Aaarrgh, I haven't been on in a while... so, update: Mr. Pisces swam away, basically, back in Feb. Married to his job, no time (his words). Blamed his not wanting to see me based on me putting the ball in his court (I didn't ask him out and let it be - you show no interest, I'm not putting in any effort).
He still calls periodically. He actually showed up at my house tonight, unannounced! Granted, I was happy to see him, still have a thing for him, despite what I view as his faults (I can overlook faults). I was shocked, none the less.
I spoke to him earlier and he asked if I was "going out", nope was not. When he was here I asked (presuming he thought I was going out anyway) "Are you surprised I'm home?" - his response "No, I was hoping to find another guy here so I could quit calling you."
He also said he was going to dinner, he didn't necessarily invite me. I wasn't going to invite myself, although clearly he wanted me to, why can't he just ask? I still kissed him (me making the move... he responded resoundingly well).
All the above, WTF—
I need to know where I stand, and this is crazy making shit!!! *smh*
he's playing love games. pisces are playful lovers.. the guys are at first at least. you're in for some sex, girlfriend. if you keep him long enough he'll open up and introduce you to a whole nother planet of romanticism
Is it titled 'My pisces is a constant misery..."? 'cause I found that in your profile but it just takes me back to the dxpnet home page.. summarize your situation to me
I've come to a realization, he calls to see if I've change, to fit a mold he has in his mind of what the ideal woman should be. He does seem to want me to fit that mold, but I don't, so he apparently is struggling with that fact. He asks questions, which I'm honest in my answers, and then makes references that I obviously don't care about him because I don't fit the mold. IDK, he drives me nuts. I shouldn't have to change for anyone, at the same time I miss him on some level. I told him last night that there is a part of me that loves him AND that there is a part of me that hates him (that was after he asked if I would become a member of the KKK... wtf? he was trying to yank my chain for sure!). Is there anyone normal out there? Maybe I should switch to women LOL
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He still calls periodically. He actually showed up at my house tonight, unannounced! Granted, I was happy to see him, still have a thing for him, despite what I view as his faults (I can overlook faults). I was shocked, none the less.
I spoke to him earlier and he asked if I was "going out", nope was not. When he was here I asked (presuming he thought I was going out anyway) "Are you surprised I'm home?" - his response "No, I was hoping to find another guy here so I could quit calling you."
He also said he was going to dinner, he didn't necessarily invite me. I wasn't going to invite myself, although clearly he wanted me to, why can't he just ask? I still kissed him (me making the move... he responded resoundingly well).
All the above, WTF—
I need to know where I stand, and this is crazy making shit!!! *smh*