love or lust

Has anyone ever been in unrequited love.......does it even exist or it is just lust or maybe its just wanting what you cant have?

I think in your case its wanting what you can't have.

^lmao. u stoopid.

don't call donner stuped thats not nice tubby butt.

Posted by james tate
I think in your case its wanting what you can't have.

thats basically what lust is lmfao.

Yes, it exists. You can love someone passionately, but it doesn't mean it will work. Sometimes love isn't enough.

The trouble is, both people idealize each other. They only remember the good things, not the bad, making it impossible to truly let go.

Posted by Pisco26
I feel in love once. It was that love at first sight, kind of magical stuff you see in movies. I never thought things like that could/would exist. But then there he was- tall, handsome, great personality and dark featured amazing Scorpio... I've never connected with someone on so many levels before. We could talk for hours about everything and anything, the kisses were magical, the stares... oh how I miss him so. He left for more training and Iraq a couple months ago. 😢 I would rather wait for him then be with anyone else ever again... but we're logical so we decided to break anything off that could have resulted any furthur.

Do you really believe in love at first sight? I always thought it was a load of bull; unless it had something to do with the one minute rule.

Yes, I believe it exists.

I met a Virgo in college, we knew we were soulmates from the start, but he had a girlfriend. One stolen kiss was all we shared. As a Virgo, he had a Plan, and falling for me wasn't part of it. He was so torn, so confused, and I couldn't bear to see/feel him like that. So I took it upon my arrogant self (or maybe my insecure self that felt he'd never choose me. Or maybe my fearful self that was afraid he WOULD. Or my guilty self who KNEW an innocent woman would get hurt. Or simply my self-sacrificing self that preferred to martyr herself rather than cause him any more pain. Or all of the above.) ...and chose FOR him by telling him I never loved him, he was a little diversion, a hot spark that meant nothing, nothing at all. A silly, girly game. On the phone, so he couldn't see me crying. I finally convinced him I meant it, best bit of acting I've ever done.

Our lives went on. Sixteen years passed before we found each other again, and he discovered that I named my first son after him (a very unique name, clearly in his honor)... and upon the reconnection, discovered it was all still there for both of us, undimmed by the years. I had a chance to choose him, over my man who had actually recently LEFT me to "sort himself out".. over his gf-turned-wife-for-15-yrs who cheated and was getting a divorce... it would have been SOOOO EASY to say yes, and part of me wanted nothing more. But I knew it was not meant to be, I knew it was not right (or all of the above again?) and I told him to work it out with his wife for his son's sake, that I would work things out with my man somehow. That we had to be strong, had to TRY. We attempted to remain friends for awhile, but it was too much for him, and he cut me out. He will not speak to me now, has blocked me at every turn, ignored me completely. I guess me breaking his heart TWICE was too much. I don't blame him, nosiree. But I will always love him, until my heart stops beating.

Some how love at first sight sounds like a tragic love story. Like romeo and juliet or something around that area of tragic love.

i THINK i PROBABLY DO BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT...just that attraction inatantly dat wont go away..... wopps sorry didnt no i was in capitals........its unreqquited love i asked about tho ha