do Pices men take their time....

HEllo! I don't know anything about Pices males! A quick summary, I have known a pices guy since I was in the 9th grade, I'm now 28 years old! We are very old family friends, and go back a long time...we also both used to have a crush on eachother, but absolutely nothing has ever happened....as crazy as it sounds, I have always felt that he was shy and scared to try and take our relationship to another level. He lives in Canada, and recently just came back from living in Australia for 2 yrs...so we've always been about 2 hrs at least, away from eachother...keeping in touch by phone or email, or random visits with family...he has contacted me a little bit more recently, and I just wondered, do Pices men take their time? As long as I've known him, he has NEVER been in a serious long-term relationship, except for one but he never talked or discussed his gf with me...he asked me if I was single...we've had so many chances for things to happen but something tells me he still wonders about me, but I have no idea what to do...I have always loved him, I took him to my prom (and still no goodnight kiss, he was definitely a little shy and awkward back then)...

any suggestions as to how to approach this? Or what to make of his recent contact? I am a libra, and from what I have read we are not eachother's best match...but we share so many similar interests...I have just NEVER been able to read him...Could he just be taking his time?

Pisces people normally don't measure quality time spent with a person on the superficial level in which the ego resides.

What I mean is ... you said, "we've had so many chances for things to happen" .. and then later went on to talk about no good-night kiss after prom, so I'm assuming by "things to happen", you are referring to physical contact.

For the most part, non-Pisces people measure "happening" in a relationship according to sexuality ... if touching is taking place, then women process this as the man being into her, and wanting her.

Pisces aren't like that, not even the men. A P-man will want to get physical, no doubt .. but, not in terms of measuring quality time spent with his partner.

Every moment is time well spent if two hearts can hear each other ... kissing or sex doesn't have to take place. Everytime he texts you, or you two talk on the phone ... this is something happening to a Pisces because we "feel" people emotionally .. phyically isn't as important.

I have heard this about pices, in general..and yes, I was probably referring to some sort of physical aspect...but deep down, I have always felt that wasn't as important as getting to know him...I guess with the distance, and the family/friend relationship- it's been hard to even GET time to speak with him. We had a really great conversation today, and I want more of that...but don't know how to do that without it being strange, because we don't talk everyday or even every month...months go by, and yes, I still feel a very strong connection to him, even after all of these years...thank you for clarifying the emotional piece though, because that does help me to understand him better. But now what? Do pices men like it when a woman is more forward in initating contact? (not the phsycial!)..do like they need or prefer hinting at something deeper or more? I truly care for him, I always have...and I think he cares for me too. Sadly, he lost his brother who was extremley close to, as was I. That was 5 yrs ago, and he has changed a lot with that loss taking place in his life. Sometimes I wonder if the loss of our loved one is the reason he still feels so connected with me...but his brother always knew the attraction that existed between him and I. I still feel something but don't know where to go with it!

Just like that ^^^^

Blown away. Good job ElectroAqua

Yes they do, they get insecure.