No .. we don't have to play hard to get .. we can get whomever we choose, so there's no need to make a play at it.
Drifting away is caused from a defense mechanism .. if we sense that someone is using, abusing, controlling, gaming or demanding of us .. then we drift away occasionally to analyze the behaviour. If this doesn't improve and we are positive that the other person is attempting to do any of those things .. then we completely detach and swim.
If this man is displaying this kind of occasional drifting away from you, then I suggest you re-evaluate the mutual desire within this relationship .. for if he's doing this now, then it's only a matter of time before he leaves for good.
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