Is my Pisces crush still mad at me? HELP?! :(

I BADLY need advice from Pisces guys! I'm crushing on this Pisces friend of mine - we knew each other since I was 4. We are 18 now. But all along our lives, we never really talked with each other; never on the phone, and EXTREMELY little in real life. Just 5 months before, we suddenly became really close friends and after few weeks, I started to feel drawn to him A HELL LOT (I am a Cancer woman).

He would joke around and make me laugh and also laugh with me (but hey, he would do that with others too). I would try to show him signs (very weak ones though, by holding his gaze and smiling). One night, we decided to take a walk outside at night, but the conversation was constricted within the friendzone conversation. Sometimes I'd wonder if he feels the same as I do. Sometimes I felt he did, sometimes I felt he didn't and I'm imagining due to the way he acts.

For the first time that we talked over the phone, it was more than a forty minutes conversation and was going pretty good, till he suddenly said "I am a good conversationalist" - Jokingly I said "No, you are not." - He started to say that he got offended and all. But I apologized RIGHT THEN on the phone and said I was kidding (he won't believe me though; i kept wondering whether he was kidding or really meaning it). Later I hung up, because he won't accept my apology and... I didn't know what else to talk about.

Unfortunately, right after 5 days, we moved to this new place. Before shifting I called him up and apologized honestly. He said that he was kidding. We talked for barely 5 minutes. But he sounded normal, but not that friendly as he was before... and a little aloof. Plus, I asked his sister who said that I am being stupid by being bothered because "he doesn't get offended that easily".

Few days back, I was skyping with his sister who is a close friend too and asked her to hand me the phone to him too to wish him HBD. He was nice, but kinda distant yet again. We talked for barely few minutes, cause he said that he was kinda busy and apologized since he won't be able to talk much.

Why the aloofness? I kno that I wil get to kno what's really going on once I return. Thinking about it right now won't be of much use. I can't call him up now nd talk to him much either (it will get awkward)- Rather I want to talk to him about it face-to-face, once I return after 2 months.

I REALLY like him! Please advise me how to get him back-I don't want to lose him; I can't. Plus, I want him.

Either A) He is extremely immature, and he will grow out of it eventually. Or, the most likely B) He withdrew and became aloof after showering you with attention to lure you in and have you freak out and pursue him (and it seems to be working).

The best thing you can do for yourself and for a possible future together is to deny fear a home/nest inside yourself. Be fearless, this will create the sort of sexy confidence that will naturally lure him to you.

Subtle manipulations, don't fall for them, and above all don't let them disturb your peace of mind.-

Posted by CrabGirl007

I would try to show him signs (very weak ones though, by holding his gaze and smiling).

... we talked over the phone, it was more than a forty minutes conversation and was going pretty good, till he suddenly said "I am a good conversationalist" -

Jokingly I said "No, you are not." -

Later I hung up, because he won't accept my apology and... I didn't know what else to talk about.

He was nice, but kinda distant yet again. We talked for barely few minutes, cause he said that he was kinda busy and apologized since he won't be able to talk much.

Why the aloofness?

This is easy to figure out ... and brace yourself, due to you saying that to him, you lost him. So, you might as well move on.

You said yourself, "I didn't know what else to talk about" .. which means, he was the one carrying conversations with you, and you were likely nodding and smiling.

he's a conversationalist, it's something he thinks he is good at ... while you have to hang up after a few seconds because you don't even know what to talk about .... yet, you mock him.

It's not funny, you know, to even joke about.

He will do exactly what he is suppose to do and that it move on to find a woman who has the mental fortitude to be an equal partner in carrying a conversation.

This is possible as well. But if he can't take a joke then perhaps he too needs to work on his own fortitude, in which case you are both better off without each other.-

Oh no, we both were carrying on the conversation actually...sometimes I would talk and he would laugh and vice versa (Also, I don't think it's easy to continue a conversation for above 40 minutes one-sidelong 😛 ). He was kidding with me too at some points. And I did not hang up after a few seconds. I apologized and said that I was kidding right after I said "No, you are not.". I thought he was playing around, then again, I was not sure. I got hurt when he wouldn't accept that I was kidding. After few days I called again when he said that he WAS fooling around. And yet, there was this aloofness.

Posted by XV2
This is possible as well. But if he can't take a joke then perhaps he too needs to work on his own fortitude, in which case you are both better off without each other.-

Whether his sense of humor, or lack thereof, is an issue he needs to work on is his life ... and doesn't clarify whether her mocking him when he was trying to be proud of himself was an error in his sense of humor, or whether it was her sabotaging the relationship .. because our observance of events cannot determine it.

His actions is what determines it .. and he has pulled back and doesn't want to talk to her anylonger, so her presentation of herself to him in this matter is obviously important to him.

Posted by CrabGirl007

I apologized and said that I was kidding right after I said "No, you are not.". I thought he was playing around, then again, I was not sure. I got hurt when he wouldn't accept that I was kidding. After few days I called again when he said that he WAS fooling around. And yet, there was this aloofness.

It's over.

Find a wedge is disengage your feelings of clinging to it because you want ... and move along.

Wow, there's a bunch of words missing there ^^^^

a Pisces at 18 is a mess in relationships..(no offence aPP, 😉 )they have a lot of learning to do, as do cancers

if you've known him since you were 4, let him go work it out on Gems, Aquas and Virgos... and you can meet up again in the future.

move on and keep the daydream...

Hmm, well he could be the ULTRA sensitive type, and that comment really got to him. In which case she would do well to back off -like pirannah said- for the 2 months she will be away. On the whole though, the joke was in bad taste, but if the apology was sincere it doesn't seem like an insurmountable obstacle to reconciliation. He seemed to have at least marginal interest, -the 40 minute conversation- there's a chance he might reconsider if he is left alone to sort out his feelings.

@crabgirl: If you do manage to patch things up eventualy you might want to be more mindful of what you say. If not, it might be for the best, walking on eggshells all the time becomes tedious fairly quickly.-

You should tell him to man up and quit acting like a lil bitch

CrabGirl007,
You f**ked up, BIGTIME. Most Pisceans aren't big talkers because we reserve conversations when we are sharing intimacy with someone. Sarcasm and jokes is a quick way to ruin an intimate moment and you blew it. Don't count on getting it back, because you won't.

The Stellar One

@Damen VI,
LMAO!!!!!!

The Stellar One