Fish-Man Birthdays

What would be an appropriate birthday gift from a Scorp female for a male Pisces, turning 30, who is somewhat adventurous (his birthday is 3/20, so he's got a lot of Aries in him), kind of interested in mystical stuff, who I've been dating for about 6 months (will be 7 mos when his bday rolls around)?

I find men in general hard to shop for, but particularly in a newish relationship when I don't want the gift to be overly sentimental, or cliche, or cheesy, etc. Any ideas? (I had a hard enough time with picking his gift for V-day, but I think he'll like it).

This may sound kind of femme, but, I've found that even Pisces men like this sort of thing ....


As you know, we are into the mysteries of life ... we like connecting to our souls, meditating, anything really that brings us to our higher power of consciousness ...

Perhaps .. something to help him on a shamanic journey .. something that opens the Anja chakra ... perhaps a crystal with a high vibration.

Maybe a Celestite Geode ... which has a very high vibration and brings the divine energy into the environment and stimulates spiritual development, and has awesome metaphyscial abilities, such as ... it cools firey emotions and creates calmness, not only to the person meditating with it .. also the whole room in which it resides. One of it's really cool qualities is that it promotes TRUST in infinite wisdom ... so, it will help him (everybody in it's presence) to trust their intuitive messages sent to them from the divine energy on the collective consciousness.

Another fabulous crystal is raw Sodalite ... which also is powerful for the intuition, however it works in a different way. It unites logic with intuition, by opening up spiritual perception and bringing the higher (intuitive) mind down to the physical consciousness. When meditating with it, it harmonizes with the Anja (3rd eye chakra), which deepens the level of meditation and brings to you an clear understanding of the circumstances in which you are focused on to heal in your life. It also encourages being true to yourself, and having courage to stand up for your beliefs ..... very emotionally balancing.

I don't think it sounds too femme for him, I actually think he would find all of that fascinating...I am SO googling all of that right now! Thanks!

Oh good .. I'm glad you said that SR .. I was thinking it might be too girly of a gift for a man. There are many other stones with wonderful abilities .. but, these two are blue in color and both helpful with intuition and spiritual development.

Also, Sodalite is a sister to Lapis Lazuli, which is one of the best crystals a person could own (however, too expensive for most people).

P-A. 🙂

LOL...

Well, unfortunately he is extremely ill right now, so my most feminine of gifts may need to be presented at a slightly more realistic time than V-day. Let's hope B-day turns out sexier than V-day will. 😉

I have a special box just for such rainy days. 😛

P Angel, yes I've heard that blue is the favored color for fish...he's a march baby so I wonder if perhaps an aquamarine gemstone has any special powers associated with it, and being his birthstone it could be very apropos. (I actually work in the gem industry so I could easily aquire some nice aquamarine.) I love the look of sodalite; also his fave color is blue...very good ideas. Still googling in fact.

OOoppppsss .. thanks for the smile anyway, SR 🙂 ... Mr. Sweetie

PHEONIX RISING ... sorry, hubby wanted to go out to eat so I left temporarily. How about green Flourite?

Though the color is called green .. it's actually close in shade to aquamarine because it has slivers of indigo laced through it and these two beautiful colors blend nicely to create a lovely shade of a dark blue/green teal looking color. It's not really used for spiritual growth, but has some intuitive abilities. However, it's most powerful quality is a defense against negative energies, of all kinds.

ALL Flourite in general draws away from the people in it's vacinity all negative energies, stress and organizes everything that's not in perfect order within the emotions and mind .. this stone is also very powerful, it purifies and harmonizes everything that's not in perfect order, and it also will work in a large group. I've never thought about this before .. but, it would probably do wonders for kids with attention disorders, it would put order in thier mind to be able to focus better .. an alternative to drugs.

Green Flourite specifically .... It shuts off outside influences (much like all flourite) to make sure you are aware of a higher-power. It grounds excess energy and dissipates emotional trauma. Metaphysically, it can clear infections of in the body, as well as asborb within itself negative infections (energy) within the environment. As for it's intuitive abilities, because of it's colors of green and indigo laced together, it activates the connection between the heart and 3rd eye chakras .. it brings information up from the subconscious mind and transfers these messages into your intuition, and does so by means of your heart .. so in essence, the messages that come through are love based.

It's a marvelous stone to have around. That's really cool that you work with minerals, Phoenix .. Have you ever held a Spirit Quartz in your hand? You can "feel" the vibration of love it sends ... it carries universal love with it everywhere it goes, and this love radiates so powerfully that you can actually feel it in your fingertips. It's incrediable. If you come across one in your work .. hold it to your face, and just soak up all the energy .. you'll love it 🙂

I just googled Flurite and one site said it corresponds with the astrological signs of Pisces and Capricorns.

So, this has even a more profound meaning to it in relation to his birthdate.