Chemistry was amazing. Something I've been searching for for years. He is a Cancer, born July 3, 1987. Broad shoulders, tall, charismatic, and funny. The intimacy between us was outstanding and the attraction was beyond words. He lives about 3 hours from in a major city - so distance always played a part. That isn't the part that really upset me, it was the fact that he would make promises he would keep, which would disappoint me and make me really sad. He would always reach out to met - FaceTime, texting, even silly things like Snapchat - but it was always really nice to know that he was thinking about me. I do have to say that while I was happy when I heard from him, I was always in a state of anxiety when I didn't. My mind would race, I would drive myself crazy, and I would fall into these spells of sadness. After about 2 months of not seeing each other, our communication pretty much stopped. Every once in a while he will send me a Snapchat, but no more texts, no more calls. Recently, I heard he has a girlfriend - an Aquarius. I guess I just don't understand why if Pisces and Cancers are suppose to be a perfect match with insane attraction how this did not work. I was ready for this to be a relationship, but why would he pull away? I wonder if he thinks about me or now that a Cancer has moved on, did he forget about me? Why would he find someone else rather than try to make things work with me? I'm upset about all of this and I'm sad about losing him to someone else. How did this "perfect" match not take off the ground? Help me understand, I'm driving myself crazy and into tears.
I thought Cancers were a perfect match for Pisces?

Are you a child?
Because it's doubtful that a mature adult would believe a valuable relationship SHOULD happen based on something you fucking read.
Seriously ... like wtf?
You said, "I was ready for this to be a relationship" .... so it wasn't even a relationship yet because if it was then you wouldn't be looking for one to happen.
Grow the fuck up before attempting trying on adult panties.

Don't take it personally. Some (NOTE I DID NOT SAY ALL) Cancers are jerks who mistreat other people.
Rise above it, get out there this weekend and get some telephone numbers.
Post some new Snapchat photos of yourself having fun with a variety of people in fun places. Handsome men, fun loving girlfriends, etc....
Rise above it, get out there this weekend and get some telephone numbers.
Post some new Snapchat photos of yourself having fun with a variety of people in fun places. Handsome men, fun loving girlfriends, etc....

Chill out, p angel.
She's heartbroken, but will heal better with more positive coaching and mentorship.
She's heartbroken, but will heal better with more positive coaching and mentorship.

BTW, that Aquarius and Cancer match is one from hell. It will short-circuit soon enough.
Pisces,Cancers,Scorpios, and other Earth sighs is a perfect match for pisces you are testing your luck
But is he's making you sad then dump him be happy with some one else who loves you and doesn't live far away.
But is he's making you sad then dump him be happy with some one else who loves you and doesn't live far away.

He was not your boyfriend. You guys were dating or whatever people do these days that make a non-couple.
He was probably already seeing the Aqua along with communicating with you.
Yes there is an attraction between the Fish and Crab but it's not a good match when one or both are not on the same page.
I say cut him off and start seeing other guys, hang out with friends, work over-time, find a hobby or something that fulfills you.
He was probably already seeing the Aqua along with communicating with you.
Yes there is an attraction between the Fish and Crab but it's not a good match when one or both are not on the same page.
I say cut him off and start seeing other guys, hang out with friends, work over-time, find a hobby or something that fulfills you.

Whether or not two zodiac signs work "on paper" means nothing if you aren't in love and committed to each other. The fact he's got a girlfriend means he's off limits and you need to bounce. If this love were shared, there wouldn't be another woman in the picture. You'd be dating him. Until your ready to face this fact, you'll be miserable, feel insecure and doubt your own desirability. This is precisely why you need to leave. There is no happy ending here. Believe that you deserve more. Cut bait and swim. We all get disappointed in love sometimes.

Nice response, Este.
You too, Lunar Maiden
You too, Lunar Maiden

LOL Thanks Fish
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