pisces and gemini

i have a very short attention span (aka if you can't hold a conversation with me for more than 2 minutes, then i don't know what to tell you) but i find myself soooo intrigued by these gemini men, and that always bums me out. because i know their flighty ways. most men that i have been attracted to have been geminis. very seldom have we had consistent relationships though.

are there any stories of this pairing anyone would like to share?

Posted by pisces-pieces
i have a very short attention span (aka if you can't hold a conversation with me for more than 2 minutes, then i don't know what to tell you) but i find myself soooo intrigued by these gemini men, and that always bums me out. because i know their flighty ways. most men that i have been attracted to have been geminis. very seldom have we had consistent relationships though.

are there any stories of this pairing anyone would like to share?

I chuckled when I saw your post. My gawd you are talking about me .....guilty of having a short attention span.lol I too am intrigued by the chaotic mind of gemini. I know this is going to sound like a bizarre story but I met this gemini artist and posed for him. We became friends and lovers, and are still very good friends. He would be the closest thing to soul matey kind of realationship. I felt so accepted by him and learned so much. We were not sexually compatible however I am in love with his intellectuality. Well ......needless to say he married another pisces woman and we are all 3 very good friends. They have an "open relationship" which is odd for me. I am more traditional. We just have a great friendship between the three of us. I know strange ....right?!? It bums me out too the differences in views in relations. Gemini has been nothing but a loyal friend I will say this much. I can rely on him for almost anything to this day ....so in this sense not flighty .....definately not very commital type though which for me is a bit flighty. Make sense?

PD

aww PD! it makes a lot of sense! i think, i am too, intrigued by their minds. the ones i have dated (very briefly) were quite young like i am but didn't have much going for themselves bc they were so scattered. but the way their thoughts went about, man wow. i ran into one the other night, who seemed to have a lot going for himself and has good self control over his polar ways. but who am i to say over just a simple night of conversing? we had amazing conversation though and i am crushing like a little girl of course. anyone who can hold my attention without me wandering off into another corner of the room, is sure to be of interest.

i'm not sure what it is about the gemini/pisces pairing. i've always thought it was my free spirited mind that has them magnetized toward me, just as i am magnetized by their ways. but they haven't lasted long. i just wonder in the long run, can we really deal with someone with two (or more) of themselves as much as we can deal with our own duality? maybe we are both flighty? one's just in the air, the other in the ocean?

i'm always interested in all the difficult ones! or maybe its just me thats being difficult.
woe is me, lol.

i love linda goodman's love signs. its an awesome little tool for pairing signs. it's as if she wrote a love story for each one! while i was dating my last gemini boyfriend, i bought this book. specifically for what i read about the two of us. here are some things that i thought were kind of neat!


this man seldom wastest time. he believes time was made to be filled by doing something- every second of it somehow utilized (except for sleeping, a luxury the average mercury birds indulge in for only very brief periods.) time is the stuff of which life- and dreams are made. to squander it by doing simply nothing is, to him, a sinful thing. the piseces woman has a completely different view of time. she feels that it's inexhaustible- theres always more of it tomorrow if any of it slips away today. and she believes one of the nicest ways to spend it is doing nothing.

his mind is full of little surprises, and this delights her. he's quick, mentally agile.

he seems to be forever busydreaming, thinking, planning or doing- while she is busy just being.

the sexual chemistry between this man and woman is the silent alchemy that brings them closer together in every way- not just physically. somehow through the blending of their air and water elements during the intimacies of their sexual union, he becomes more like her and becomes more like him. shes more alive, vibrant and aware....he's more subdued, gentle, less restless and seeking.




i love this book. i used to have this specific one, as an online version but can't seem to find it.
very very good read! makes me laugh inside.

I just solicited some advice at the Gemini forum about this pairing. I've never been this attracted to a Gemini before.

thank you fishscales! definitely went over there and added mine too.

Okay Pisces Pieces I have met up with a Gemini from my past that I think I am excited to have come in contact with. Okay I went to HS with him. We never really knew each other ....but I guess we knew each other enough to remember one another. So here is the story. He is an area manager for a group of restaurants here in Colorado. When I was in Denver I happened to see him there about 4 years ago. We acknowledged each other and went about our business. I remembered him because he was the cute one who drove the porche in HS. He is so sweet, he said he remembers me because of my green eyes. Awwwww

So the years have gone by. He happened to be looking me up on facebook about 3 days ago and made contact with me. Keep in mind I have no mutual friends with him on facebook so he sought me out. I just happened to frequent the restaurant he works at and he happened to be at the one I went to today. I kid you not I went to my favorite little sandwhich shop and they closed at noon. Than I went to another one ....and it was closed ......I know go figure. So I thought alright I am going to go in here to pick up a quick cup of soup (at the restaurant he works at) ......and guess who was there. Talk about wild. I was surprised because he goes to different places all the time. So he comes and sits down and talks with me. He is divorced with two teenage kids. He says I have always remembered you because of your green eyes. awwwww He had just contacted me on facebook about 3 days ago and than to run into him. It is crazy. We sat and talked and found out that we both grew up in neighboring cities in Texas ....and ended up in Colorado in the same city because really .....we don't really know each other. I think that is amazing.

So any way .....I gave him my business card ......it has my cell phone and email address and I am on facebook. I sure hope he contacts me. Iwould love to get to know him and go out with him. The parallels are amazing .....and the coincidences of us being in similar places. He was living in Denver and moved back to our home town 3 years ago. I moved back to our home town almost a year ago. I just find the synchronicities amazing. We grew up in neighboring cities in Texas and ended up moving to Colorado about the same time at the same age.....we were often times located in the same area .....it is like the universe keeps bringing us together and yet we just pass by.

I have not been this excited about someone like this in a long time.

PD

My first husband was a Gemini.


There were many reasons why it didn't work out .. but, what is on my mind now as being the top reason was his uncontrolled anger.

And I can see this in all Gemini's .. just the other day at work, a girl Gemini was being snarky to everyone, just a foul mood .... and after her shit when she was in the backroom I asked her, what was the matter, her bad mood is noticable and what's the matter?

The current girlfriend of her ex-husband pissed her off in a text .. the issue being that her youngest daughter has fallen pregnant and the girlfriend of her ex, which would be the grandchilds STEP-grandma is excited about being a grandmother.

That ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ had so infuriated this Gemini woman I work with that she carries it around, targeting anybody who crosses her. And in the backroom, she even said something to the effect of ...

.... "I'm ready to just explode, nobody better get in my way right now." ... or something like that.


The point is .... Gemini's are like this, and probably the number one reason why I can't relate to them. If a person pisses you off, then you are suppose to be angry at THAT SPECIFIC person ... not everybody. And my first husband was like that .. still is, according to his current wife, who is number 5, I think (not sure how many of those women he married).


If somebody pissed him off ......... he was just mad, didn't matter at who, didn't matter where he was .. there was no targeting this anger in the direction in which it should be appropriated ...... fuck everybody and everything in front of them.

Gemini's are seriously lacking in this department, I've witnessed it time and again with them over the years ... and for a Pisces like me, or maybe all Pisces in general .. this shit doesn't work. If I have issue with a person over a situation .. then it is ONLY with this person, and ONLY over that particular issue.

yowsers. i'm sure that it applies to some, but to each his own. as a pisces, i think we have a gift of putting others at ease when they aren't. and i think thats what i would do in such a scenario, most of the time it works. thats me though, i'm just sayin.


PD, i am so delighted for you! and i hope it all goes uphill and beyond from here.

i've dated to a lot of younger geminis my age, and it wouldn't work because i know they need to find their grounds (i am in my early twenties) but i met someone just recently that was about 10 years older and reminds me much of a few other older geminis that i've grown to admire. i just have no clue how to approach the situation. i'll just let it ride i guess.

"PD, i am so delighted for you! and i hope it all goes uphill and beyond from here"

Me too......from my low attention span I am all over the board with men .....but nothing has grasped me solid. I have had hawtness from my scorpio teacher, and now this Gemini. I am telling you I am digging the Gemini because he is 100% available and he is latino and all the parallels. I am intrigued mostly that we have crossed paths and never really got to know one another but admired one another from a distance for 21 years......aaaa ....well you know this pisces here (low attention span) I might be moving on to the next adventure. I really do want to settle into one romance but it just seems the right situation has not presented itself. Well see what happens with Gemini. He is definately hawt. He was so cute .....my friend just moved into town and wanted to go have some margaritas .....so we went to his restaurant and he was there. My friend thought he was hot. He was taking food out of the waitresses hand and bringing it to our table ...he made our margaritas....lol So cute ....I love that.

PD

Well yuck ...I would never want to be with another pisces .....lol Too much brain damage. My head hurts all on my own. 😛

PD

My girl is a Pisces and we have a beautiful union. I believe that we both have lived long enough to recognize our idiosyncrasies, and to focus our energies on positive. It is not easy let me just say. However, we find ourselves looking like puppies look when you do something that they can't comprehend. Heads turn from side to side and the ears perk up. But, in the end what we love about each other is everything. And we have learned to respect each others way of viewing the world. Her: Wants to save the world. Me: Want to save the part that wants to be saved. So there's our dilemma.

Funny though. All of the negative findings on this pairing seems unjust. Pisces are said to be compatible with other water. As they get older they are not. Nor am I still compatible with Air or Fire anymore. Strange. As you develop your Vibration you find yourself being attracted to what you know you need as opposed to what feels easy. My opinion. I'm always attracting Piscean women. Now, if they could only stay out of the downstream for more than a day that would be ideal for there mates. Cancer men seem to help them stay in that stream from what I've seen. And Scorpio's seem to sting them too often. Earth signs come across as stable. But emotionally damaged and BORING!! Pisceans like comfort and fun like us Gems. As long as you give them lots of affection and be very gentle with there hearts they will start to reveal secrets that they haven't told anyone. 😉

You fish are quite the escape artists though. 😉 I love you anyway!

GM

"Pisces are said to be compatible with other water. As they get older they are not. Nor am I still compatible with Air or Fire anymore. Strange. As you develop your Vibration you find yourself being attracted to what you know you need as opposed to what feels easy. My opinion."

GM - That is a very interesting opinion. I know it is true for me. The attraction with water for me is instant and hawt ....but than it becomes repulsive. Which brings me to question P-Angel ......

P - Do you think maybe you and your Gem were too young and not ready for relations? Do you think it would be different now that you are older? I am probably asking a loaded question because from reading her post ....her gem relations was not good at all. I will say this much my first marriage with Taurus .....in my opinion we got married too young. I had no idea who I was or what I really wanted in life.


"Earth signs come across as stable. But emotionally damaged and BORING!!" So very true for me. I honestly don't think I could ever be with another earth man ever again.


"Pisceans like comfort and fun like us Gems. As long as you give them lots of affection and be very gentle with there hearts they will start to reveal secrets that they haven't told anyone." As a pisces woman B I N G O ......very true. You have figured it out.

How sweet about your relationship GM. How long have you been with your mermaid?

Posted by Pisces_Dream
"Pisces are said to be compatible with other water. As they get older they are not. Nor am I still compatible with Air or Fire anymore. Strange. As you develop your Vibration you find yourself being attracted to what you know you need as opposed to what feels easy. My opinion."

GM - That is a very interesting opinion. I know it is true for me. The attraction with water for me is instant and hawt ....but than it becomes repulsive. Which brings me to question P-Angel ......

P - Do you think maybe you and your Gem were too young and not ready for relations? Do you think it would be different now that you are older? I am probably asking a loaded question because from reading her post ....her gem relations was not good at all. I will say this much my first marriage with Taurus .....in my opinion we got married too young. I had no idea who I was or what I really wanted in life.


"Earth signs come across as stable. But emotionally damaged and BORING!!" So very true for me. I honestly don't think I could ever be with another earth man ever again.


"Pisceans like comfort and fun like us Gems. As long as you give them lots of affection and be very gentle with there hearts they will start to reveal secrets that they haven't told anyone." As a pisces woman B I N G O ......very true. You have figured it out.

How sweet about your relationship GM. How long have you been with your mermaid?

I've been with her over 3 years now. Peaks and Valleys like most relationships. But, I'm a Gemini with Moon and Venus in Taurus with a Leo rising. So, I would be considered a Gemini with feet planted firmly on ye ol' ground. 😉 She calls me a "Fiery Tornado". Air, Earth, and Fire.

GM

GM

Wow, Gemini - that was very deep, profound.. and pretty eerily accurate. At least for me.

I've definitely changed over the years, (an evolved Pisces! Grab a camera - this is big! LOL j/k) and other Waters no longer suit me like they once did... I'm more compatible with Air now (and no, I don't have much/any Air in my chart, I'm mostly Pisces and Taurus with a touch of Fire) - Airs like my Libra, some Gemini and Aqua friends and occasionally my polar opposite Virgos. Earths are good for stable connections (my daughters are Taurus) but romantically speaking, it was usually too boring for a Pisces who hates boredom and needs constant challenge and mental stimulation.

"Pisceans like comfort and fun like us Gems. As long as you give them lots of affection and be very gentle with there hearts they will start to reveal secrets that they haven't told anyone." As a pisces woman B I N G O ......very true. You have figured it out. CO-SIGN! lol