Pisces ability to read people.

I sometimes hate that I can read people. It would be nice to go through life ignorantly happy. I caught my virgo in a lie last night. To make it worse, I was 100% sure he was lying to me and he just kept digging a hole lying more. Finally I told him it was time for the truth and he broke down. It's not really something worth ending over but it definitely puts a kink in my trust level.

Okay, so let me get this straight.. you'd rather be blissfully unaware that your Virgo lied to you? So that you'd go through life (and your relationship) "ignorantly happy" that your chain is being yanked and that you put your trust into people who don't deserve it? So you'd be clueless when the lies got bigger and bigger... so big that even other people feel sorry for you when they start catching on that you're a blind fool when it comes to two-faced people, especially your partner? Really?

Sorry, I'd rather know. Honesty is Numero Uno with me. So I rather LIKE my ability to see underneath to see peoples' intentions and not just the surface they present. I'm very hard to fool, unless I stubbornly fool myself - which I'm totally aces at

No, I'm just pissed that it happened. I'm glad deep down that I know when I'm being lied to but I hate that feeling, especially when they don't admit it. I really thought he was amazing. I think the worst part was I knew he was lying, I had proof he was lying, and he kept adding lies to support that lie. Then when he broke down and told the truth he just says, "I'm sorry you were hurt, that wasn't my intention." As if I hurt myself or something.

I doubt anyone enjoys being lied to - it feels awful when you realize they didn't feel they could trust you with the truth, like you're somehow unworthy of that respect.

As for him not intending to hurt you.. I believe he didn't. Not that he's saying you hurt yourself, exactly... he's saying that he didn't MEAN to hurt you, didn't go into it with the evil thought of seeing how much it would take to make you lose your marbles. Kinda like he too was hoping you would be "blissfully unaware" that he'd lied. (Men really, really hate disappointing the woman they love.. they crave acceptance and approval from you, and when you're displeased (or downright pissed) the loss of those things really hurts!) So he (foolishly) kept digging a deeper hole, hoping to hit on the one lie that would suddenly convince you that everything was fine and he's awesome again and make you go, "Oh, that explains it all then. Cool, I was upset about nothing. Thank you, honey." and you could go on with your lives, with you totally accepting and approving of him, and none the wiser about his stupid lie. His Virgo guilt, however.. would probably fester underneath and eventually break down with the truth anyway, unless he's the kind of guy who LIKES lying if only because the thrill of getting away with it feels so deliciously exciting and taboo. I knew a guy like that (a Libra though) who lied even when he didn't need to.. I swear he'd lie about his shoe size, his favorite color, whether or not he ate pizza last night. He certainly seemed to really enjoy lying! lol

The worst part is he told me the lie originally when we had only been talking for about a month. He kept it up for 6 weeks. He had a lot of time to correct it. The stupid thing is I was trying to be sweet and show him I was thinking about him and that's how I found out. He told me he had to go to someone's memorial service in Louisiana. His flight left at 2:30. I wanted to send him a text during his layover to tell him I know it's a hard time and I'm thinking of him. I looked at all the flights leaving at the time he left and the only one going where he was going had a layover 3 hours later. I texted him and he said, "I had a direct flight on Southwest and just got here, it's so humid down here." Well, obviously I knew there wasn't a direct flight. I told him that was odd, I didn't see that flight. He said that was odd. Then he started digging his own hole. He said he wouldn't lie to me and would prove he was there and send me a pic of the memorial program. I said I had no doubt he was going to a memorial service, I just doubted he was in Louisiana. I did not press because I think people tend to screw themselves over and that's what he did. He sent me his return flight info and I asked what flight he was on going there. He said he didn't have the info with him...but he had the return info? Then he called and said he needed to tell me the truth. He was in Cali and didn't want to tell me because he thought I would think he was going to see his ex. When he lied to me 6 weeks ago, I didn't even know he had an ex in Cali so that doesn't make sense. I told him that the if he had told me the truth I wouldn't have even thought twice about it but lying means he's hiding something. It's just stupid that he lied. Me being me, I'm withdrawn and thinking and he's texting like crazy. He said he would be very grateful if I didn't walk away and that he'd do everything in his power to prove he's not what I'm thinking he is.

That's why it's stupid. I'm friends with all my exes. I go to dinner with them, hang out with them. I find it kind of comforting knowing he's still friends with her. A few weeks ago she was in town and they had lunch. It's not a big deal. He said it's because we had just started talking when he told me the lie and by the time he realized I wouldn't care it was too late. But no, I don't think he actually would have had time to see her this weekend because he's been blowing up my phone trying to apologize, he just thought I would worry. Stupid reason to lie.

Posted by Thatgirl
I sometimes hate that I can read people. It would be nice to go through life ignorantly happy. I caught my virgo in a lie last night. To make it worse, I was 100% sure he was lying to me and he just kept digging a hole lying more. Finally I told him it was time for the truth and he broke down. It's not really something worth ending over but it definitely puts a kink in my trust level.

Ya I agree, I hate being able to read people.
I can also feel peoples energy and alot of other really annoying stuff.

"ignorance is bliss"
"Lack of knowledge results in happiness"
If you don't know those things, you are ignorant and should stay there.

I told my friend the other day "Why did your energy just dramatically shift from chilled out to extremely nervous"
I asked because there was no reason what so ever for the shift which was impossible to physically see.

He said "That isn't normal dude, you aren't supposed to be able to feel peoples energies"
I said "I know, it's a f***ing curse"
And then he explained to me why he was nervous which I won't say here..

But I knew that he became nervous because even though I wasn't looking at him I became really really nervous for no reason, which meent it was him and not me.
I know if the guy sitting next to me at walmart has a stomach ache or if he is angry or happy or sad even if I don't know he is sitting by me, because I do know he is sitting by me by sensing him and then he grabs his stomach and pulls out stomach medicine.
I haven't been wrong yet.
This isn't half as strange or fun as it sounds...gfj;lk

yes, you are good in reading others without even they talk, you have that great sense which make it easier for you. i am a capricorn and i wish i had such intuition