Help with a pisces guy from a taurus girl

Ok, so there's this guy I've known since 2005. We went to college together (I've since left that university), but we hung out a lot. This is kinda long cause I feel it's best of I give the full story.

First semester of school, I was seeking someone else and didn't really notice how he felt about me. He would sit next to me when we had seminars together, and at one point I said something that made him smile and put his head on my shoulder. Anyway, it continued like that for a while, we were friends and he'd sit next to me in the lounge and stuff. Was generally being very nice (he's usually condescending/neutral to the guys and polite with other girls). At the time I had a very overblown dream that pointed me in his direction (prince and princess type dream), but I didn't realize it was him at the time. And I know he really liked me because I did something really stupid to him, but he didn't get really angry and when I apologized on his cell (voice message) he came in and gave me the most awesome hug the next day in the middle of the hall.

During winter break I realized that the dream was pointing me to him. I'm someone who reads tarot cards, and in readings his card, Prince of Cups has come up when I tried to decide what college to go to and when I was interpreting my dream. So, I went after him during Fall semester. It was successful, he was very responsive and we related toe ach other. However, my frustration was building up, and I would get sad and depressed because he never asked me out or anything (I was definetly sure he liked me a great or at least good deal) and I was fed up with dancing around the issue (I didn't bring it up either cause I had done that sort of thing a few times already and was getting sick of putting myself out there first).

What I finally did was stop coming to the lounge. We didn't have any classes together anymore so I never saw him.

After being in a relationship with someone else for about 6 months, I realized I can't get that Pisces out of my mind. He really was like a prince to me and I feel, as cheesy or ridiculous as it sounds, that fate/destiny is pushing me back to him (all of the tarot I've done about us keeps coming up with the "Lovers" card or something similar). In fact, I'm planning to visit my old school Wednesday this week, in hopes of seeing him (tarot has hinted there still might be feelings about me in him).

Can anyone give me some advice please? I don't want to mess things up again.

Oh yeah, I have reason to believe he still has room for me/doesn't have a gf because the cards I pulled said he's suffering....because of me ^^;;; Yeah, I know that doesn't exactly bode well, but if he allows I'm willing to make up for past mistakes.

"I don't want to mess things up again."

Obviously, he does not mind you messing up. Whats the problem then?

antiquebeast, there's a huge problem here, from what I can see. Perhaps, your cards are right, and you know how you feel, so that has to be right .. thing is, you've not the nerve to approach the real issue with him because of a past experience .. so, if after months and months of developing this "relationship" of friendship, you cower-away and him as well .. what makes you think that Wednesday would be any different?

Truthfully, I'm gonna be honest here .. I think you're afraid because you KNOW that these feelings you are having is coming from two sources and neither one of them are reliable because they aren't coming from HIM .. tarot cards and Prince Charming dream. So, this makes you scard to approach him. You said, " .. I had done that sort of thing a few times already and was getting sick of putting myself out there first"

Why? If I had genuine feelings for someone, it matters not who does the approaching, so long as we get together and enjoy each other.

Seriously .. put your cards away, put your dream out of your head because neither one of them are him .. they can't speak for him .. tell him how you feel and let the cards fall where they will, hehehehehehe ..

You said, "he'd sit next to me in the lounge and stuff. Was generally being very nice. At the time I had a very overblown dream that pointed me in his direction (prince and princess type dream).."

This dream came after you realized he liked you .. not before .. so this isn't a vision or preminition, antiquebeast .. yet, you take it like some kind of sign. Hell, I dream about Brad Pitt every night, sweetie .. this means nothing, except just being a girl, with her eyes closed in slumber, while sleeping in fantasyland called "dreaming".

He's real .. he's not a card, or a Prince .. he's just a person .. tell him.

When you said you've done this before .. I hope it wasn't similiar to this situation and that's why you are afraid to approach him? If so, you really need to take a step back and look at what's going on with YOU because tarots aren't suppose to be used that way .. they can only predict human behaviour - not the human itself.

Good Luck tomarrow.

You misunderstand me. I know he's human, which is why I feel terrible about leaving and snot saying anything. I was inexperienced at the time and had troubles of my own which is why I acted the way I did.

I'm not so naive to put all my trust in my cards, they've just capture the basic idea very well. I know there's more to a person than that. Hell, I still feel insecure which is why before coming here I asked a pisces friend I know for advice as well as other people a bunch of times.

Of course I'm gonna tell him! That's why I'm coming in tomorrow! 😆

Anyway, the dream had a bunch to say about myself to, so I think it's much deeper than "hey he likes you."

Thank you though.

This is just me but I found that a pisces guy is usually pretty straight forward in his desires. I never had to guess or dream up a relationship with the guy. He was very sweet and romantic to me, so that I knew without a doubt that he thought long term with me. It scared the hell out of me, but I completely respect him for being so darn honest. I actually don't think that i could make him happy as I'll never be able to follow his directions as I have a rebellious streak.

But if you want a pisces guy, simply be honest with him and try to be sweet. If you put too much pressure on the guy, he's going to swim away fast!!! Your dreams and hopes might kill any real relationship simply because you are not letting him figure out that he might want you (on his own accord!)

"I'm not so naive to put all my trust in my cards, they've just capture the basic idea very well. I know there's more to a person than that."

That's not what I meant, when I said, "look at what's going on with YOU because tarots aren't suppose to be used that way .. they can only predict human behaviour - not the human itself."

I was talking about YOU. You are allowing yourself to be influenced by the cards, letting them direct YOUR life. There's more to YOU than what's in the tarot cards.

"that fate/destiny is pushing me back to him (all of the tarot I've done about us keeps coming up with the "Lovers" card or something similar). In fact, I'm planning to visit my old school Wednesday this week, in hopes of seeing him (tarot has hinted there still might be feelings about me in him)."

"I have reason to believe he still has room for me/doesn't have a gf because the cards I pulled said he's suffering....because of me ^^;;; Yeah, I know that doesn't exactly bode well, but if he allows I'm willing to make up for past mistakes."


YOU have reason to believe this because of the cards .. I wasn't meaning that there is more to him .. I meant there is more to YOU .. and I fear that you are letting the cards direct your life .. you are willing to take steps based off of tarot cards.

I worry that you might be making a mistake .. if you want to be with this person, then let yourself direct you, not cards, or God, or peers, or money, or anything else.

YOU, luv. I'm not trying to offend you .. just giving you the impression I get and giving you another person's perspective.

In any event, I hope everything works out for you.

P-Angel I just wanted to let you know that you're being clear. It really does read that the cards are her way of decision making instead of the brain. (nothing wrong with the cards or using them, but don't let them be a crutch for your own mind making the choices it makes.)

I see what you mean. Naw, it's not just the cards, I know I have to do it/think for myself (part of the reason I still feel unsure despite what they say). I already liked him and just used them as a form of insight.

Oh, ok 🙂

You were scaring me a tad .. I was thinking you were getting ready to throw yourself at him because of the cards.

You know .. him being a Pisces, it's likely that he already knows that you are into him .. most of us can just feel this emotion inside of others. He might be waiting for you to respond accordingly .. you may be surprised .. he may grab you and place a big, wet kiss on you.

So Pisces and Taurus can be a match?

I've been friends with a Pisces for years, his wife left him...and we have been emailing each other like everyday. I used to like him in HS...thats been almost 10 years ago. However, I sense a connection there. He has kids, and I don't have kids nor have I even been married!

I think he is awesome though. And I wonder if I should stop emailing him because I don't want to lead him on.