Slippery fish aka Pisces

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by BrookeDavis on Saturday, March 9, 2019 and has 20 replies.

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@BrookeDavis
8 Years

Hey guys,

Need your insights on my situation with a Pisces man.

Met online, hit it off instantly on our first date, texted for months (we’re in different countries), he came to visit, continued texting/calling in a romantic flirty manner, discussed our plans to meet again in a few months but then I couldn’t wait any longer and suggested I would come visit him. That’s when things went terribly wrong. He stopped initiating conversations though replies to my texts. I stopped reaching out and it’s been almost two weeks with no contact on both parts. I assume I’ve scared him away by being way too proactive and speeding things up. He claimed himself to be very indecisive so I took it as a sign to take the lead (silly me?).

Any thoughts on how to deal with current situation?

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@pinkbird03
10 Years5,000+ Posts

I dated a Pisces venus like that. It’s been a year and a half. He doesn’t want to date me again, but he can’t stay away from me. It’s lame. A waste of time.

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@BrookeDavis
8 Years

They will eventually commit and marry someone so there’s still hope.

Posted by pinkbird03

I dated a Pisces venus like that. It’s been a year and a half. He doesn’t want to date me again, but he can’t stay away from me. It’s lame. A waste of time.

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@BrookeDavis
8 Years

So when things are going great you swim away to distant shores to recharge?

Is it the same way when you’re done with someone?

Is there any way to balance it out?

I guess I just need to let it go and see what happens next without pushing or pursuing the situation.

Posted by Mariposa_

I’m a Pisces Venus 😢

I go off energy I feel from someone I desire. If there’s even a slight shift, I’ll retreat but if all is well.. I’ll come out and be clingy.

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@BrookeDavis
8 Years

you went off energy with this particular person but got stamina for someone new in your life? Or you focus on career and etc?

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Posted by BrookeDavis

Why would you stop contact in a first place then?

Posted by Loyal

He'll swim back if the feelings are there. Trust me I would since I'm a pisces man.

Pisces tend to approach things differently and we go off energy. If something feels too good then well put a pause on it to see what comes from it.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

"He claimed himself to be very indecisive" = He can't decide between several options.

Bailing out like that after you suggested to come visit him is a HUGE red flag.

It usually means: 1) he doesn't want his friends to see you; 2) he doesn't want his neighbours to see you; 3) he doesn't want his girlfriend to see you (or hear about you from his friends/neighbours.

You need to move on...

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@BrookeDavis
8 Years

Yeah I thought the same thing. Something is off about his behavior. Way too shady.

Posted by Undine

"He claimed himself to be very indecisive" = He can't decide between several options.

Bailing out like that after you suggested to come visit him is a HUGE red flag.

It usually means: 1) he doesn't want his friends to see you; 2) he doesn't want his neighbours to see you; 3) he doesn't want his girlfriend to see you (or hear about you from his friends/neighbours.

You need to move on...

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@BrookeDavis
8 Years

So guys regardless of the real reason why he pulled away what my actions should be? Let it go and see what happens? No contact?

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@BrookeDavis
8 Years

Thanks for a different take on Pisces behavioral traits!

Eventually he’s got back, we’ve got to spend more time together in person, and now after such an emotional and otherworldly rendezvous he’s vanished again. It comes in circles...

Posted by fyrephish

Hmm, he said he was indecisive, that's a personality thing not necessarily Piscean. However, I don't think he's probably as doubtful as he may say. He knows what he wants if he's genuinely interested he'll come back. I think it could be a few things: 1. He's just busy with life (it happens), 2. An emergency came up, 3. He likes you more than he's ready for right now (it's overwhelming|unexpected) so he's trying to manage it (make sense of it aka placing you [where you belong in his life]) before coming back, 4. You interrupted the waters, emotionally, etc., by trying to move in closer before the agreed upon time. Could've messed up his emotional/mental headspace. Slow down, relax, just let him be if he's interested he'll come back. But next time, let him lead or agree to the terms you both discussed. He may be too sweet (right now) to say something, but it probably bothered him, so he got low on you for a little while. 5. He's not interested.

I think it's more 3/4. Source: I'm a Pisces.

All the best! I hope this helps.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by BrookeDavis

Thanks for a different take on Pisces behavioral traits!

Eventually he’s got back, we’ve got to spend more time together in person, and now after such an emotional and otherworldly rendezvous he’s vanished again. It comes in circles...

Posted by fyrephish

Hmm, he said he was indecisive, that's a personality thing not necessarily Piscean. However, I don't think he's probably as doubtful as he may say. He knows what he wants if he's genuinely interested he'll come back. I think it could be a few things: 1. He's just busy with life (it happens), 2. An emergency came up, 3. He likes you more than he's ready for right now (it's overwhelming|unexpected) so he's trying to manage it (make sense of it aka placing you [where you belong in his life]) before coming back, 4. You interrupted the waters, emotionally, etc., by trying to move in closer before the agreed upon time. Could've messed up his emotional/mental headspace. Slow down, relax, just let him be if he's interested he'll come back. But next time, let him lead or agree to the terms you both discussed. He may be too sweet (right now) to say something, but it probably bothered him, so he got low on you for a little while. 5. He's not interested.

I think it's more 3/4. Source: I'm a Pisces.

All the best! I hope this helps.

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It's up to you to broke that circle for good!

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

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I’m a Pisces Venus

I go off energy I feel from someone I desire. If there’s even a slight shift, I’ll retreat but if all is well.. I’ll come out and be clingy.

Holy fuck, V.I.P are dope af.

I love this placement.

So do I.

Do you have it?

I do not but VIP women are hard to resist.

Is same true for VIP men?

Y.E.A.H.

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I KNEW it!!! And who is resisting? 💅🏻

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@Gemitati
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Posted by Loyal

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Posted by Mariposa_

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Posted by Mariposa_

I’m a Pisces Venus

I go off energy I feel from someone I desire. If there’s even a slight shift, I’ll retreat but if all is well.. I’ll come out and be clingy.

Holy fuck, V.I.P are dope af.

I love this placement.

So do I.

Do you have it?

I do not but VIP women are hard to resist.

Is same true for VIP men?

Y.E.A.H.

I KNEW it!!! And who is resisting? 💅🏻

You knew it? Yet you asked the question. NEVER CHANGE.

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Have you fell off the roof? That’s what people say when not sure but suspected/felt...🤦‍♀️

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@Gemitati
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Posted by Loyal

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Posted by Loyal

Posted by Mariposa_

Posted by Loyal

Posted by Mariposa_

Posted by Loyal

Posted by Mariposa_

I’m a Pisces Venus

I go off energy I feel from someone I desire. If there’s even a slight shift, I’ll retreat but if all is well.. I’ll come out and be clingy.

Holy fuck, V.I.P are dope af.

I love this placement.

So do I.

Do you have it?

I do not but VIP women are hard to resist.

Is same true for VIP men?

Y.E.A.H.

I KNEW it!!! And who is resisting? 💅🏻

You knew it? Yet you asked the question. NEVER CHANGE.

Have you fell off the roof? That’s what people say when not sure but suspected/felt...🤦‍♀️

Are you illiterate?

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Jesus!

Look who is talking!!!

Do you know you have to post reply AFTER fucking ‘ ‘ so it wouldn’t look retarded like this:

Have you fell off the roof? That’s what people say when not sure but suspected/felt...🤦‍♀️ Are you illiterate?

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

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Posted by Mariposa_

Posted by Loyal

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Posted by Loyal

Posted by Mariposa_

I’m a Pisces Venus

I go off energy I feel from someone I desire. If there’s even a slight shift, I’ll retreat but if all is well.. I’ll come out and be clingy.

Holy fuck, V.I.P are dope af.

I love this placement.

So do I.

Do you have it?

I do not but VIP women are hard to resist.

Is same true for VIP men?

Y.E.A.H.

I KNEW it!!! And who is resisting? 💅🏻

You knew it? Yet you asked the question. NEVER CHANGE.

Have you fell off the roof? That’s what people say when not sure but suspected/felt...🤦‍♀️

Are you illiterate?

Jesus!

Look who is talking!!!

Do you know you have to post reply AFTER fucking ‘ ‘ so it wouldn’t look retarded like this:

Emotional Emotional Emotional * K dot voice*.

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Pray you never make me emotional...