take his child away from him and that he just wanted it to he over with her .. Naturally I lend him a hand started giving him advice he would tell me he loved talking to me etc. the sexual tension between us was crazy it was awesome , he would talk about he sees us doing alot together and that I was ideal women he wanted to be with cause I was very strong and , how he would dream about me , I don't know but For some reason I didn believe him I have a hard time trusting people especially when there still with there significant other , I felt he was falling in love with me and I with him .. I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend not because of him but for other reasons he was very supportive and we continued on with the affair until about 3 weeks ago. He had went on a vacation with his baby mother which I must admit I was vey jealous but I somehow wasn't worried about him not talking to me . Well the day he got back to work he called me right away we spoke but I kinda was playing it as if i didn't care , I was trying to protect myself , he told me he missed me and that he thought about me that he had dream about me , he asked me if I missed him I told him I did in the beginning but got use him being away being my funny self I was playing with him which we normally with eachother but hes very sensitive we continue the convo until he suddenly said "I have to call u back" !!! And now it's been 3 weeks and I haven't heard from him since

I've never felt so rejected , I wonder what I did wrong ? In the beginning i said I wouldn't care either way what wouldnt care but I miss him do much, he just cut me off no explanation or anything ! Help me;(
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venusianbull
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Aside from wanting to just punch you one straight up for being a cheater...both of you for that matter..on we go.

He wanted you to tell him he was missed. You fobbed it off like it didn't matter. It ceased mattering to him. In case the post it was misplaced: Men have feelings too. Men are just as insecure as women. Men want to be loved same as women do. Fact. "He's very sensitive"..first tip off.
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Nefer
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Posted by P-Angel
Seriously Blingy ..... you cheat on your man to be with a man who cheats on his woman, and then you're surprised that he isn't honorable?



wtf — are humans growing dumber or some shit?



I just wanted to quote this because its succinct awesomeness cannot be denied.

This should be a fucking plaque hanging on every woman's wall.

That, and, "When a man shows you who/what he is.. believe him. The FIRST time."