How do Cancer and Pisces come along on dating?

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I've been dating this Pisces girl for a month now and I agree with all the other posts Pisceans have posted.

She can be really nice and hot to me on one date and very indifferent on another, doesn't like to be tied down, likes people who are hard to get, lies occassionally even though she said she didn't, but she's super sweet to me and affectionate and we talk on the phone and text each other a lot, but we kind of only see each other once or twice a week

Should I play hard to get to her sometimes?

Tks
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cancer & pisces happens naturally, i mean you do not have to play hard or something just be yourself...call her 100 times a day if you feel like calling...be clingy if you want to...i do not see any compatibility problem...it just sometimes gets overwhelming.

If it is only a month with time you will learn and adapt to each other then it becomes even easier....especially Pisces is willing to adapt more if she loves you heads over heels.

But, Man these pisces are sneaky they are good at break ups..it is like holding a tickling bomb under your coat; you never know when she unexpectedly declares that she wants a break up and changes her mind next day...good luck!
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Calling, texting a lot should not be a problem i guess....i used to call any time of the day and usually she would be in the mood.
Perhaps mine was that way...regarding that sweetness and affection that's a treasure you rarely find in others and actually that is what will always be reminding you of her in case if you break up...

I would probably end up marrying my pisces if i did not go for my education to another country. Pisces are out of site out of mind..maybe that's good...dunno...started dating a scorp girl lately but still miss pisces sometimes...those sweetness, being all mushy...making huge fun conversations out of any crappy topic...
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yes I totally agree with you, she would compliment me so often that I feel so good around her, of course in turn I compliment her back

I do agree with you that they are spaced out sometimes and also they like to revenge if you ever cross her and they are good actresses, I know another Pisces who totally cheats and lies all the time! (no offense to other Pisceans) and they play a lot of mind games........... > <

They are really really fun people to hang out with and they are spontaneous!

But being a crab myself, security is the most important factor to me and I doubt if ever any Piscean can provide that because the ones that I know always flirt and they like a lot of people liking them and spoil them. And I feel sometimes she doesn't know for sure who she likes!
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Posted by crabbeme


But being a crab myself, security is the most important factor to me and I doubt if ever any Piscean can provide that because the ones that I know always flirt and they like a lot of people liking them and spoil them. And I feel sometimes she doesn't know for sure who she likes!



EXACTLY, dude! they do like a lot of people liking them...that would drive me nuts!

She had that 'little princess syndrome'

with scorp you feel more secure but not as much fun as with fish
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she's young, 23 , but she said she's only seeing me..........and no others




...Dont believe that shit



I think most Pisces don't lie about things like that. If she says she's only seeing you then that's probably the truth. The only thing I've lied about before as far as seeing other people, is telling guys I was in a relationship when I really wasn't so they would leave me alone. I would never be in a relationship with a guy and also see someone else though.
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I have no idea if she's lying or not, maybe I trust 65% of it........it takes more time to find out

I have a good feeling though, cos she said if I was seeing others, you would know......lol

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it's ok I got it Lena, your venus info is nice, I am reading that website

does it matter if she thinks I am too easy to get already?..........no challenge any more?

If I don't text her back too often, would she be insecure?


She might wonder what happened to you. But there's a thin line between intriguing her with you absence, and making her think you're not interested...that might hurt her feelings, I know it would hurt mine!

Is her Moon Aqua or Pisces? Praying for your sake it's Pisces😛 Aqua Moons are very complicated/detached.



I am sorry, how do I find her moon?
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found it, she's Moon Pisces
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it's ok I got it Lena, your venus info is nice, I am reading that website

does it matter if she thinks I am too easy to get already?..........no challenge any more?

If I don't text her back too often, would she be insecure?


She might wonder what happened to you. But there's a thin line between intriguing her with you absence, and making her think you're not interested...that might hurt her feelings, I know it would hurt mine!

Is her Moon Aqua or Pisces? Praying for your sake it's Pisces😛 Aqua Moons are very complicated/detached.



I am sorry, how do I find her moon?
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found it, she's Moon Pisces and my moon is Gemini
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I'm in the same situation. Sorta... My chart is: rising sag/ Cancer sun/ Virgo,Libra cusp moon/ merc Cancer,leo cusp/ venus Virgo/ mars cancer.
Her chart is. (dont know her rising) Pisces sun/ scropio moon/ merc Pisces/ Venus Aquarius/ Mars Aquarius.

We get along beautifully. Chemistry is there and we never run out of things to say. She is fun to be around with. And we are always in each other??s "comfort zone" and light touching... I don't know how to explain it, but it's that way of flirty touch. It sorta feels like your almost holding hands, but slightly grazing our skin with each other. Lots of bumping into each other as well.

Anyway, whatever??_ What's the 411 on this birth chart compatibility? 🙂
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Hi pyewacket, tks for all your comments , I give her a lot of space but I am always here when she needs me, I don't play hard to get. Does having sex make any difference in this early stage because we do make out a lot 🙂 and intense attraction can be felt, we always carry hands when we go out

Shi---yep , same here too, she's so much fun to be with and we talk about anything ! And laugh at any silly thing lol

Lena --- what's her moon pisces like ? She said she used to date a lot few years ago (even dated 5 men at the same time ) but now she said she's changed and can only like one person at a time , she said shes only seeing me but I sometimes smell a rat like , I can't trust her completely but I guess it takes time ? She is attractive and has one intense admirer who would intentionally call her on our date! It's annoying , I don't want to show my attitude but even I told her I don't like it , she still didn't cut the other person off, what should I do?
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Lena, you ar an expert, what you describe is exactly how she is, lol, she won't even have any response if she's even remotely interested in me, I should be "enjoying" these mind games then lol

I guess you are right ~~ the goods do outweigh the bads........

takes a lot of time to read her out........and has to give her lots and lots of freedom, the one who doesn't tie her down wins or may not win at all

please elaborate ~~~> A lot of the time you'll find yourself extending that olive branch cause they wont, and you don't want to risk them turning cold on you.
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well, I am smart enough to not never made her mad or irritated but once, but I said sorry and be friendly with her and she's ok. I think if i contacted her or pressured her at all, she will feel initimidated. She's a fish that's hard to catch.........

but she often say she's only seeing me and she said she doesn't see any reason why we wouldn't work out at the end......... she's optimistic in a way and we are attracted to each other. Does sex have anything to do with this? If I have sex with her, would it change?
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Moon in Pisces people take everything personally. This makes them very emotionally hurt, so you are going to have to walk around on tip-toes around her most of the time. The upside is that if you are engaging in something sensitive with them, they will feel it all the way down to their core.


As for trusting whether she's telling you the truth .... the charm of the Piscean is that they make their partner their whole world, they will make their partner feel like s/he is the only one alive .. the Fish will give thier partner their full undivided attention, affection, respect and trust.

Now, if the Fish isn't doing that .... then you aren't in the consideration of being her partner. If she doesn't consider you her man, then she won't do those things, and she might multi-date. That is how you gauge whether you are the only one or not.
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Read back through this. I admit I skimmed it the first time. And I was thinking more about my relationship than yours. Here are my thoughts on yours...

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mmm......I doubted calling her so much would be a good idea, she doesn't like that

yea and she talks about her ex a lot, how much good times they had, but she always said she won't go back to him and he's his best friend now only



I agree this is a red flag. Unless, their relationship was never physical, the ex came out as gay or she came out. I could never be best friends with an ex. Friends on a superficial level but not best friends. Also she speaks of good times. Why did they break up? Hmm... When she talks about the ex does she bring him up or you? Does his name slip out in conversation? If so, not a good sign.

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she's young, 23 , but she said she's only seeing me..........and no others

I do have a hard time believing in anything she says though @_@



Why do you have a hard time believing her? What lies have you caught her in? Trust is essential in a successful relationship. If you can't trust her now, will you ever be able too?
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I am very good friend with my ex of 4 years also, so I think that's ok, his name slip out in conversation and most of the time, she brought him up. (they just broke up 7 months ago, I guess it's still not too much time yet) but whenever I asked her, she would say she doesn't want to be romantically involved with him anymore
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Lena --- what's her moon pisces like ? She said she used to date a lot few years ago (even dated 5 men at the same time ) but now she said she's changed and can only like one person at a time , she said shes only seeing me but I sometimes smell a rat like , I can't trust her completely but I guess it takes time ? She is attractive and has one intense admirer who would intentionally call her on our date! It's annoying , I don't want to show my attitude but even I told her I don't like it , she still didn't cut the other person off, what should I do?



I have hard time believing she dated 5 guys at once. Maybe two. Three at tops. Did she work or go school? I have difficult time with just one to fit in my schedule. She possibly said this as a tactic. To make you think she is desirable. Do compliment her before or after she compliments you. She might think you are just being nice if it's after. Or just want to have sex with her. Maybe it's a way to gauge your intent?

Have you told her that you want a monogamous relationship? She might feel since no terms were made, than no obligations need to be met.

The intense admirer is quite possibly her ex. Again red flag. But then again if you haven't establish exclusivity...do you think it's fair to ask her to cut the other person off?
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she said that's like 3 years ago,and she won't do it again, she said she's more "selective" now, and she said if she's seeing another person, she will let me know. She goes to school only

I did say I want a monogamous relationship, but I like to go clubbing around once a week (just for hanging out with friends) and I was honest to her, she said once, "but you are going out so often, you can meet alot of people......"

she's been honest and told me alot about this intense admirer, and it's not her ex. I guess maybe he thought he had a chance until I came along, and I guess she might jump to another person if she meets another more attractive guy than me............

at only one month of dating, establish exclusivity is too early to say, let me do a survey here, for how long do you girls/guys date until you establish exclusivity or become girlfriends and boyfriends?
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Moon in Pisces people take everything personally. This makes them very emotionally hurt, so you are going to have to walk around on tip-toes around her most of the time. The upside is that if you are engaging in something sensitive with them, they will feel it all the way down to their core.


As for trusting whether she's telling you the truth .... the charm of the Piscean is that they make their partner their whole world, they will make their partner feel like s/he is the only one alive .. the Fish will give thier partner their full undivided attention, affection, respect and trust.

Now, if the Fish isn't doing that .... then you aren't in the consideration of being her partner. If she doesn't consider you her man, then she won't do those things, and she might multi-date. That is how you gauge whether you are the only one or not.



no she's not giving me too much attention, but does it grow with time? maybe she's still doubtful about me and still thinking if I am the right person?
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Moon in Pisces people take everything personally. This makes them very emotionally hurt, so you are going to have to walk around on tip-toes around her most of the time. The upside is that if you are engaging in something sensitive with them, they will feel it all the way down to their core.


As for trusting whether she's telling you the truth .... the charm of the Piscean is that they make their partner their whole world, they will make their partner feel like s/he is the only one alive .. the Fish will give thier partner their full undivided attention, affection, respect and trust.

Now, if the Fish isn't doing that .... then you aren't in the consideration of being her partner. If she doesn't consider you her man, then she won't do those things, and she might multi-date. That is how you gauge whether you are the only one or not.



no she's not giving me too much attention, but she bakes for me, and always say she likes me (sometimes she would say she really likes me) maybe it will grow with time? maybe she's still doubtful about me and still thinking if I am the right person?
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Cancers are too lenient for Pisces when it comes to caring what the Fish does .... most of these combos don't appear to make it because of this factor.


It's probably why she talks to and about other men ... so long as you pretend to be cool with it, and act aloof, she will continue to try and get you to care enough to act like she's the one you want.


The thing is though, Cancers do care .. but, instead of actually letting the other person realize it, they'd rather use it. I'm not sure why Cancers do that, though.
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I do show that when her admirer calls that is annoying , but not necessarily jealous

So all the texting , and sometimes stupid mind games are just done to get me jealous ?

Example : we usually see two times a week due to busy work schedules and family obligations . And usually it's wed or Saturday or Sunday , so last Sunday I was asking when do you want to meet me again and she said I can't do wed or friday cos I have to catch up with old friends , let's see again on the weekend , and I was like oh bummer ~~~~ but I was ok about it

Then Tuesday came , she texted me at 6pm asking me "what are you doing tomorrow ?" I lied to her saying I am meeting up with my college fds , then she texted back and said oh my fd cancels on her and we could have met ....... I wanted to see you ~~~~~ then I was like oh bummer ! I want to see you too.......

And I gave in at 11:45 pm on tuesday night and "cancelled" my imaginary wed dinner and went out with her on wed night lol
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I do show that when her admirer calls that is annoying , but not necessarily jealous

So all the texting , and sometimes stupid mind games are just done to get me jealous ?

Example : we usually see two times a week due to busy work schedules and family obligations . And usually it's wed or Saturday or Sunday , so last Sunday I was asking when do you want to meet me again and she said I can't do wed or friday cos I have to catch up with old friends , let's see again on the weekend , and I was like oh bummer ~~~~ but I was ok about it

Then Tuesday came , she texted me at 6pm asking me "what are you doing tomorrow ?" I lied to her saying I am meeting up with my college fds , then she texted back and said oh my fd cancels on her and we could have met ....... I wanted to see you ~~~~~ then I was like oh bummer ! I want to see you too.......

And I gave in at 11:45 pm on tuesday night and "cancelled" my imaginary wed dinner and went out with her on wed night lol
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Sounds like you are playing games.


Strike whatever I said because it doesn't apply ... I was misled, or misinterpretated the situation. I thought you wanted to work on securing a relationship .. but, I see you want to work on playing for attention.


I swear, everytime I think Cancer people might be different from my perspective of them ... shit like this happens, and I'm right back to my original assessment of them.


I don't like Cancers for this reason ... and I can't seem to find one who isn't a player.


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I swear, everytime I think Cancer people might be different from my perspective of them ... shit like this happens, and I'm right back to my original assessment of them.

I don't like Cancers for this reason ... and I can't seem to find one who isn't a player.




Pisces Swordfish called me this last week 😢
If you're a social Crab, a Fish needs a lot of reassurance after you've been out partying with or without them.

crabbeme... you have to get real with your Fish and stop trying to protect your feelings if you want things to move forward. Too much insecurity in love with both these signs and someone has to take the reigns and be vulnerable first. It will probably have to be you, since you're Cardinal and all. But not too much... it has to be subtle.

Your indirect way of letting her know the admirer's phone calls are annoying, probably isn't direct enough. Show your annoyance without making it a personal attack on her. I had to tell my Fish that I didn't want anyone else but him and if he kept trying to make me jealous I would not be responsible for any violent actions on my part. His answer, "thank you"

Then you have to be consistent with your focus on them, even when they are flighty. That whole being ambiguous about plans next week is a perfect example. My Pisces hates making future plans and doesn't want to be tied down to a specific date and time, so he will lie about things he has to/ plans to do. Not really lying because he could do them, just won't. Instead of making up fake plans to try and make yourself look more interesting or desirable, be more like, 'ok, let's see what happens because I'd really like to see you.'

The whole "payback" card with Cancer/Pisces can be draining if one of you doesn't stop it.

The Pisces did talk about his ex quite a bit in the beginning. It was more him trying to work out what went wrong, why did this happen kind of thing which is healthy. I think they have a similar 'attached factor' to ex's like Crabs even though they won't admit it. And when a Fish says they could no longer be in a relationship with that person, believe them.

Cancer/Pisces is not an easy relationship, but never dull. Lots of pleasure/pain scenarios. But hey... that might work for you 😉
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I've never dated a Scorp though, I am starting to wonder if I should date another Crab



Dating another crab..dunno with so much similarity...

I have just started dating a scorp so it is too early for any judgment but so far i find it true that in cancer & scorp relationship both put on table whatever they have to offer
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Agree with you that Cancer-Cancer may not be a good match, just as Pisces-Pisces is not a good match in most cases.

How is the Scorp girl these days?

Snap!