How to keep a Pisces man sexually interested?

Here's the deal:
We've been together for almost three years. Pisces male, Scorpio female. In the past year I've been away for grad school but we see each other every week or ten days, which is perfect for both of us (we both need our own space). For the most part, not much has changed, we still lay in bed for hours, limbs tangled, kissing under covers and very much in love. However, our sex life has been deteriorating with time... I mean, it's alright, and the culprit may be the routine that we've developed. We both know how to get each other off and it's just like, a race to the end.

I guess you'd say that me being a Scorpio has something to do with it, but I really need more. I need to have more quality sex, not just a quickie when we wake up. I feel that we are rather bored with each other because we take each other for granted, physically. I want to surprise him by buying nice lingerie or.... what? I don't know guys!! You gotta help me. I'm at a point where I'm feeling a bit insecure about myself because he doesn't show me as often as he used to how attractive I am. What to do? Can you (Pisces males) share what you would personally find attractive or intriguing? I really want this to work. I know not all Pisces are the same, I just need a clue and I'll figure it out from there.

Thanks for your help!!

the one that i'm dealing with loves for me to tell him stories about my fantasies...we don't have sex everyday, we let the anticipation build up....he likes to hear what i want and that turns him on becuz he wants to be the one to act out my fantasies with me....also it might be hard but you might need a little space from him, if you see him everyday, stop doing that. Let him miss you a little...We like a little light bondage too...

well, we don't see each other every day because as i said - i moved 6 hours away to go to grad school. we still see each other once every week or ten days, which is perfect.... though, sometimes i feel that maybe he is a bit shy.. but i don't know why he would be shy with me, we've been together for three years?

Yeah lots of imagery is in order..Mine also likes when i wear thongs all day and then give them to him...

"His first Christmas present to me was a bottle of my favourite perfume wrapped in some seamed silk stockings"

*sigh* Don't we fishes give the best presents? lol Seriously, I always put a lot of thought into stuff like that (especially if it's for my sweetie). My pisces friends and relatives have given me some of the best gifts I've ever gotten. Capricorn ladies have given me some great ones, too. Cappies are so thorough about everything, it lends itself to good gift-giving. 🙂

i found a youtube video on the topic
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=GPOXkO6jWbQ

thanks for the good tips, guys. i think that sometimes i intimidate him because i can be pretty straightforward. it scares him off. i also noticed that he likes sex to be a spontaneous thing rather than planned..... it makes sense.. i just want it to be different sometimes, but i don't know how to propose it without making him feel defensive or pressured.

Hmm perhaps you should take the control. Im pretty sure alot of pisces like the other partner to be dominate. Try and ease him in to sex to get more of it. Kissing, touching, cuddling, or those ky lube things, that have taste, or warming sinsations, or eving a tingling sensation. Your pisces will want to please you. And if you have a real deep connection and know each other well, you could maybe even read his mind and vise versa. And like you said...being really straight forward can intimidate him. Dont use words, use actions.

Thanks guys!! He is coming to pick me up back home for the summer next week..

I'm bumping this thread because I want to hear from the guys too... where are you hiding?