People who ask questions here...

We all see many of them asking questions about their relationship problems.

What do you think, are they seeking ready answers? I'm sure there are many answers over internet to any kind of problem. Just by looking at them you can solve more than half of your problems. So there is no need to ask every question.

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On the other hand, people say no matter how much you read, you will still have same problems. And problems are rather situational (unavoidable) rather than avoidable. As if you cannot change them even by knowing them.

What do you think?

I think it's nonsense. But there might be things I do not understand.

Sometimes you can think so long about something, that it becomes jumbled up, especially when our emotions are involved. Being able to ask a question means getting feedback from others that may re-enforce what you are thinking or give alternative view points.

Everyone has different experiences and perspectives and it's great to come here after work and enjoy this forum. Maybe we are not looking for answers but an outlet?
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Personally, this forum has helped me understand my significant other. Months ago I was confused and didnt understand his way of thinking. Today I have to say I am at my happiest in this particular relationship and thats because I have learned to understand and deal with the mixed signals that were never really mixed, just foreign to me because of the way I tend to do things or deal with things, which differ from his way. I have learned to be patient which is hard for us Arians....lol! I have grown so much just by asking questions and opening myself up to trying to understand another's mind set. I dont always comment on posts or create my own but I read every day and understand a little more on how you guys (Pisces) think and handle situations. I am truly grateful that I am able to come here and get some insight. I cant say that I fully understand and that I am on my way to walking down the isle but I have grown so much and if I am not successful in this relationship I am sure that all I have gained will help me in the next. Its therapy!!!!!!!!!! Dont you think?

I almost hate to say that I am at my happiest because just when you admit it, it tends to fall apart 😢 well thanks again!!!

"I have grown so much just by asking questions and opening myself up to trying to understand another's mind set."


Awwwww, an Arian quality that is so admired by the Pisces, for introspection is always our aim (even if each of us go about it in a different way). Within the self is where all answers lie, and the Rams, because they operate from the soul, show their true colors by ACTUALLY possessing a confidence in themselves, where it has always been in the first place .. many want it, many try to obtain it, many say they have but don't, many can't even see that it is there .. hats off to you, all you wonderful Aries, for having the courage and determination to know that within yourself, IS your world where there is nothing to fear.

Wishing you many wonderful moments, lv24, to reflect on, in whatever endeavors you pursue with a true heart that's based around love.

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Thanx 🙂

Perhaps there is a big difference between coming and asking whole question (for example: I'm unhappy what I need to do?) instead of missing parts?

After all, we are all responsible for our lives. Putting everyone in responsibility to help you in majority is not fair and ineffective. Actually it shows irresponsibility and lack of respect both to themselves and to the other people.

Not every time we will able to find ready answers. Always looking for ready answers is foolish. We have to learn to get it by our own. Relaying on others so much, will halt personal growth after some while.

Many times we tend to view things one sided becasue of our up bringing/morals. I come here to put myself in anothers shoes and understand why they might view things differently than myself. There is nothing wrong with that! I am not asking any one to take responsible for life....lol! I am not looking for "ready answers" I am looking for direction and from there I will be able to figure out the solution. Its trying to understand the BIG picture and if it takes another to do so then so be it....I think it shows EFFORT and RESPECT for what you reaching for, willing to be open minded. Being close minded is what I think will "halt personal growth after some while". Thats just me 🙂HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!

I didn't mean everyone is like this.

Even though we learn things, it will not stop coming here. We still will need to share our points of view just like you have said. But there are people who really dont use their heads. Going from forums to forums just for ready answers. I call them parasites.

Sorry, maybe I just misunderstood your post 😢

I understand...