We've been seeing each other since the weekend before Thanksgiving Day. I had not planned on mentioning exchanging gifts because the relationship is so new. I love gift giving, not that crazy about receiving but I didn't want to make him feel obligated by trying to find out what he wanted or liked. So, I left it alone. However he brought up Christmas, gifts, shopping, his wishes in conversation but not directly about him and I but as far as his friends and family (shopping, wrapping, the only thing he wanted because he needed nothing else). I basically just listened because I still wasn't sure if he was just conversing or hinting meaning hoping I would bring the subject up.
Anyway, he is gone away for the holiday I knew he would be and though we spent time together early in the week he wanted to see me on Thursday after work but I didnt get his hint and he came out with it once I was almost home. So Friday we decided to have lunch together but he was busy at his job and I was one of the main contacts at my job so we didnt see each other. Then on the way home we were talking and he mentioned that he had planned to give me my Christmas gift. First mention, he had bought something, I was thinking he might slip it in without discussion when we met for lunch. Anyway, we didnt see each other and he left town for the holidays this morning. He wanted either me or him to come see the other last night but I had no gift and made excuses as to why that wasn't possible. Now that I have some time to buy I need to know what would make a great gift for this Pisces man. We've been associate-friends for over a year but only in a relationship since mid November when we met up to watch a football game with friends and hit it off.
The only things I've had in my mind to buy him are relaxation fountain and/or a foot massager. I was going to do a 60min spa massage but the Virgo in me feels like after it's over he still needs a gift. Also, I am not sure how far to go or not to go with buying a gift. I have no clue what he got me or his spending style as far as gifts, he's never complained of money or spending it yet he's very practical in our relationship as far as having "baby steps" about our progress which surprises me that he bought me something. Any help will be awesome! TIA. 🙂
Awww- Ya something personal for sure - i know we do that when we give gifts to people that are important to us. Tickets for doing something together would be perfect 🙂 Or getting him something small that reminds him of you - me and my bf always call eachother monkeys - so my bf got me a pair of monkey mitts to go along with the rest of my gift. Sounds dumb - but pisces is a sucker for things like that.
I wanted to know what a Pisces appreciates most about receiving. Personal touch. Making him something is not hard to do. I did a Sand bottle for my ex two months ago. So I do have creativity and will begin thinking about making something special for him that represents who I've come to know.
I did research theater plays and I didn't really see anything that anyone I know would like to go see. Most of them seemed like snoozers and none of which were highly advertised (tv or radio). I will continue to look though.
The two gifts that I chose were not personal as far as the man. But, for Pisces. The relaxation fountain would cater to how the fish has a love of water and the foot massager to the Pisces feet which is suppose to be a known characteristic.
We've been seeing each other since the weekend before Thanksgiving Day. I had not planned on mentioning exchanging gifts because the relationship is so new. I love gift giving, not that crazy about receiving but I didn't want to make him feel obligated by trying to find out what he wanted or liked. So, I left it alone. However he brought up Christmas, gifts, shopping, his wishes in conversation but not directly about him and I but as far as his friends and family (shopping, wrapping, the only thing he wanted because he needed nothing else). I basically just listened because I still wasn't sure if he was just conversing or hinting meaning hoping I would bring the subject up.
Anyway, he is gone away for the holiday I knew he would be and though we spent time together early in the week he wanted to see me on Thursday after work but I didnt get his hint and he came out with it once I was almost home. So Friday we decided to have lunch together but he was busy at his job and I was one of the main contacts at my job so we didnt see each other. Then on the way home we were talking and he mentioned that he had planned to give me my Christmas gift. First mention, he had bought something, I was thinking he might slip it in without discussion when we met for lunch. Anyway, we didnt see each other and he left town for the holidays this morning. He wanted either me or him to come see the other last night but I had no gift and made excuses as to why that wasn't possible. Now that I have some time to buy I need to know what would make a great gift for this Pisces man. We've been associate-friends for over a year but only in a relationship since mid November when we met up to watch a football game with friends and hit it off.
The only things I've had in my mind to buy him are relaxation fountain and/or a foot massager. I was going to do a 60min spa massage but the Virgo in me feels like after it's over he still needs a gift. Also, I am not sure how far to go or not to go with buying a gift. I have no clue what he got me or his spending style as far as gifts, he's never complained of money or spending it yet he's very practical in our relationship as far as having "baby steps" about our progress which surprises me that he bought me something. Any help will be awesome! TIA. 🙂