Insight on a Pisces guy

Hello everyone 🙂 First of all, I'm new here.
I like astrology but I'm still only a dilettante in this field,that's why I would greatly appreciate a second opinion on this frustratingly ambiguous Pisces guy.
So, the planetary positions:
Sun Pisces 3??19'22 in house 1
Moon Cancer 12??59'25 end of house 5
Mercury Aquarius 29??23'18 in house 1(retrog)
Venus Pisces 12??01'00 in house 1
Mars Aquarius 19??34'03 in house 1
Jupiter Scorpio 14??35'33 in house 9
Saturn Pisces 2??54'01 in house 1
Uranus Capricorn 24??32'05 in house 12
Neptune Capricorn 22??20'02 in house 12
Pluto Scorpio 28??03'28 in house 9
TrueNode Scorpio 28??04'24 in house 9(retrog)
Major aspects:
Sun Conjunction Mercury 3??56
Sun Conjunction Saturn 0??25
Sun Square Pluto 5??16
Moon Trine Venus 0??58
Moon Trine Jupiter 1??36
Moon Quincunx Ascendant 2??10
Mercury Conjunction Saturn 3??31
Mercury Square Pluto 1??20
Venus Trine Jupiter 2??35
Mars Square Jupiter 4??59
Jupiter Square Ascendant 3??46
Saturn Square Pluto 4??51
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 2??12
Uranus Sextile Pluto 3??31
Neptune Sextile Pluto 5??43
I have to add I'm not sure if the ascendant is actually aquarius but it was the only one I could think of considering his overall appearance.He looks very much like a blend between Matt damon and the twins Max and charlie carver who were part of the cast of teen wolf,they are look alikes almost,except that he is 6 feet tall and has darker features, dark hair, dark brown eyes.
First time I met him I thought "gemini!" ,gave me this airy impression, but nope haha, would of never guessed he was a pisces honestly,when he is in his talkative mood, he is very opinionated, cynical and even a bit argumentative.We bumped heads a couple of times and it ended in silence on both parts or leaving both of us feeling guilty but not doing anything about it, our interactions have always seemed more like power struggles or just very competitive and I don't get why cause there's hardly any fire in his chart, I have more fire planets than him and I was always the more easygoing,patient,considerate one, why would the roles be switched like that?His water planets don't seem to have an expression in his behavior and general outlook on life, I don't know.What's your insight?
Btw,I'm an Aries sun,mercury,venus,Pisces moon and scorpio rising.Looking forward to your feedback,thank you ! 🙂

Most of the Pisces sun/ Cancer moon I've known have been assertive and when you really get to know them they can be headstrong and competitive.

I'm no expert on this, but I will give you my opinion based on what I've read and personal experience. To start your Aries placement squares (clashes) with his Cancer moon. Aries and Cancer are squared they are both cardinal signs so, IME, they have a lot of similarities but it is difficult for them to understand one another. Aries are brash and impatient which can really grind on the sensitive Cancer, while the Cancer's mood swings can be like a wet towel on everything.

He has an Aquarius mercury with also squares with your Scorpio ascend. These are both fixed signs so they are both stuck inn their ways. So it seems your communication might be off. Your ascendent is how people perceive you and your mercury is how you communicate with each other.

Aquarius are fun loving people and easy going... but when it comes to their opinions they are really opinionated and it's hard for them to change their ways.

But your Pisces Moon should help smooth the waters between the two of you with his Pisces sun and Cancer moon.

From what I can see they only problem I can see is strong opinions and maybe some misunderstanding via miscommunication. It would do good to try to listen and understand each other. It's knowing when to pick and choose your battles really and understanding diplomacy. Not bending over backwards for someone still sticking to your opinions (or else he will never respect you) BUT try to empathize, exercise some compassion, and put yourself in his shoes.

Hey Xtina ! Thanks a lot for the reply 🙂cool that we share the same sun sign.
I've never met a cancer moon before this guy so I guess when I looked at his chart and read about the qualities that were associated with this placement : nurturing, empathetic, in touch with his emotions I thought : what could of happened to this guy that put such a dark shadow on those qualities cause they were not at all obvious to me and it was too bad cause he sometimes gave the impression that he had something going on deep inside but most of the times he was just spiteful.

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