Pisces daughter and Libra mother

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Gangstalicious1982
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What is it in our natal charts that make me and mother constantly clash?



Here's her:


Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Libra 23.02 Ascendant Sagittarius 16.34
Moon Aquarius 2.53 II Capricorn 22.01
Mercury Scorpio 16.15 III Pisces 2.19
Venus Virgo 27.36 IV Aries 8.10
Mars Virgo 20.06 V Taurus 5.44
Jupiter Gemini 26.28 R VI Taurus 27.31
Saturn Libra 29.17 VII Gemini 16.34
Uranus Cancer 23.01 VIII Cancer 22.01
Neptune Libra 23.36 IX Virgo 2.19
Pluto Leo 24.36 Midheaven Libra 8.10


Here's mine:


Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Pisces 20.05 Ascendant Virgo 16.59
Moon Libra 3.51 II Libra 11.37
Mercury Aquarius 25.59 III Scorpio 11.12
Venus Aquarius 5.53 IV Sagittarius 14.43
Mars Libra 17.04 R V Capricorn 18.52
Jupiter Scorpio 9.59 R VI Aquarius 20.01
Saturn Libra 20.59 R VII Pisces 16.59
Uranus Sagittarius 4.38 R VIII Aries 11.37
Neptune Sagittarius 26.58 IX Taurus 11.12
Pluto Libra 26.29 R Midheaven Gemini 14.43
Lilith Sagittarius 18.37 XI Cancer 18.52
Asc node Cancer 20.53 XII Leo 20.01
Lilith Libra 3.06 XI Scorpio 5.44
Asc node Capricorn 28.59 XII Scorpio 27.31


I'm just curious. I have absolutely nooooooooooooooooooo problem with everyone else in my immediate family. We have never gotten along. It's like she nitpicks everything. She's passive aggressive. I'd rather resolve an issue and move on. She's the opposite. We had a big blow out yet again and she said she never wanted to speak to me again. I said something not so nice. She's blow out's with my virgo brother too. To the point of them not speaking for 8 months. I honestly feel like she enjoys creating drama for some reason and plays like she's the victim. Even my grandmother had to tell her to stop picking at me.
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asdfghjkl
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"I honestly feel like she enjoys creating drama for some reason and plays like she's the victim"

Holy crap that is weird.

I am a Pisces with a Libra mom and I think the EXACT same thing.

I even tell her those very same words and she gets really really angry then.
She likes to make others feel sorry for her like I am the problem even though I only do things to help.
I try my hardest to be nice and not be a stupid passive agressive piece of shet like her.
But that is her, I HATE LIBRAS.

They LOVE drama and to cause PROBLEMS.
All I ever want is piece.

With your situation does it matter what you say?
I meen, everything I say (which is never unkind) is taken to offense and she immediately responds defensively like I am a bad person.

Libras are cruel.
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asdfghjkl, I doubt you're "never unkind" to these people you profess to hate, call names, think are pieces of shit. But clearly you think you've got them fooled about your true colors underneath, and that's got you patting yourself on the back. tsk tsk 😢

Anyway, Gangsta... the parts that jump out at me at a glance (and I'm no professional, mind you!) is this... for a Libra who is ALLLLL about balance, she's got some inner conflicts... Virgo Venus/Mars... Virgos can be VERY nitpicky and critical at times, ESP with their loved ones (Virgo Venus) kind of perfectionists who always strive for better.. heck, esp with their children, because it's their JOB to somehow teach, guide, and improve their kids, right? Add to that her Scorpio Mercury.. she thinks like a Scorp.. deep, intense, nothing superficial or even as "light and airy" as your TON of Air (man, for a Pisces.. you sure have A LOT of Air!!!) Scorpio is the deep, dark, choking, obsessive thoughts.. Your Libra/Aqua nature would rather just let that crap all go, why obsess about it, it's DONE with, right? But with that heavy Scorp Mercury is also her Aqua Moon... her emotions can seem superficial at times, easily detachable... friendships over relationships at times... so the two clash!! She's got all these heavy, deep thoughts.. but these airy emotions, gets all twisted up... then her Virgo Mars makes it come out harsher and more critical than she probably intended, esp with her children.

I doubt if she means to be so bitchy, Gangsta. She's just got so many inner conflicts, and so very, very different from you. If you were a couple, I'd tell you to break up LOL But you only get one Momma.
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Posted by Nefer
asdfghjkl, I doubt you're "never unkind" to these people you profess to hate, call names, think are pieces of shit. But clearly you think you've got them fooled about your true colors underneath, and that's got you patting yourself on the back. tsk tsk 😢

Anyway, Gangsta... the parts that jump out at me at a glance (and I'm no professional, mind you!) is this... for a Libra who is ALLLLL about balance, she's got some inner conflicts... Virgo Venus/Mars... Virgos can be VERY nitpicky and critical at times, ESP with their loved ones (Virgo Venus) kind of perfectionists who always strive for better.. heck, esp with their children, because it's their JOB to somehow teach, guide, and improve their kids, right? Add to that her Scorpio Mercury.. she thinks like a Scorp.. deep, intense, nothing superficial or even as "light and airy" as your TON of Air (man, for a Pisces.. you sure have A LOT of Air!!!) Scorpio is the deep, dark, choking, obsessive thoughts.. Your Libra/Aqua nature would rather just let that crap all go, why obsess about it, it's DONE with, right? But with that heavy Scorp Mercury is also her Aqua Moon... her emotions can seem superficial at times, easily detachable... friendships over relationships at times... so the two clash!! She's got all these heavy, deep thoughts.. but these airy emotions, gets all twisted up... then her Virgo Mars makes it come out harsher and more critical than she probably intended, esp with her children.

I doubt if she means to be so bitchy, Gangsta. She's just got so many inner conflicts, and so very, very different from you. If you were a couple, I'd tell you to break up LOL But you only get one Momma.



I don't like to fool anyone and the "never unkind" was a bit of a stretch but not by much when you measure.
Do you really think I was saying that I am never unkind? I am not Jesus and I know that saying I am would be very rediculous.
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brianafay
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I know another Libra mom like that. *shrugs*
No matter what her daughter does, it's wrong. She's the it's all about me type...tries to relive her childhood through her daughter and is constantly negative and puts her down. It's sad. 😢

Anyways, conflict is probably part of her nature, as Nefer said...she's a Libra with all these Virgo influences