
tbird
@tbird
14 Years1,000+ PostsPisces
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Posted by triplearies
ok, it's hard to get a lifetime of happening into 2500 characters which is why i may sound like a fricking idiot in the first post....but will and i "saw" each other for 1 year. We were both out of marriages not long before and it started out as kindred spirits helping each other out. Then we got closer, I thought I was in love, and I thought he was in love too - things he said, things he did - but we did never move to the next level. First because I wasn't sure if I was ready and so I played a way more wait and see attitude rather than trying to push it to the next level. One day after a year of this going on when I pushed he says we're just friends who were sleeping together, nothing more (despite introducing me to his other friends as his wife on more than one occasion). So what happened with Will is not the point, and it's really not up for anyone's judgement. I learned the lessons I was supposed to learn from it. It hurt and it's done.
The point is that since I'm still on baby legs dealing with men, I don't want to misinterpret anything. I don't go slowly anymore, I move slower than a sloth. For the woman accusing me of being loose, I haven't had sex in over 18 months despite numerous men coming and going.
Claude and I have known each other for over a year now, so linking arms wasn't after 10 minutes. It was after months of talking on the phone/email/text/facebook almost every week. We are in all effect FRIENDS. There have been moments of unusual sexual tension and I do feel more comfortable and understood with him than I do with my normal male friends. I was weirded out by the request to come to my house as it seemed a bit forward and didn't want to misinterpret in one way or another the signals. I wouldn't have acted but would have watched behaviour. Since the Pisces is new to me in male form, I was looking for some insight. Not judgement, accusations of idiocy, just insight from one human trying to get through life to another.
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Speaking of which I gotta get ready for me date.
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