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Posted by Wildhorsesrun90

Why is Pisces man getting his friends to test me? (Asking me weird questions and seeing how I’ll react to negative things said of him with a little smirk on their faces) Why not just hang out with me and find out— Is he scared to be alone with me or is this his way of trying to turn me off him?


maybe he likes you and his friend are testing you (not on his orders) but to see if you can be a part of their group where they tease each other all the time? to find out if you are funny and okey and can survive the banter?

on the other hand, it can also mean that they think he is lame and they are amused he likes a girl and that you like him as well? like, they cant believe it

or (as some men do) he noticed you like him, told his friends there is a chick who is in love with me and the friends are curious
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Posted by Wildhorsesrun90

Why is Pisces man getting his friends to test me? (Asking me weird questions and seeing how I’ll react to negative things said of him with a little smirk on their faces) Why not just hang out with me and find out— Is he scared to be alone with me or is this his way of trying to turn me off him?

maybe he likes you and his friend are testing you (not on his orders) but to see if you can be a part of their group where they tease each other all the time? to find out if you are funny and okey and can survive the banter?

on the other hand, it can also mean that they think he is lame and they are amused he likes a girl and that you like him as well? like, they cant believe it

or (as some men do) he noticed you like him, told his friends there is a chick who is in love with me and the friends are curious
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The first one takes a while to discover in me because I come off shy and sometimes awkward but I enjoy teasing/joking about, anything! Unless it’s cruel and then I feel bad for laughing but our mutual friend is slowly learning that about me. We got a few inside jokes going on. I didn’t realise he’s actually really close friends with bob though until recently. Bob let me know that he has to go there often and our mutual friend is the one, mainly that I’ve noticed, that asks me all these odd questions.

So many people have different things to say about him though, all I want to do is get to know the real him! Even though I’m into him, I’d be happy to be a good friend of his m..Just wanna get him alone in a room and use my inner pull to draw his secrets out lol.
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Posted by Wildhorsesrun90

Why is Pisces man getting his friends to test me? (Asking me weird questions and seeing how I’ll react to negative things said of him with a little smirk on their faces) Why not just hang out with me and find out— Is he scared to be alone with me or is this his way of trying to turn me off him?

maybe he likes you and his friend are testing you (not on his orders) but to see if you can be a part of their group where they tease each other all the time? to find out if you are funny and okey and can survive the banter?

on the other hand, it can also mean that they think he is lame and they are amused he likes a girl and that you like him as well? like, they cant believe it

or (as some men do) he noticed you like him, told his friends there is a chick who is in love with me and the friends are curious

The first one takes a while to discover in me because I come off shy and sometimes awkward but I enjoy teasing/joking about, anything! Unless it’s cruel and then I feel bad for laughing but our mutual friend is slowly learning that about me. We got a few inside jokes going on. I didn’t realise he’s actually really close friends with bob though until recently. Bob let me know that he has to go there often and our mutual friend is the one, mainly that I’ve noticed, that asks me all these odd questions.

So many people have different things to say about him though, all I want to do is get to know the real him! Even though I’m into him, I’d be happy to be a good friend of his m..Just wanna get him alone in a room and use my inner pull to draw his secrets out lol.
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just be aware, some friends do the "testing" by trying to pick up the girl their friend likes 🙂

so, its just one mutual friend doing this.... so not the group of friend trying to know if you survive

if just the one mutual friend is talking rubbish about him, its not good, he (the mutual friend) has ulteriour motives, imho

maybe he is telling him bad things about you as well

I would be a bit reserved to this mutual friend
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Posted by Wildhorsesrun90

Why is Pisces man getting his friends to test me? (Asking me weird questions and seeing how I’ll react to negative things said of him with a little smirk on their faces) Why not just hang out with me and find out— Is he scared to be alone with me or is this his way of trying to turn me off him?

maybe he likes you and his friend are testing you (not on his orders) but to see if you can be a part of their group where they tease each other all the time? to find out if you are funny and okey and can survive the banter?

on the other hand, it can also mean that they think he is lame and they are amused he likes a girl and that you like him as well? like, they cant believe it

or (as some men do) he noticed you like him, told his friends there is a chick who is in love with me and the friends are curious

The first one takes a while to discover in me because I come off shy and sometimes awkward but I enjoy teasing/joking about, anything! Unless it’s cruel and then I feel bad for laughing but our mutual friend is slowly learning that about me. We got a few inside jokes going on. I didn’t realise he’s actually really close friends with bob though until recently. Bob let me know that he has to go there often and our mutual friend is the one, mainly that I’ve noticed, that asks me all these odd questions.

So many people have different things to say about him though, all I want to do is get to know the real him! Even though I’m into him, I’d be happy to be a good friend of his m..Just wanna get him alone in a room and use my inner pull to draw his secrets out lol.

just be aware, some friends do the "testing" by trying to pick up the girl their friend likes 🙂

so, its just one mutual friend doing this.... so not the group of friend trying to know if you survive

if just the one mutual friend is talking rubbish about him, its not good, he (the mutual friend) has ulteriour motives, imho

maybe he is telling him bad things about you as well

I would be a bit reserved to this mutual friend
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I’ve been suspicious of that too. He’s got success on his mind, no physical time for a woman but he still wants to get to know me so there I have it. Unless he’s just telling me that because he wants to feel at ease to be his complete self behind a computer screen. He mentioned he doesn’t chase women, he’s too busy all the time and HE IS busy, he’s a workaholic!!. It’s just message after message though. I think I feel sad because I want to be near him so much. He’s got me all worked up and I hate it!.. I think it’s just another test, see if I’ll be upset, sad, angry or what.