How can I say this without being judged?

My husband, myself, his sister, and her "boo" hang out often as a foursome. We go out to game-rooms, out to eat, they come over we watch movies. We all click, and its fun 🙂 like a family. She even has a little girl, and she is my niece 🙂

Now how do I say this without people commenting and saying "What the fuck just go for it."

I am a cancer, I don't see it that way...

My husbands EX is best-friends with his sister, they were close before he dated her. That is her best-friend, but since my husband ended things with her, the relationship with ex and her is kind of faltering. For one I feel that is kind of awkward, because her "boo" is the father of her child, and he was so cool with ex also that he is okay with saying that this is also her niece too.

I have a nitch to be more to his sister, than just for us to say "we are sisters" because of "legal" stuff. I don't know how to go about introducing that idea to her without being weird. I am mostly shying away from the idea because of the above text, but we have a-lot in common, and I'd love to hang out with her on my own terms. We text from time to time, but not like that. Plus I'm pregnant also with her niece/nephew, and it'd be awesome for us to have already formed a relationship on our own.

She a Pisces, and I probably know 1% of her lol, but I don't know how to go about being more.

Help? I guess? What approach should I take?

I dont fuckin' know I feel weird enough typing this, but just getting it off my chest.

I'm not chasing anything, but wondering how to go about asking for a day to hang without it seeming forced.

What you said though struck a nerve in me because one of my former best friends was a Virgo.. Birthday September 11th, and she kind of left me in the dust, along with doing several other things behind my back, and in front of my face, but my God-mom is a Virgo, and has never done anything to wrong me.

I don't want to go about not trusting her because of that. She hasn't done anything to make me ..not trust her

Its a long story, but there was a lot of times I stuck up for her only to find out the things that I was defending her for were true.

After our friendship ended. A good amount of things that were in the dark came to light, and ultimately I found her to be not as good of a best-friend as I thought she was.

One thing in particular she did was say I was "jealous of her." She was talking to this guy, and he was somewhat of a friend of mine, and she liked him so I told her that truth about him, and ended it with "He's got a lot of temporary issues, just be careful."

After that began dating he was verbally abusing her. She had so many excuses of why it wasn't abuse. One day he verbally abused her in-front of her sister, and her sister say's "How can he talk to you like that, and you let him." Her sister was 11 at the time.

She was always giving him money, and he'd buy drugs with it, ask her for more money. He lied to her so much, and I had all the proof in the world of him lying ... but for whatever reason, pictures, screenshots, even messages ... and she said "You're jealous."

She really hurt my heart, she had been the only female friend I could literally tell any and everything to, and it was all a waste. it pathetic, but its been over two years, and it still makes me sad.

Two of my very best friends are Sags...I've been good friends with a sag for 11years, and the other one; 5years... I also have a good Aquarius friend, but our relationship had been iffy over the last year.

My husband is also an Aquarius I love him to pieces lol.

The only pisces people I've encountered have been my brothers girlfriend of 8years, and I sometimes have a distaste towards her, and another guy pisces..he was so close-minded, and just a lack of openess (if that's a word) in just about everything.

I haven't had good experiences, but then again I can't say I've been close enough to one to have a real agenda about them.

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Posted by AFineFrenzy07
My husband, myself, his sister, and her "boo" hang out often as a foursome. We go out to game-rooms, out to eat, they come over we watch movies. We all click, and its fun 🙂 like a family. She even has a little girl, and she is my niece 🙂

Now how do I say this without people commenting and saying "What the fuck just go for it."

I am a cancer, I don't see it that way...

My husbands EX is best-friends with his sister, they were close before he dated her. That is her best-friend, but since my husband ended things with her, the relationship with ex and her is kind of faltering. For one I feel that is kind of awkward, because her "boo" is the father of her child, and he was so cool with ex also that he is okay with saying that this is also her niece too.

I have a nitch to be more to his sister, than just for us to say "we are sisters" because of "legal" stuff. I don't know how to go about introducing that idea to her without being weird. I am mostly shying away from the idea because of the above text, but we have a-lot in common, and I'd love to hang out with her on my own terms. We text from time to time, but not like that. Plus I'm pregnant also with her niece/nephew, and it'd be awesome for us to have already formed a relationship on our own.

She a Pisces, and I probably know 1% of her lol, but I don't know how to go about being more.

Help? I guess? What approach should I take?

I dont fuckin' know I feel weird enough typing this, but just getting it off my chest.

Is this like a competition thing? Are you seeking her approval and want to know that you are accepted by her as much as it was the other woman?

I personally do not like try hards. Let if flow naturally and the less you cling on to the Pisces the more space you will give her to want to come closer to you.

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Nooo not all.

I just want to be a family on my own term without just saying "we're family." because I'm married in. I do want it to flow naturally, but It can't happen if we are kind of up in there air,I want a hang out day with her without it seeming forced.

I'm sort of awkward sometimes so I don't know how to go about it.

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Sorry. Cleaning up, and cooking before hubz gets off work.