So here's the deal.. since my last post I took the advice of a (female Pisces) friend & boy, did it work wonders on this guy's behavior towards me. He invites me over like he used to when we first started talking, tells me passionately how much he's missed me, & even suggested a weekend getaway for the two of us. Now he's holding my hand & has his arm around my waist at times & to me that's a sign of him opening, up slowly but surely. He even asks if I'm interested in just cuddling & watching movies which I'm more than happy to do. But in the midst of that I started giving up a bit, just because of the few times in between then where he seemed so.. "not there" with me.. especially the communication when we're apart.. there's some but not enough to convince me that all he's been doing is anything special. So I made a decision to slowly detach myself emotionally just in case I was being charmed & as if the universe were messing with me.. all that I mentioned above started happening. & it's as if he knows my little scheme. Well, who knows maybe he does sense it so he's doing such & such to keep me around. P-angel mentioned in my last post that I was definitely the "other woman" & I've come to the conclusion that whether or not that's true, I want to stick around & see what becomes of "us". Since he's actually responded to the changes I've been making to accommodate his personality & feelings, would I be making a mistake by shooing him away as a lover & hurt his feelings? I don't want to sound ignorant seeing that everything I mentioned can be pretty obvious signs, but I just wonder because I'm unsure. I don't want to end up throwing out something good. Otherwise if there's no potential to this then I'd gladly throw it out.
