My pisces man is cheating with an aries

I don't know what am I suppose to do.When I saw his face when he is coming back to our home, I hate him but I couldn't resist that I am still loving him.He now texting or chatting with me frequently but I couldn't feel the love spark.emotionless.He tried to coming home more often but we didn't talk much.Sometimes I feel like we are stranger even we sleep in the same bed.I tried to forget but I think it will need more time.In the mean time, I am currently became more temper and overly sensitive.I know he can feel it too.I scared if I will destroy both of us and hurt him with my acts.It's just hard for me to forget.I am curious what that aries lady have and I don't.

Posted by ladyheather
It's just hard for me to forget.I am curious what that aries lady have and I don't.

Proximity, three kids and a host of undiscovered issues. It was a stupid thing for him to do, I suggest you seek IMAGO therapy and close the gap on space between you. Indeed if you are married I would seriously consider trying...if not bail and quickly.

Posted by ladyheather

I caught my pisces man is having affair for 6 months ...

My man and I live apart 320 miles due to his work.

I confront him and bring him to meet the lady.

My man said he is having affair with her becuase of sex.

... tried to leave him few times but I can't because I love him so much.

Six months is a long time to have an affair ... it's probably safe to assume that feelings are involved.

If you're married, I don't see why you and him aren't living together ... what is this work he does, that prevents you from living with him?

Confronting him by presenting him with his whore was stupid and dangerous on your part ... either one of them could have snapped on you. I would suggest you try thinking about the consequences of your actions BEFORE you do them.

Of course, the affair was for sex ... that defines 'affair'. However, after 6 months of seeing her, I would wager feelings developed, even if they were small ones.

I have no pity for you regarding the last quoted sentence. If you have no follow through on your own feelings, and are powerless to make your own life choices ... then you're weak.

You're NOT a victim .... if you choose to stay. And I won't feel sorry for a person who won't stand up for their own goddam principles.

And then it gets worse ... you start talking about fucking another man for revenge purposes, which makes you out to be the douchebag in this scenario.

Posted by ladyheather

I am curious what that aries lady have and I don't.

Heavy Gemini in your chart, I would think ....

It's also recognized on my part that your mindset is different and that because you aren't an American Woman .... you've been primed to be subservient to men.

So, no matter what anyone says ... you will probably fulfill your duty as a second rate person, and stand by him no matter how many whores he has.


It's so frustrating coming across women like this ....


:::: Thank you stars, for letting me be born in the U.S.A. ::::


I'd never make in a European or Asian country .... surely, my favorite phrase would become .. "Fuck you needle dick"