Finally Broke up with Pisces Girlfriend

Well it's been a few months since i last submitted a post...Well last night I finally decided to break up with my Pisces girlfriend...I feel awful...It has been a year of dating this woman. She and I have been having disagreements these last couple of weeks. She told me she is not in love with me yet. She told me she likes me alot and likes spending time with me. She told me does she think she can fall in love with me? and she said yes but she says she needs time. She told me she is not ready yet to open up and even said she might be fighting it(falling in love with me)...The question for me is now what? I did not want to break up with her but felt I had no choice. I have given this woman all of me and feel as though she has not even given half of herself. So I know what I am going through emotionally this morning...Can you guys give me and insight of what she might possible be thinking? Also, what are the chances she realizes what she had and comes back to me? If she does come back will it take her a while like days or weeks to realize it or what?

What was her past relatonship like?
was she hurt?
how did she respond to the break up?

Posted by Ssasy
What was her past relatonship like?
was she hurt?
how did she respond to the break up?

....She was with a guy for almost 2 years and she told me she was very in love with him and he hurt her bad...I gave her space and time but I also wanted to feel love from her and she never told me she loved me.

Posted by freddy42
Well it's been a few months since i last submitted a post...Well last night I finally decided to break up with my Pisces girlfriend...I feel awful...It has been a year of dating this woman. She and I have been having disagreements these last couple of weeks. She told me she is not in love with me yet. She told me she likes me alot and likes spending time with me. She told me does she think she can fall in love with me? and she said yes but she says she needs time. She told me she is not ready yet to open up and even said she might be fighting it(falling in love with me)...The question for me is now what? I did not want to break up with her but felt I had no choice. I have given this woman all of me and feel as though she has not even given half of herself. So I know what I am going through emotionally this morning...Can you guys give me and insight of what she might possible be thinking? Also, what are the chances she realizes what she had and comes back to me? If she does come back will it take her a while like days or weeks to realize it or what?

Save yourself the grief and move on, its been 2 years and the relationship isnt where you want. Why wait for her to make up her mind that she will let you in, go find someone that is available for what you want.

Freeeeeedyyyyyy!!!!!! Or shall I say......free at last! Happy to read you again!

No idea what she might be thinking. Can't put myself in her place, because I either fall in love within 6 months or it never happens. I had several platonic male friends, including one I was sharing a house with, but never gave them false hope or stringed them along. That one came into my room every night after midnight for a chat (and man did he talked! He was a Gemini) and I not even bothered to offer him a seat, since it was so late. I left him standing in the door frame for one hour each night, while I was snuggled up in my bed, listening to his theories about everything!

I did enjoy talking to him and even sharing the house with him, though.

Similarly, I think your Pisces enjoyed your company very much, but for some reason didn't see you as a romantic partner. Obviously, she will miss your company and probably suggest to keep in touch as friends.

Posted by Undine


Similarly, I think your Pisces enjoyed your company very much, but for some reason didn't see you as a romantic partner. Obviously, she will miss your company and probably suggest to keep in touch as friends.

This is very true. Omg. I've been through this situation so many times. I can NEVER have a friend of the opposite sex without him tryna make it into something more and I always end up losing a friend because of it. It's so frustrating! If a Pisces wants to be with you, they will definitely let you know. Trust me on that. But I do think she just wanted to take it slow. Her past relationship definitely plays a part in her behavior as well. Once a Pisces woman has been hurt, it takes us a very long time to trust again. That's just the way we are. Idk, maybe she will realize what she had and come back around or maybe not. But if she wasn't ready and you were, you have every right to let her go and find someone who's ready just like you. But sometimes some of the best relationships are the ones that are taken slow and not rushed. Just saying. Good luck hun. 🙂