@thelibran
20 Years1,000+ Posts
A Pisces man often dislikes a woman who is harsh with his feelings, dismisses his moods, pressures him for answers, or creates constant drama. In real situations, many people notice he may not argue directly and instead goes quiet, delays replies, or slowly disappears when he feels judged. The biggest turnoff is feeling emotionally unsafe, not just having normal conflict.
Not male here ... but, I know that one of the things all Pisces will swim away from (both genders), is any type of control. We're free swimmers and won't be bound to living our life as directed by somebody else. And control can be expressed in many forms .. we swim away from all of them ..
Jealousy and possessiveness are huge to us .. display either of those two (along with any control issues) .. and we bail on the person without any warning ... just swim away as if they never existed.
Seeing that we're talking about a Bull ... I would suspect that if she toned down her stubbornness, then there probably won't be any serious issues. Pisces and Taurus normally get on quite well together. However, the Bull can get obstinant and not "listen" .. and this might be the only thing she really has to worry about with her Pisces man .... because having our partner actually "hear" and understand what we're saying is one of our biggest obstacles with anybody.
SD@
IT FUNNY SOME OF THIS STUFF YOU DESCRIBE ARE EXCALTY TRAITS OF A PISCES MAN 🙂
LIKE "Moodiness, Passive Aggressiveness, Know-it-alls, Controlling folks, , Insensitivity, Selfishness,Lack of Emotional Control, Neediness
:NEED I SAY MORE?
WHAT'S SO GOOD ABOUT PISCES MAN ANYWAY??
Well beside the good sex
OH the aggravation :0 🙂 they are pain in the @ $ $ 🙂 At least my pisces is 🙂
:_) @SD 🙂
speacially that passive aggressive thing...🙂 I just look it and could hand some traits that belongs to pisces man ( well to human period🙂 :0
Common signs
There are certain behaviors that help identify passive-aggressive behavior. [3]
Ambiguity
Avoiding responsibility by claiming forgetfulness
Blaming others
Chronic lateness and forgetfulness
Complaining
Does not express hostility or anger openly - (e.g., expresses it instead by leaving notes)
Fear of authority
Fear of competition
Fear of dependency
Fear of intimacy (infidelity as a means to act out anger)
Fosters chaos
Intentional inefficiency
Making excuses
Losing things
Lying
Obstructionism
Procrastination
Resists suggestions from others
Sarcasm
Stubbornness
Sullenness
Willful witholding of understanding
"I find it interesting and I like to accept people around me the way they are..."
lol, go back and read what you wrote, which is saying that you dislike everything that he is.
You are a black and white creature only ... he is Pisces, so he is gray. He cannot be bound to right or wrong, up or down, left or right .. and this is what you are expecting of him to be ... which in essence, it means .. you cannot accept him for who he is.
i agree with P-Angel; pisces is grey, not black and white. We see things in varying shades, not as definates. Perhaps part of our mutable nature.
Pisces in general don't get along so well with the bossy, tactless, uncompromising. They appreciate the emotionally well-balanced, self-contained, independant types, who have their own passions and interests. As long as the Taurus can curb any excessive stubborness or rigidity, i think these two signs are actually pretty good together. They are both sensual, romantic, patient people. And Pisces will appreciate the common good sense and stability of a Taurus.
I hate when I have to lie because ppl dont give me a choice, if I say truth problem happens if I dont problem happens at same. If ppl say its ok, you are as you are and I have confidence in you and I love you, its ok, but no one does that, only pisces usually.
Our love is with no conditions.
Yes, grey is good definition, we hate rules also, whe hate 100% ppl because it not possible to be 100% flawless, we all fail. We hate injustice. We hate control because love is not that, love is aceptance, is enjoy , is to love another person, simple as that.
We hate when ppl decide and blame us for making that decision happen, because we lied or something like that. The guilt is always in our side, is nice....
We hate ppl who think are gods, because no one is superior to another, we all have much to learn from another.
An so on...
We hate ppl who are great talkers, because they alwyas get advantage when it comes to a problem discussion, we usually dont give a damn, but when it comes to your lover being one of those its doomed. Joining to being possessive and controling is going to hell.
Has you all must have understood I come from a big problem with my love one, and I am starting to explode. Why ppl dont understand what love is, love is beyond all this mundane world, ppl pick on the most stupid things and take all the conclusions, final conclusions, as if life was logic.
We dont quit because we believe ppl will understand one day, I only want to say get loose, stop thinking stupid things, theres life to live out there.
My love one is my twin soul, but she is leaving me more day by day because I dont show I love her doing things like lying and such, whatever. I hope she understands some day, I will wait forever for her.
"Pisces and Taurus get along well"...yeah...yuppee!!! hehe...
Yes, I think the biggest problems for the relationship will be for the Taurus not to be "POSSESSIVE", "JEALOUS" and "STUBBORN". From a Taurus perspective, I going to say it's pretty difficult. heh... Must learn to curb this negative traits...I'm learning. I know I get jealous very easily...and everytime I do get jealous, I'll be alone and try to rationalise things. E.g. "Why did I get so jealous? Why am I'm such a baby?" haha...try to sort things up. And really most of the time, the jealousy is unnecessary but it's just so happen...2nd nature. hee...
Why he lie? Maybe because they say things you want to listen, to please u...which in actual fact, all you want to listen is the truth. lol. I've a Pisces friend who openly lie to his mum in front of us. haha...He phoned his mum to tell her that he is going for an overseas trip with his friends...10 of them! When actual fact, there is only 3 of us. haha...
We asked him why he lied to his mum. He said dunno...he feels 10 is a better number than 3.And also 10 seems to be a larger crowd...doesn't feel so pathetic. I think he just doesn't want his mum to be worried.
Well, I would think it's unneccesary to lie abt these things. But it's their thing, you can't fault them. They go with their instinct...I saw my friend lie without any hesitation at all. haha...
(Laughing at the color description)...it's so true. Pisces are grey...and many people cannot accept the color grey. People like black and white only. haha...
If you are not a good person, then you must be a bad person. If you like classical music, then you must hate rock music. If you are A, then you cannot be B. lol...The world consists of only 2 types of pple.
@Markella
Capricorn
@bijou2u
I found my love, I was lost until I found her. But since start I fight this assumptions like: "you lie you dont love", "you were not thinking of us when you took that decision so you are not capable of having a relationship or compromisse". - Black and White ppl
@Markella: if I could be always with her all could be diffrent has in you situation.
@Sagigoat: I know since I met her, at start I didnt get it, but all things happening I had a click, and I fell in love for first time in my life, with someone who is reserved, doesnt take advantage of me, helps me, loves me, is nice, is smart, is beautiful inside and outside, likes justice, talks about everything, smiles at me, loves my slow motion, loves my kindness, reads me, understand me, will there for me, and so on..... The problem is that she being cap has many affraid of suffering again. And Pisces are not there 100% we go to clouds once in a while, and we dont accept very much when its said to us we dont know how to love or that we dont love at all.
I know she will be softer with age, and I will wait forever for her, when I love is forever. When I discuss with her and its at stake that she is going to be more away from me I just transform myself to a shark with very sharp teeth and say things that make it worse, when I just want to be closer, I just want to love....
"Ambiguity
Avoiding responsibility by claiming forgetfulness
Blaming others
Chronic lateness and forgetfulness
Complaining
Does not express hostility or anger openly - (e.g., expresses it instead by leaving notes)
Fear of authority
Fear of competition
Fear of dependency
Fear of intimacy (infidelity as a means to act out anger)
Fosters chaos
Intentional inefficiency
Making excuses
Losing things
Lying
Obstructionism
Procrastination
Resists suggestions from others
Sarcasm
Stubbornness
Sullenness
Willful witholding of understanding"
LMAO!!! YOU NAILED IT!! Really...what are so great about them?
Not all Pisces will display the same qualities. It takes time to develop the psychic empathy for which Pisces are known. And we must look and the whole chart not simply the sun sign.
And, heres a fact that closed mindedness rejects. Are you really a Pisces? Astrology used constellation dates that are 2000 years old. (precession)
Those who hardly ever look at the stars will never notice this ignorance/deception, whichever the case may be.
Pisces - Mar 11 to Apr 18
Your FREE REAL chart:
http://home.earthlink.net/~beta-quadrant/astrochart.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/13-sign_zodiac
I can see that.
If I have to explain, then I usually walk away.
Posted by archetype
Not all Pisces will display the same qualities. It takes time to develop the psychic empathy for which Pisces are known. And we must look and the whole chart not simply the sun sign.And, heres a fact that closed mindedness rejects. Are you really a Pisces? Astrology used constellation dates that are 2000 years old. (precession)
Those who hardly ever look at the stars will never notice this ignorance/deception, whichever the case may be.
Pisces - Mar 11 to Apr 18
Your FREE REAL chart:
http://home.earthlink.net/~beta-quadrant/astrochart.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/13-sign_zodiac
Lol, I didnt knew of this, nice!
It Says I am an Aqua Sun (Pisces Cusp) with Pisces Venus/Merc/Moon, Mars Gemini (Cancer Cusp) and Sagittarius ascendant.
So much more pisces than my 2000 one, where I have only Sun in Pisces lol
My love one and my Son also change:
Sagittarius Sun, Ophiuchus Moon/Ascendant, Sagittarius Merc, Capricorn Venus, Mars Virgo
Virgo Sun, Aries Moon, Libra Ascendant, Virgo Merc/Venus, Cancer Mars (Leo Cusp)
@archetype: Very nice fisrt linq.
Correcting time:
Aqua Sun (Pisces Cusp) with Pisces Venus/Merc/Moon, Mars Gemini (Cancer Cusp) and Ophiuchus ascendant
My Power Signs Formula Change to:
MFMM3211 Pisces Moon/Venus/Merc, Aqua Sun, Ophiuchus Ascendant, Gemini Mars
Difficult to answer "what do you hate the most", but one thing I do hate is conformism.
AKA The tendency to put people into predetermined roles, to imitate other people just to "fit in", to conform to superficial social standards, and to give more importance to ceremonials than meanings.
don't know if it is a pisces thing or just me.
Also pisces males will seek isolation from time to time, but that doesn't mean they enjoy distant girlfriends.
I would say we hate to be reminded..
Posted by LostPisces
I hate when I have to lie because ppl dont give me a choice, if I say truth problem happens if I dont problem happens at same. If ppl say its ok, you are as you are and I have confidence in you and I love you, its ok, but no one does that, only pisces usually.Our love is with no conditions.
that was the most well-written response ever...
--Jack
Posted by naBULLy
"Pisces and Taurus get along well"Why he lie?
(shortened)
He phoned his mum to tell her that he is going for an overseas trip with his friends...10 of them! When actual fact, there is only 3 of us. haha...
We asked him why he lied to his mum. He said dunno...he feels 10 is a better number than 3.And also 10 seems to be a larger crowd...doesn't feel so pathetic.
he said 'i dunno, 10 FEELS like a better number than 3'...
have you not noticed, while you were writing your overly unnecessary long post that we (pisceans) are emotional beings and we are led by our feelings...10 FEELING like a better number than 3 is good enough for him, and that's all there is to it...
and if i have been keeping score correctly...you stated Taurus = stubborn, jealous and possessive...and all you got on pisces is a phone call about 7 imaginary friends and some gray fish?
--Jack
Posted by ReyAzteca
the basics to pissing ??a?? ??p??i??s??c??e's?? whatever man off:laugh at his dreams
take his emotions as a joke
denounce his beliefs
always have the last word
command him to do things
be overly possessive and controlling
don't trust him
mock his spirituality
mimic his patterns
challenge his grounded ability
turn down his displays of affection
ignore him
make him feel obsolete
make no physical contact
don't allow him to speak
heh.... we are all star-bellied sneeches 😄
--heather
Posted by ReyAzteca
the basics to pissing a pisces man off:laugh at his dreams
take his emotions as a joke
denounce his beliefs
always have the last word
command him to do things
be overly possessive and controlling
don't trust him
mock his spirituality
mimic his patterns
challenge his grounded ability
turn down his displays of affection
ignore him
make him feel obsolete
make no physical contact
don't allow him to speaknow that you know how to piss him off,do the opposite and he'll stay happy
Well done...sounds about right 🙂
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*sigh*
Don't do that to us please.. I don't like it at all.
If you do all of this I will be gone in no time, no matter how hot/rich/attractive you are.
Not that those mattered much to begin with.
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This is a question from my taurean friend who is dating a pisces man. Any help would be appreciated.
thanks