Intuition Opinion - Help! :)

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I don't think my intuition has ever been wrong... When I ignore a gut feeling I always live to regret it.

So I am in a situation where my gut is telling me something is not right. However, I am second guessing myself a bit because there is a side of the story I don't have access too. So I don't know if I am uneasy because of the unknowing or if I should trust my intuition regardless.

I am seeing a man who is overly smitten with me (Gemini/Cancer cusp) - Thankfully, no psycho/soce "red flags" have sprung up... I think he's just a bit insecure and is a bit too taken with my physical appearance. Thing is, I met him through his friend which I "dated" for a few weeks (never intimate with) who is a Taurus (may 15th). Things seemed good with the Taurus then he just decided to not talk to me anymore, didn't delete me off Facebook though.. A week goes by, no word - I am out that Saturday and run into the Gem/Can guy (and friend) they ask how the Taurus is and I say, "Don't know, haven't heard from him". I then add him FB and he proceeds to talk to me. He asks me out for that following Thur and I agree. What can I say, I am a curious cat lol - Taurus still hasn't talked to me. So we go out to dinner and then for a drink and I am trying NOT to ask a lot of questions about his friend - However, he told me how he asked the Taurus and dude was like 'have at her bro, I am not interested' more or less.

And that pissed me off - If dude was THAT uninterested he should've had the balls to tell me. I mean come on now, really...

I am big into manners and common courtesy and in hindsight mister Shy, Awkward Taurus was less awkward and more rude than anything else.

So that Thurs when I got home I sent the Taurus a text LOL. Pretty much shaming him for not being man enough to tell me he wasn't interested, pointed out the ways he disrespected me and how he was too much of a coward to keep it real (after implying I was easy, while telling me he was a traditional man).... traditional men have manners after all.

Instead of responding to me he blocked me haha.

These men are 10+ years older than me btw

It really bothers me that I don't know what the Taurus' motivation is. Like it really fucking bugs me and that may be clouding my intuition...

You know what they say, "you are who your friends are". The 2 guys have been friends for 12+ years... So that fucking bothers me too. The Gem/Canc guy is so smitten with me I feel like he would say anything to hang onto me (and he's only known of me a month, talking to me 2ish weeks) He was clearly taken with me when he thought his Taurus friend was into me. I have told him to slow his roll... He's moving way to fast. He did tell me that for the 12 years he's known mister Taurus, he's never had a girlfriend - Which is like a ginormous red flag all on it's own ha

I just feel like there is more to the story - I feel like there is a piece missing and that it's something important. I personally, hate caus
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So, you complain that he is probably too taken with your appearance ... yet, you put a sexy pic up emphasizing your ass.


Who in the fuck do you think you are to shame a guy for how he treats you, when you are the one who taught him how to do that?


Your intuition sucks, no matter how much adore yourself in believing it's one of your better qualities.


There is more to the story and revolves around your ego and willingness to play games for attention. However, it looks like these guys already figured that out, which means they have good intuition, and are likely just playing along to see who gets to fuck you first.
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My comment was not posted...grr! Now I have to start from memory!

I wanted to write to sweetmaree88: Girl, you have not done NOTHING wrong by posting your beautiful picture of yourself here. Taylor Swift, "Shake it off! 'haters will hate, hate, hate'". The MAJORITY of women who hide behind a computer screen are JEALOUS! enough said.

Now, for your Gemini guy. Why do you want to be labeled as "hot?". You and I have been called "hot" and I hate it! I (we) have two brains and one heart! Why don't men look at our brains AND our hearts, but look at our physical appearance? Do you want your Gemini to be "smitten with you?" Do you like to be bragged on? Yeah, at first I liked to be "bragged" on by the Cancer I was seeing, but there's a time and a place for the "bragging" (not just when he wanted to have phone sex with me).

Now, for the Cancer guy YOU were seeing and he blocked your text/phone number. You're sensitive as female Pisceans are and we HATE to be ignored; so that's why you felt "bad" when he "blocked you"; thus you didn't listen to your intuition. If he stated to his Gemini friend that he was no longer interested in you; then so be it! Pisceans do NOT STAY WHERE THEY ARE NOT WANTED! The Cancer man I was seeing did me the same; but I REVERESED it and I BLOCKED his text :-) He gets it now, "I was the one that got away".

You are a beautiful woman! Hold your head up high and if you feel like dating the Gemini man, then that's YOUR prerogative! "It's my prerogative" (Bobby Brown). God has closed the door on the Cancer man (like he has for me and he will blow one WIDE open for the both of us! "There are PLENTY of fish in the sea!" :-)

Don't allow "haters/trolls" to bring you down.

Love,

Eva
True Piscean
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Posted by EvatheDiva

..... if you feel like dating the Gemini man, then that's YOUR prerogative!




Well, it's a good thing you believe yourself to be hot ... because you're seriously lacking in the brains department, considering this thread had nothing to do with her desire in dating a Gemini man. It's like ... you read the words, but, couldn't quite put the pieces together to actually get the point.

What a dumbass, lol