Libra female with question for Pisces men.....

Hi guys,

Need some advice. I have recently become involved with one of your species. And while it's beautiful at times, it's also so damn confusing that I can't see straight.

I met my pisces boy and we fell for each other instantly-we had everything in common and felt like we had known each other before. That and I was so comfortable with him right away, wehre usually I could date a guy for weeks and never feel right with him. So... things picked up and we ended up going a bit too fast...scared us both..and after two weeks of it being "instant relationship" he suggested we eliminate the intimacy part for a while and let us get to really know each other like friends. He has taken me on dates. And he is still sweet but the attention I first recieved has seemed to been quieted.

now, he did date a woman for two months very intensely-they had only broken up a month before he met me. And he said he has always had just relationships, has never just dated. He's a great guy and writes me these emails saying he just wants to go slower and he will always be honest with me and wants me to be honest with him and we can talk whenever we need to.

I know he's been busy at work-because the emails during the day aren't as frequent-but it still irritates me. I'm scared because this is the first man I have ever wanted to just say go away to, when in actuality I want to let myself fall head over heels in love with.

Any suggestions? By the way I am several years older then him-he's in 20's and I'm a few years older.

Dear, Libra! Pisces is a very good sign, friendly and understanding, that is why you felt comfortable with him. Do not be scared of him, i mean women do mistakes when they scare away nice MEN... IF YOU want to be with a fish, do not be scared but sweam by him and you will see where you going to land. i am not shure what are you confuse about?

First of all, honey your a women. Libra women always feel that they want someone: and when they have it, they never want to let him go. You sometimes even want tell everyone that thats your property. But if you want it, know it isn't just your relationship, it is his also. Pisces men and women usually fall into this daze where they think that thats the best one they can get. So this guy, as he said , had been in that daze. Now he wants to try someone different without faling into it again. Just try to stay calm , drink some starbucks. After a week or more, if you still feel you can't live whout him. Call him. But remember: guys are several years less maturer then girls.
Good luck.

The reason I'm so confused is because things went so fast at first and then he said he wanted to slow down and become friends. Before the intimacy party gets in the way of us being friends.

I'm not used to men who suddenly backpedal. I don't know if he's trying to slowly rid himself of me, when he too said he really liked being with me. Or as one guy friend said, he's trying to be friends with me for possible long term.

I just know I'm a bit scared, because I really do want to be with him. And I'm no spring chicken anymore. He's in mid 20's and I;m in early 30's. Just that I've never felt like this with anyone in years.

Is he just fading away? I feel like i'm being paranoid. ugh.

I think it is beautiful that he is wanting to get to know you with his brain in his head, instead of the 'penis brain'..it sounds to me that he is wanting to build a solid foundation with you and not cloud things with steam...that can come later...it sounds like he really cares to me!
I don't think your age difference is great. I have had relationships with younger men in the past..

I hope your friendship develops into something wonderful!

Star

Honey, you are obsessing. You are also thinking of to many "what ifs". He probably,as any pisces, is not knowing what to do. So just dring some satrbucks and wait for him to call. You should not rely on him, not until he realizes he feels the same thing you feel.
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wel, guess I wasn't obsessing. My nervousness was right. He broke it off last night. Said he wants to be rally good friends with me and he adores me but he isn't ready for aything right now, that we are in different places in our life right now.

oh well. 😢

Oh my gosh.....i had the exact experience w/a pisces.....met on an airplane....he swept me off my feet.....in weeks i felt we'd get married.....then he dumped me....i felt shocked.....as a libra....i will just back off and see what happens.

wow.....your situation.....just read how he dumped you.....sounded like my pisces to me! he was born on the exact same day as my brother...but not like my brother......my brother is a mush who falls hard.....anyhow, the pisces guy told me he just wanted to be friends.....too...ha ha....

Hey, you ladies aren't alone..can I chime in?lol
The Pisces I met behaved the same way! We met online..came to find out he lives in my apt complex 4 doors away! Well, we had this 'instant thing' if you could call it that. He wanted casual intimacy; but as I didn't oblige, he distanced himself. Well, he said he 'liked me' but that I 'liked him too much' and was 'too nice'.Huh?
Anyway, to make this long story short, we no longer communicate.. He's still in 'search mode' I suppose...Ah well, all's well that ends well.lol

Interesting? I am a Pisces man with an Aquarius cusp. However, I know the difference between Air and Water. I have been involved with a Libra woman for about 4 Years while seeing other women. However, what I can not stand about her is how much attention and Love she is willing to give me. I think that in any relationship there should be a margin as far as how much Love you really want to give to that person. Especially if it is clear that the other person does not feel the same way. We have great sex and I sometimes crave for her when she is not around. However, I as a person with a Futurist point of view can be realistic enough to know she is not the one. I just want to give you an idea of how a Pisces man could feel. We need the best and will not stop until we get there and once we are there we know the storm is almost over. Additionally, we will not stop seeking the best. What the hell is the best right, I ask myself that everyday. It is a combination of Beauty, Self Assuredness, Intelligence.
If you have these few qualities in you, you can conquer any Pisces Man and Remember you have to be Beautiful (Model Material). The pisces man is very curious of the Perfect Woman, meaning Beauty without make-up, a secure woman and a loyal woman who has a sweet heart. Money or material possessions have absolutely nothing to do with the prerequisites. My advice to you is to stick with either a Gemini or Aquarius. Here is some additional info on this subject for you.

Libra "Who To Do" List
Aries Man
May be just what you?re looking for

Taurus Man
Slow and sensual partnership

Gemini Man
You?ll be kept amused

Cancer Man
He could romance you into bed

Leo Man
A torrid affair, compromise needed

Virgo Man
Too restricting

Libra Man
A union of equals

Scorpio Man
May be too intense, but good sex

Sagittarius Man
A pleasant partnership

Capricorn Man
Too authoritarian for you

Aquarius Man
Somewhat cool, you can thaw him

Pisces Man
Totally confusing, but fascinating

I hope this chart will help you a little
my other advice is to stay away from the LEO sign!!!Go with GOD!!!!!