I need to find a balance... needy VS distant.

I feel like i'm either too distant.... or too needy.
Its rediculous! and I need to figure out how to control it.

It seems like my bf is more clingy when we're actually together, always in my space, touching PDA, etc. and I'm emotionally distant.

Then when we're apart, seems hes distant and I'm always wanting to text him or call him....

Its so weird!! ahh! but I need to find a balance somehow.


any other pisces weird in this way? or is it just me? lol.

I'm kind of like this, too. In my past relationship, it was always him that would act more loving in person, but I would be sad when we weren't hanging out or talking. I'm still battling in my mind whether or not what I actually wanted from that relationship was mainly friendship or not. So, that might be my problem.

I don't have any real advice for this, but I hope you find your balance. Sometimes people can't find their balance because they can't change who they are. But, there is always hope that your answer is simpler. Good luck!