Possessive Much

So here's the story...

Went out with my scorp this past weekend, met his Long Island friends (his best friends since grade school), and we all have an instant connection laughing and joking throughout the entire night. Eventually we somehow got into the discussion of PDA, scorp admits he is not into the PDA thing and how it should be all be done behind closed doors. Fine whatever, convo continues and all of a sudden scorp becomes exactly the opposite of what he was just saying. he seems to get annoied at me (why i dont know) and starts yanking at me hair, pulling me closer,and pinching my arm. He eventually starts chewing on my hair, and his friends laugh and i act completely aloof and laugh it off as him being cute... but hes never like that.

How old is he?

26

and hes never acted so childish, seriously i just brushed it off like 'aww'... and in actuallity im like 'huh?"

Were any of the other guys giving you attention? My guess would be they were, so he was "marking you" as his territory for their benefit.

I agree with Sea Siren. He had to make a point to the crowd that you are HIS.

This is quite flattering though. Hes really into you.

yea i figured he was marking territory, wasnt sure. its like we were all joking around having fun, the guys thought i was kool and i figured thats what you'd want ur guys friend to think of ur girl. someone whos chilled out and can actually laugh and not be a stiff. i am kinda flattered, it was BEYOND out of character

Yeah, they do that. Kind of the way dogs piss on a tree, only not as gross. 🙂

lolz eww thats so bad!!!!! yea hes like that, im kinda flattery but confused, like are they all like that? hes never possessive around me, but he wouldnt stop attacking me. it was kinda funny like hes so serious all the time, then so randomly playful

I've dated two and they both got more physically attentive to me when other males were around. Once, I sat down next to another guy at a party because someone had taken my seat next to my Scorp while I was in the kitchen. He literally picked me up and sat me on his lap. Then I had to field twenty questions on the way home about why I sat by the other guy. 😛

lmfao, yea i kinda gave my number to one of his guy friends, not in the 'i want ur number', but more like 'cuz we like the same shit and he knows i talk to my bf all the time and hes going away soon so to keep in touch ya kno? well i had the 20 question drive to ihop.... oy that was annoying, like i kinda nipped it in the bud at the begining by being like 'ur friends are madd cool and hilarious, definately keep in touch incase u DONT TALK TO ME EVER AGAIN!!!!!'... and hes like 'theres always time for u, always! like sometimes yea i have to go out of my way to make sure he knows i adore him. its weird, sometimes its fun seeing him jealous, but i wouldnt do it purposely... thats kinda dick-ish

Yeah...why bring the interrogation on on purpose? No thanks! 🙂

yea honestly a nice trusting relationship is a happy relationship. he's told me of the psycho's he used to date, so the last thing i want is to be the total nutbag. i mean hes mentioned he is slightly jealous on occasion and will act, but im happy hes smooth with it. like he picked me up this weekend and we had an amazing weekend at his place watching movies and bsing.... omg i miss him already and i saw him this morning. bleh.. why are they so addictive... im convinced they're like ice cream to a diabetic!

Hmm This is odd. Is he a Libra or a Scorpio?

In this post - you stated he was a Libra and now hes a Scorpio.....

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/possessive-much-1193911/

lolz, exactly my problem. a majority of the time i have to look at both. hes really more on the scorp side, i.e. he has an extreme amount of scorp tendancies and then he'll act like more of a libra. i figured with two posts i'll get someone to explain the actions on both sides without blaming one or the other sign.

my best friends libra (full libra) once got really possessive and said he'd break her head through a fence if she gave one of his guy friends her number to KIT.

that in mind i didnt wanna pass the judgement thinking that was just a scorp trait. i'd have to say i've probably heard the anti-pda from more libras then scorps (which explains that... cuz im huge on pda so i wouldnt see why not?). Also libran dont really mark territory... but scorps tend to. so hearing advice on a libra/scorp separately, helps me figure him out and what to do when hes in one mode or the other. hence the two blogs, same person tho! no cheater here ^_^

Hmmm...I have Venus in Sag, and also I'm slightly cuspish (Oct. 25th). My flirtation style is often of the physically playful kind. So I wonder what his Venus placement is. I've dated a scorp male and been around a few, and I would say that even for 26 that's fairly typical scorpish flirtation, and definitely a marking of the territory thing.

his venus is in virgo, but all the virgo men i've met have been clingy and very odd. hence why i stay away from all virgos alike. they make me feel more uncomfortably rather then secure.

of course your gonna be playful, anyone whos part sag is a total nut ball! my moms a sag and shes hilarious! shes like a 55 yr old going on 16, she would make an excellent cheerleader if she wasnt so old.