can i ask libra's if im doing the right thing??

This topic was created in the Libra forum by prettypiscean on Sunday, September 8, 2013 and has 9 replies.

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@prettypiscean
13 YearsPisces

hi, ive been with my libra guy for more than a month now, im a pisces woman i know were only starting and we have along way to go, were good friends b4 we decided to have a relationship. were doing good, though we have our ups and downs like any other relationship. i guess thats bec we are exact opposites. he loves to go out, i like staying home, he's fond of making so many friends and talking to a lot of girls and i do talk to guy friends too and have friends but not as much as he have, lol. he thinks in a logical and analytical point of view whereas i think intuitively. him being a social butterfly isnt really an issue with me, ive learned to adjust to his personality though i become jealous but i wudn't tell him unless it really hit on me real bad and we'll always make room for adjustments esp him when we reach the point of me getting insecure and sometimes me asking for my space which drives him really crazy, he's always telling me even when he's still courting me, how he wants to marry me and be with me, so when i ask for my solitude he is out of his senses, just couple of days back we had a small arguement bec i find him overdoing his friendliness to the extent of him feeling bad when others dont find him interesting so i told him straight up what ive observe and he said something that hurt my feelings and i end up saying i wont talk for sometime, but i thought its not right so the next morning i message him and said i was sorry then eventually he was the one telling me he needs a break and he will not talk for some time to see how far he can go since he's always the one to talk to me first he's the weak heart between us as he said, i was hurt, i didnt knw its gonna hurt as if some1 stab my heart that the only thing i can do was cry and just say "okay baby", i was out of my senses never thought i'd feel that way so i thought now i know how he feels, but not more than an hour passed he message me saying he cant think of life or anything w/o me in it, lol soo cheesy. i trust him enough to give him so much space, i support him, i cheer him up, i take care of him, i make him feel loved, im his critic too, im passive and i was never possesive and clingy coz i dont want to suffocate him although i knw i hve the tendency to become 1 when i feel threatened in my relationship or worst is i'll just swim away. do u think my guy appreciates what im doing for him? he always tells me that "i'll give my love to all but heart to one, and thats u". thanks

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@prettypiscean
13 YearsPisces

btw can someone also help me study our charts..

me:
rising= cancer
sun= pisces
moon= pisces
mercury=aries
venus= aries

him:
rising= capricorn
sun=libra
moon=gemini
mercury=libra
venus=sagittarius..

hope u can help me get a better read of our charts thanks guys.. and pls help me spot if theres something not right on my way of giving him too much space thanks.. Godbless

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Be careful a Libra says a lot of things but they can also walk away just as easily...when you are hooked!! Too many arguments especially in the beginning will shy them off you.

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@maybemex
13 Years

I met a libra guy in june was just sex we didnt want something serious .After 1 month he told me he wants to live his life i said ok anyway we just have sex on weekends after few days he tells me when he is drunk that he wants more.He seems more open to me when he is drunk but then next day he would deny all saying "i was drunk dont listen me" .Last month i found out that we were in a serious relationship but small changes i met on weekends his friends, we went in club together not just meeting at 3-4 am for sex and sleep together , the Sundays we spent together ..but not during the week ..Now strangely he acts weird his best friend broke up with his gf and im sure that guy tells him that relationships sucks all kind of negative stuff ..He told me today he still thinks about his ex gf the bitch who played him and he loved her ..he still compares the moments (i guess the moments spent with me and the moments with her ) he doesnt want something serious , he is sure he will not fall in love again coz ppl just once in life fall in love .lol. also he doesnt want to lose me ..Im good person and i was TOO GOOD to him ..and he likes me as person , he cares about me ..and he cannot understand how i showed him affection and i kept dating him while he was distant to me ...He knows he asked me to be patient and now ..Im just confused ..i told him we would meet like fuck buddies , but when i find another guy we'll stop . He doesnt want me to be distant to him but he can be distant to me.thats selfish.Seemed when he was drunk he was open to me saying he is afraid that i will leave him for a better looking guy, he was even crazy jealous when a guy talked to me , he always told me i can find anytime another guy (being afraid of), he said he wants love, he wants serious with me , he loves me , but when its sober he denies all..He doesnt want to lose me but also he doesnt want something serious he just wants to be free but have me there too ..Can someone give me some advices please? can i get this guy into me and how?

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@maybemex
13 Years

if you mean that i posted my story here on this page sorry but im new on here. i found now that i can make my own topic ..

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@GeminiSparkler
12 Years

If after only 1 month he is pretending to call it quits then you have problem. If he is that immature that he can't deal with you making a observation that is trying to help him, then you have problems. Libras are known for saying things bluntly and can be quite hurtful sometimes, especially if they have been drinking (not saying your guy drinks). He words don't mean a thing if he actions arn't showing the same thing, don't be naive and fall for him too soon babe, let him prove to you that his intentions are good by watching his actions.