I kno allot of MEN tend to think allot of things DON'T need to be said...
But I look at the power behind the simplicity of the line from Bridgett Jones where he says to her..."...I like you, just the way you are..."
WOW...Like that's what we all want to kno...yes we're cRaZy and insecure and scared little creatures...we NEED to kno you love us because WE see our WARTS magnified....
Wow.. Pisces is one of my favourite signs.. I think I like it now even more. Mike, you sound sweet asking about women's needs and what is a definition of a good man etc.. It sounds like you really care and that I appreciate a lot. The woman who gets you is very lucky 🙂
What! How rude, not in anyway, YES out of boredom but i never just shoot out random c*** i always think long and hard before a post witch is why i usually post crazy one day and than not post a new thread for weeks, I always think to myself what a girl needs and how i could do it, constantly, you obvoisly dont know me, im very giving and sinceare unless your rude to me than youll get nothing from me. witch includes people on this message board,
:/ hmm chocolate...kidding...well,sort of...chocolates good and stuff
okay i'll continue where yummy left off in a serious manner now😛
trust,respect,reliability,sense of humor/or ability to have fun and considering alot of girls I know tons of perseverance and patience even though most of them don't give it back.Oh and suprises out of the blue just to say you care about them for no reason(meaning not valitines day,b-days,etc. to give them little gifts like maybe a simple one flower or something will work)lets them know your thinking about them when your "technically" not required to.
Im just very very serious, with a slight slight ever so subtle humor. i dont take love lightly at all, its all or nothing to me really, I dont see any intelligence or ration for a "Casual" relationship, I need and give faaaar more than casual relation. You can usually tell if i like you if i make fun of somthing your wearing, than the girl gets mad and i have to apologise for being blunt, and than usually wierd, telapathic flirting i would call it, definately happens, i really felt that one virgo girls thoughts, it was wierd, i would be just sitting next to her and could almost feel her intimidated half smile. i like being able to feel so well, you have to understand theres sutch a downside to being blessed, or cursed with this gift:
You always here astrologers, talk about the pisces trait of being able to "Feed" of other peoples energy's well, this is true however, they rarely go into detail about what happenes if pisces is surrounded by bad energy or harsh brash people, well this is where all the perks of being a pisces, hit the cement.....I have had the worst expierinces of my life just being in groups of people with bad vibes and its the worst feeling to have this happen,.....especially for long periods of time is not healthy at all for a pisces, it is almost scarring to realise that not everyone is sincear and that you alone in a group of sharks.
Dont blame the pisces for needed to escape,
If you were afraid to walk into a super market for you would feel every single persons pain emotions delimmas dramas happiness anger, frustrations, hit you all at once like a million conversations in your head all going on at once, would drive you to the brink of madness, This is what a pisces must endure every single day.
So dont blame a pisces for being shy, they have to deal with alot, of thiers and everyone elses problems, they have alot of pressure on thier shoulders.
i block this by being shrewd and thinking they wouldnt save me if i were in trouble, so i dont feel guilty about walking around without a care, I feel arrogant walking around not looking at people and feeling there feelings, but thats what i gotta do otherwise ill get the feelings they have good or bad and essentially, and unintentially carry them outside the store and home with me.
So i just act like my cappy freind in public, just like hi, blankface, yep, blankface, bye,blank face. and it works so well. i dont get those wierd telapathic waves that hit me when im around people.
Or if im drunk, those sensors are totally blocked, witch is why i think pisces are known for hittin the bottle i dont blame them, when i get drunk all is well, life is fun again, everything i overanylyze and care so mutch about is just objects in the distance, i feel liek a saggitarius when im drunk, or a leo. somone guessed i was a leo when i was drunk once lol. i think its closer to a sag,
just like fiery, but nice, funny, and fearless.
so getting drunk isnt a depression killer, its freedom.
alcohal can be almost physcadelic for me, without going overboard, like mild numbing phscdelics. witch is another reason pisces could be known for being drinkers.
I've never been drunk:/I've tried tons of alcohol in a very short period of time and still never been drunk,me thinks it's a myth anymore...I did give my taurus sister a lap dance once though but thats only because she was drunk and didn't want to feel like the only one doing it type thing so I guess sag would come out if I did but I wander around naked most of the time anyways.:S
"Female need someone to keep them in balance, to ignore them, and tell them how petty and pointless their concerns are. Is that wrong? No. I know its hard, but have you ever heard most women talk, and listen to most things that concern women? Yeah, they waste a lot of time thinking about things that are a waste of time"
That is a stereotype! And you know what that means? That not all women are like the above 🙂 And I include myself! thank you very much...
"If I had a bad day in office, what good is it talking to it to my girlfriend? She doesn't work with me, she doesn't know the person who caused it, she can't possibly have anything worthwhile to say about the issue. They whole, "It'll be okay", is pretty useless to me"
I wouldn't say "it'll be okay" I'd say "well good thing you're not at the office anymore huh? shut up now!" lol j/k
I actually don't like to hear about other peoples problems even those close to me cause im lazy like that.Sitting around whining about things doesn't get anything done and work I try to forget as soon as possible when im not there so I don't want to hear about it from someone else either.So I know what you mean about alot of women but it's not really all women who gets excited for those things,they bore me personally so most of my friends are dudes intentionally.
Bran: I never get tired of reading your Painfully Complex replies. haha (not all but some are very time consuming to fully understand what the heck your trying to say)
tiamat: "my friends are dudes intentionally." so you dont like females or you dont like the way they somtimes are?
the scorpio girl i had a huge crush on had 2 girlfreinds and rarely hung out with them,
and also i read somwhere on an astrology site that Scorpio females have one secret wish, That they were born with a penis, Not because they wish to be masculine but being male makes things simpler, and this appeals to a scorpio female. Not saying scorpios arent feminine.
the only signs ive ever come acroos that werent femanin were aquas and mainly arian girls.
I don't like the way they are.Theres only a few females I can stand to be around alot and usually signwise it's;libras,aquarius,pisces,another scorpio and a leo.I get too bored with constant complaining about boyfriends,that one chick whos a b/tch or a ho(catty crap),what looks good,etc.Im a bit too laid back for liking all that unnessacery crap and alot of women are drama queens so hang out with guys because they're less whiney and more likely to talk about things that is more useful and are always changing to upbeat or serious.The women I know think theres something wrong with you if you don't have something worth b/tching about 24/7,always negative even what they find as funny is negative or cynical.Dry sense of humors are fine but thier version of it is jealous driven catty stuff.
lol,catty was supposed to be there,where they act like a pissed off cat around other females just because the girl happens to be there.Competing based on how much you can talk trash about other girls to make yourself look or feel better usually when the girl is prettier than them,doesn't have too many clothes on(even if they themselves look like a hooker),they are worried about thier BF's or husband being interested in another female,etc.Getting worked up over nothing because of thier own insecurities and taking it out on other women is basically what that was meaning.
Do you think your less likely, to put up with it or do you try, and eventually become short tempered and want to just leave? I have a problem with hanging out with a girl or girls with just me, being the only male, im quite silent, and am a little rough and blunt and dont really care what there saying, i have this problem when somone leaves me with a group of girls, witch not surprsingly happens alot,...And they kinda are talking abotu somthing totally rediculous like some guy at schools, new somthing, what he has thats new or whatever,...and than they eventually get bored...and start looking at me minding my own F***** buisness, trying not to make a big presence in thier stupid world of boy toys and nieve, pop punkers, living like qauzi "street-kids", with nappy hair and a Epic, Stadium sized Superficial Hatred for Gouverment socialism and and type of law enforcment,
Aynways, They look at me and smile and say what do you do? And i say Nothing, and look away,....than i hear gibber jabber, and than somone in the group with some rather large ovaries, says "Dont talk to him he's trying to be a tough guy...." Taurus mars sets in or somthing and i start boiling underneath the immovable outward appearance....Than if they keep snickering and trying to fuck with me, i usally start to fuck with, All the sudden i cae what there saying ask them more and more, and tell them things they dont want to hear, like for instance: Ill say so what tell me about this guy and why you like him?!?!? And act intereted, and she lookds surprised, and says,.....well umm .....hes cute and he is nice, and he has this really cool house with a pool, and he plays in this band and i see him at the beach with his friend and he said i looked relly hot in a bakini, and than i interrupt quite rudley, and say So you want to get F****** in the back of his suv and than forggotten the next day?> And than everyone will looked unphased, until i say,dont you think thats pretty stupid you like him for those reasons, and she looks like a asked her to solve a scintific theory,....with the time ticking...........sweating..............than my freind comes back and all of the sudden bubbly renditions of what happened last week are on the agenda.
witch is why i like scorpio females, though eveyone so strongly "insists" they know better and that should not listen to my gut feeling and to there loosely based astrological whims and "Facts".
ranting......but anyways i Know you know what i mean.
I try to put some effort into it and it takes forever for me getting short tempered but it always happens that way.I have really,really good self control and a detaching method I use in situations that Im not really into so it takes a very long time for me to actually get annoyed and start avoiding that person all together or get snappy with them.So im more likely to try to be nice and put up with it but have my limits but most of the time I avoid getting into them if at all possible.
lol,scorp,taurus moon,leo mars and I just found out not too long ago that my sag rising is the leo decan as well so more leo and it can be extremely vicious when I do get angry or blunt so try to keep it in check as as often as I can but it happens and not to pretty being on the recieving end of it so taurus moon again as well as the aquarius pallas sets in and trys to be nice or just all together avoidant of the mess.
And thats exactly what im talking about too,that stupid rambling about nothing that they do,lol.I feel like im talking to children again but even 5 year olds are more mature about things.
I can have a serious almost diplomatical conversation with my 5 year old Capricorn neice. 🙂 Oh you know about, My little pony....Mac and Cheeze.....Barney.......the whole 9.
But none the less regardless of subject theres definately a mature way to operate, and those type of girlies dont do it.
"so hang out with guys because they're less whiney and more likely to talk about things that is more useful and are always changing to upbeat or serious"
True for me too. I have a lot of male friends which I love to hang out with, it's so much fun and I know that whatever I say won't be taken the wrong way or won't be spread all over the world! You gotta admit some chics can send something you've said around the globe within hours... I'm too lazy for that plus I'm no chatterbox unless you give me a good subject that interests me. I have a male aqua friend who I can talk to for HOURS, I don't know how he does it... I'll tell you it takes an aqua to get you into a 'future of the human species' topic...
"Women don't think that they are irrational and complicated, but they truely truly are"
Let me make a correction: A LOT of women don't think that they are irrational and complicated, but MOST truely truly are.
Aaah much better 🙂
You know but it almost seems that it bothers men if you aren't like this. For example there has been times when I've confronted my guy about something and he thought it was unimportant so I shut up because I don't like to complain but I'm mad so I become quiet (not on purpose but because I can't be a hypocrite) so I'll keep my distance for a day while I cool off. Then we hang out and I'm over it, I just don't care anymore and he'll bring it up and ask me if I'm ok and I say 'yes... la la la new topic' and it bothers him, especially when I say 'bout what? what u talking 'bout?' that's for my own entertainment 🙂 Who gets men? Especially when they give you that irritating line, "You have to tell me if something bothers you, I can't read your mind" Well what the hell for? They don't wanna listen anyway. Mine as well talk to myself and tell me everything I know my guy would tell me and get over it myself 🙂 Unless it's a biggie you know... Whatever, what's up with complaining about the opposite sex huh? You love us and we love you... drop it!
sheesh that was long... i was talking about love, i have It all Tightly locked in me. I hevent let barely any of it out. Its been growing to... i need an outlet before i explode into a blissful state, of orgasm. or just die. i dont need anything specific just a girl to hold all the time, i cant help im somtimes aloof and somtimes will not let you go for anything, mostly aloof.
i read venus cap and scorpio cap are the best for this because, only the scorpio venus will understand if not ideal my love's aloofness, at times, see it as a challenge. And both are said to be so in need of love but also afraid of it .
Anyone know/dated one of these before? Would be able to fill me in on a few of their traits, good or bad. And do you guys find the Chinese signs are that important in regards to overall compatibilty?
Im curoius, Its the notorous scorpio trait that runs deep in them all, even cuspies cannot forgive you if there life depeneded on it,.... Are any scorpio open to explain this? (probably a no) I.E. TIA
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