Leo lady, pisces male help

Oh my dear good god... help.
I'm dating an older Pisce male. I'm a leo lady.
For all the Pisce out there... Im so so so sorry, I don't understand you.
Help

We've been dating 6 months, woop, it was all great, but then I suddenly got a bit smothered. He started going on about how I was the most important thing he had, how I was wonderful, blah blah blah, all lovely stuff, but I heard it every single day, at every silent chance he had. It drove me insane. I quietly explained it felt a bit much...nicely. sweetly.

He wasn't like this before, he was confident, dark, chickeny, sarcastic, romantic sometimes... but enough to keep me sweet. Now he whimpers if I dont want to spend the night together, or I'm busy.
Since then our relationship has been mixed up signals and arguments.

I want to make this work, but I feel like I'm too blunt and impatient for this guy...
I call it as it is, no mind games needed because I'm too honest and straight to the point. And he wants to argue - as every leo out there knows, I hate to lose a fight...
Help

Pisces peeps be nice please I told her to post her question here.

Thanks. 🙂

I would answer but I'm a bit mince with Pisces men myself, there are others here tho who are better equipped to answer your question.

Aw.. thanks for your help Thetis.

Honestly, its just all upsetting now... I like this guy soo much, but it seems difficult.
I'm loyal, have never cheated in my life, I've given him no reason to feel insecure.. But it seems like he checks up on me, reads my Facebook walls, ask me about males who I talk to, doesnt like me going out dancing but never directly told me not to. Questions my feelings whenever I'm quiet.

I know I can be pigheaded and selfish sometimes, but I try not to impose that on him, I wander off, cool down and return to the conversation in a positive way. I understand he cares... meh

I've been to same situation. And in my mind, I was thinking about how to impress the girl. So I'd say that's whats in your guy's mind too.

Wait for it, his got something planned. Wait for the surprise that would make you smile. I swear his got something planned.

My post is pretty irrelevant but thats who I was and my intention was that when I was that kind person you mentioned... in-love. Not long ago.


Maybe he wants a serious talk with you. A 'romantic' talk.

Is he talented?

Yeah, he is.
I don't really know if it's a plan, I'm not sure. To me, it feels like some form of trying to control me.
Reminding me all the time he loves me, that if he left he'd be devastated. Who was I talking to, where was I going. What was I texting.
I dunno

If I left he be devastated* even

For all the Pisce out there... Im so so so sorry, I don't understand you.
Help
We've been dating 6 months, woop, it was all great,


Question: During the 6 months that it was great, did you understand him then? Or, did the not understanding Pisces start to happen once you began to feel smothered?


"We've been dating 6 months, woop, it was all great, but then I suddenly got a bit smothered. He started going on about how I was the most important thing he had, how I was wonderful"

Something happened right here, inbetween .. it was all great & I suddenly got a bit smothered.

What happened? Something changed at this point. A woman doesn't go from life is wonderful to 'suddenly' goes downhill.

When life is wonderful in a relationship .. there is no 'suddenly' that takes wrong turns ....

A blank here __________________ that you're not saying, that was the catalyst to turn the tide ...

"He wasn't like this before, he was confident, dark, chickeny, sarcastic, romantic sometimes"


Before? Before what?

This just all seems so odd to me, if taken at face value ..


For 6 months, he is confident/secure within the relationship .. then suddenly .. he doesn't trust you, checks up on your comings and goings, and whimpers about not being able to spend time with you because you are busy.


Something is not right with this picture ... it's like at the strike of midnight .. out of nowhere .. everything changes.

We're missing an important part of chain events to be able to make a determination of what is going on with this man.

You know it'd be a lot easier to make up something, but no, nothings happened.
Theres no black

The big turning point, was me sitting him down and softly explaining to him his words made me feel a bit smothered. That was the turning point. I could of happily sat quietly, make up excuses to go home all the time, and get annoyed but keep it in and we'd be as happy as we were.

I didnt sit quietly, told him straight out I felt smothered.
Honest to god
Nothing happened
It just changed

P.s. I thought I understood him at the start. Obviously didnt. He's more complex then I thought

.... reading back that all sounds harsh.
He's a great guy, loving and caring, but I dont want to have to explain myself to him all the time, when I've done nothing for him to doubt me xxx

Lady-leo, most people feel like they have to explain theirselves to Pisces people in relationships constantly, because we are always looking behind, or underneath things .... words aren't just said, they are said for a reason to flush out something else ... or deeds done had a motivation for you to do them

"Unfortunately, if he doesn't trust you after 6 months of relating, then it's highly likely that he won't "change" to trusting you ... so, there's nothing I can add to help you figure out how to get him to trust, if he doesn't."

Oh 😢

Is there any reason for him not to trust you? If there's not, you might have to move on.

just try your best to open up to him.....Girl i'm a cancer with a scorpio moon,guess what i had a hard time opening up to my pisces man and it took me a while for me to open up to him...alot of times i felt like i'll come out too strong (a little too intense)expressing my feeling towards a guy....i usually wait for the guy to tell me how he feels.my pisces man was the olny guy i opened up too,by the time i expressed my feelings towards him..he told me he wasn't suprised and that he could tell i had a hard time opening up to him...i mean your pisces probably already knows how you feel about him.pisces people have a sixth sense,so before you even plan on saying something they already know what's going to happen next....but whatever.... you know what i'm trying to say

well when the time is right you'll be able to open up to him naturally and you'll be like i can't believe i opened up to him...maybe this wasn't the right time for you to open up to him...so if i was you i won't bit myself too much on the head.alright i hope i helped...

I'm very open with him, we had a huge bust up of an argument and we got a lot out in the open recently.
I told him I felt a bit smothered and nagged, and he told me my happy ups and my extreme downs bother him, and that my tempers awful. Which I can accept and work on.

What confuses me is before our relationship, he was with a girl ten years, thats a marriage - though... not married. he's 31, maybe he's wanting to settle down, and I'm 21, settling down scares the **** out of me still. But by the sounds of it, him and his ex saw eachother one night a week, and she bugged the hell out of him when they lived together for two years. Why's he a fuss pot with me?

1. What I'm sure of right now is we make eachother laugh, and other then a lot of misunderstandings and mixed signals we're capable of making eachother happy and supporting eachother. Which is good.
2. But I also understand we are soo very very different in how we act and react to things, and that will cause fights.

Until one of those two ^ above ^ facts weigh eachother out, I'm just going to go with it. :o) But thank you for everyones help!!