It's ova

Things with the Scorp are over for good. A year of break up-make up. It's now been over a month and a half.

In the past I've been in long term relationships with a pisces, Taurus, Scorp and Scorp. According to my chart (mostly pisces, Taurus, and some Capricorn) these were good matches for me, I think?

And honestly, I'm not trying to get into a new situation too soon, nor do I really date based on sign, but I'm ready to switch it up a bit. I'd like to meet a Sag or a Leo 🙂

Think I can keep up? Anyone care to share what it's like to be a watery woman with a firey man?

I'd like to say 'sorry', but it's really for the best if things were constantly on/off.

I've dated two scorp dominant people, one a scorp sun the other an aqua. They were fun, but full of issues. I'm dating a leo/fire dominant right now and there's A LOT less issues than there were in my other relationships. We both have a quirky/odd personality and it makes things fun. Leos are always a bit wacky, in my experience. ; ) He's mature enough to control any insecurities he has from harming the relationship. I think our charts are kind of similar, if I remember correctly. I've always loved leos, but the sags I've met haven't been the type that I would work well with. Good luck : )

Hi Scenic! Yes you're right, we have similar charts as far as I remember, as well. =)

Thank you, and it really is for the best. I just don't like hurting other people, nor having to let them go. Tough stuff but everyone's gotta go through it.

From what you said about there being less issues, that totally hit the nail on the head for me concerning insecurities in men. I've grown a lot since my relationship with the scorp started. Ive gained a lot of confidence.. just through life and learning and spiritual pursuits.

I think in the back of my head I'm assuming fire men (mainly leo/sag) are more secure and confident then say, a water dude, and would fit better with where I am at with myself currently.

Good to hear things are going good with your leo guy then!! Gives me some hope that maybe a fiery guy might be what I'm looking for in my life. =)

One thing I'm wondering, well, I really liked how my scorp guy seemed to look at life similar to me.. through an emotional/vibey filter. I'm curious to know if fiery guys would understand me on that level. Or if they didn't, if it would even matter. Anything you've noticed in that regard, scenic?

I hate letting people go, too. Too bad I can't have it all! Haha.

The scorp who I dated felt things the same way as I did. I think it's what helped me feel a connection with him. There was something I couldn't word that helped me feel we were similar to our core. The leo is open minded and he can understand where I'm coming from. I don't feel our similarities go as deep, though. Thus, I don't feel the intense passion I did with the scorp or an intense sense of belonging. Our relationship is more of a calm comfortable rather than an active/passionate comfortable. But, since we don't feel each other as deeply, it's easier for me to think logically rather than be swayed by my emotions. I can think 'what is the mature response?'. So, rather than having our relationship be so dependent on emotions that I only know how to respond with emotions, I can think more clearly with the leo. Basically, while that spiritual familiarity isn't there, I am able to have a more mature relationship which I think is good for long-lasting relationships. Either could be good or bad depending on what you're currently looking for. I'm not even sure if you would think/feel the same way about this issue since we're different people, but maybe my experience will help in some way?

Scenic,

That all totally makes sense to me. Thank you for responding in such depth =)

I guess these have just been curiosities lately as I wrap my mind around the idea of a future relationship. I think different will be good. =) Can't know unless I try. I have been bothered by the idea of not being understood as the emotional being that I am??_. but it so makes sense about being able to look at the relationship with more rational/logic. I like that =)