Pisces and feelings

Do Pisces Feelings Disappear After a Relationship Ends

Pisces tend to hold onto feelings and memories even after a relationship ends. They often remember the bond deeply and may experience emotional ups and downs as they process their loss. While they may appear to move on, their heart often keeps the connection alive internally, making it difficult to forget or fully let go.

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I was wondering if pisces feelings just disapear when they are done with someone no matter what the relationship is? I am trying hard to deal with this loss and most days I am tearless and then all of a sudden something will remind me of all we shared and I am a mess. Deep down do you still remember the people that were in your life or do they become an insignificant nothing....totally forgotten. I don't even know why this should matter but it is something that has been on my mind :/ We had a very close bond and I guess I'm having trouble understanding everything that happened and I'm having trouble letting go of him in my heart. I don't think i will ever be able to forget him or ever stop missing him and his support and friendship 😢
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Because Pisces are so intuitively sensitive on the empathetic level .. we can actually, literally feel other peoples feelings.

Because of this ..... Pisces have a built-in defense mechanism in which we use to protect our hearts.

We have the ability to disconnect, to seperate ourselves from our feelings .... when something happens in which a relationship is over, or has gone wrong, or there is any kind of emotional pain or torment, we can completely severe the chord.

Now this doesn't mean we have forgotten, oh no, we remember everything .... it's just that now these feelings are outside of ourself, well not really outside of ourselves, but, it's the only way to explain it.

It is literally a switch .. we can flip it off, to where we no longer feel anything associated. And if we didn't do this, then we would emotionally suffer just like everyone else. We choose not to suffer when the relationship is finished like everyone else .. they would choose to hang on to a bitter end to where they are completely destroyed emotionally because of unfulfillment. Eventhough they knew that they were headed towards pain and anguish .. they would still hang on until emotional beaten, and this is because they are helpless to these feelings, and have no choice except to suffer with them.


Pisces people have the ability to not suffer .... we simply disconnect ourselves.




It's the infamous ...... swimming away
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"Pisces people have the ability to not suffer .... we simply disconnect ourselves."

Stop using euphemisms on yourself, it doesn't work.

You just never cared to begin with...act upon a relationship only to hide that you don't care...but then again...many of the pisces on here agree with you; scary... Maybe that's the reason you guys are on here...not enough care to or "work" to actually get a relationship going besides mirroring their "emotions" to only act as though you do.

Too simply and quickly disconnect = They simply dillude themselves of a relationship ever existing...by lying to themselves that there was never anything real to begin with...but that's just plain illogical...


Fucking blood sucker.
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I would say the disconnect is indeed sorti to the outsider illogical. I myself do disconnect and i am cold but there is ever that warmth and glow for that person nestle deep inside. I would say i tend to ponder the fonder moments marked my memory by those ive shared with than the painful ones. I remember every detail of the person their mannerisms, favorite clothes, items, sayings even what turned their pleasure in the bedroom. I dont believe any person is forever shunned from my life. But to make up tracks or to retrieve a small ghost of what once existed would be difficult indeed. Especially if i felt she were the antagonist causing end.

However sometimes someones virtues can outshine their mistakes even in retrospect. I retain the thought that you can read a book a second time and youll find things you missed. Sometimes key things. Perhaps a relationship could be the same if the setting and mood were changed. You can have whatever you desire in this world if you go about it in unison with everything. I remember very single word spoken and every thing that went awry. I admit i've, with much regret later on, said and done things unbecoming and that caused great amounts of emotional pain before swimming quickly away.

Love or feeling for someone never truly dies within but we do put you in a room shut off the lights and close the door. I avoid those doors with great delicacy and form. But its really up to you if your true and completely real he may be able to sense that. But you can do things that you dont even know re directly wrong. You need to learn to feel with your words rather than think with them in order to wrap your head around a pisces.

Youll find that most pisces are void of logic but flourish in the wealth of intuition and feeling. All pisces are of some difference our moods can almost churn out another personality at times. Even P youll find has advice thats given of a completely different outlook one day to the next. But yes we do tell ourselves lies to shield the heart. Its part of the disconnect system.

But nothing is impossible if one uses the right emotions and approach they could technically flip the breaker back up and connect again. Youll find many of us at times will reconsider someone if change seems apparent or if the emotional connection was so deep that we got lost in it. I think like many other pisces i find that the world could offer me nothing better than a lover who befriends my soul.
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You're making assumptions, Poney. Defining emotions is a hard thing to do, and I think P-angel did a pretty good job of it. Its not that the Pisces doesnt feel anything to begin with, rather they take an emotional connection that they identify as harmful, and simply make it external to them. Even though its supposed to hurt, its tossed to a place where you dont care as much, keen to a victim in a chinese earthquake. That sucks, but its so far away to be ineffective at changing your life.
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So we do the disconnect to shield the pain that comes with your memories and the interaction with you. Many things will remind us of past people songs shows places. The sound of your voice or your smell can trigger emotional destruction within. We are careful to avoid it at all costs becasue we have to confront ourselves and loss if we dont.

Sometimes you dont realize how good something really was until it is absent. Sometimes those holes are never filled. But i wish you luck with him.
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Posted by cathy89No it's not, trust me 🙂 We do care, a lot. A little too much at times, that's why we need that switch.

Self-preservation..

I don't know if I'm making any sense, it's hard to explain



Okay, I guess was just feeling a little philosophical tonight. Altough I'll never understand the ability to switch off "caring" just like that (unless under extreme circumstances or in the form of repression) I've seen it happen up close several times. I'm gonna ask for popcorn the next time because it's fascinating stuff! 😉 And educational!


Hahaha cracked me up there, @ sorti-fantastic poney! Btw dude, in your profile you say you're "with a beautiful and very wise pisces gal". How is that working out for ya? 😛
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Maybe that's the reason you guys are on here...not enough care to or "work" to actually get a relationship going besides mirroring their "emotions" to only act as though you do.




funny coming from the guy whos a permanent bachelor...



I thought you knew why i remained single, as how i know about your "business" with your boss, but i guess you are the only one who didn't catch the reason why I remained single, but thats another fact i'll point out later...


im 27, married and have a kid on the way, im not sure how youre gonna tell me i am the one who cant put enough work into making a relationship work....
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Call me in 10 years buddy! Don't worry, I'll be alive by then and if things are stil up and running then you can fucking shot me for all i care!
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Youll find that most pisces are void of logic but flourish in the wealth of intuition and feeling. All pisces are of some difference our moods can almost churn out another personality at times. Even P youll find has advice thats given of a completely different outlook one day to the next. But yes we do tell ourselves lies to shield the heart. Its part of the disconnect system.





Very interesting. Indeed, a man whos passion truly rules his reason; yet, I have one problem with the pisces utilitarian life style and the problem constantly arises with the progression of change. When growing attach, doesn't the moment of the spark begin to fade, since the pisces moods change daily, into something that gives them a newer outlook each moment of their life. Of course, there is a new awakening with each new member, but with if it was to be for the long-hawl? Does your view of your woman keep you thinking that you will love her the same today as how you will twenty years from now? Does this feelings of words allow you to truly flourish without any motives of visual fulfullment besides the emotional one you seek? One problem leads into many sub-problems that begins to show flaws, but maybe you can bring something much more insightful to this picture...
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yeah, what p-angel said initially makes sense but sorta doesn't. i just don't know this sign well enough to get my mind wrapped around it.

i can understand the concept of detaching oneself or "swimming away" thing. the three preceding signs tend to do this well and i guess it gets progressively "detached" as you work your way toward pisces.

with that said, the pisces i'm befriending is lamenting some chick he dated for 3 months. i find that INSANE! how the hell did he fall so fast and why did he fall so hard? he claims that this is uncommon for him and maybe it is...dunno. it does make me uncomfortable though. "fast" doesn't set too well with me.

i also noticed that in terms of the ex-chicky, he is unable at this point to have a congenial friendship with her. he said it was "too soon." is that the swimming away thing? vs another sign which might go out with the ex in hopes of rekindling or holding on? he did say he'd like to remain friends with her but that at the moment, things were too raw.

so is the swimming away/distance more about not expressing the emotion vs removing oneself from it? and how do you remove yourself from your emotions? i didn't get with the aqua and i damn sure don't get it with pisces. yall sound even more cold after a breakup than they are.
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Posted by LoneShark
I understand that feeling raven29. However, like the other pisces, I am fullly capable of cutting people or feelings off within seconds. This did not come naturally I must say, it has come with time and life experience. I may be young but I have been faced with many trials in my young life of both emotional and physical anguish. Im sure there was a time in every little pisces life where something meant the world to them ( family member, friend, lover, etc ) and it was torn from our grasp- at that moment, that is when we began to become "the swimmer".

What is it that you are going through raven29? A break up?



No not a breakup in a relationship sense but the loss of a very close friend. We knew everything about each other and were there for each other 24/7. We (or so i thought) had a very rare, special bond that is hard to find in a lifetime. I thought he cared about me but by me saying some nasty things to him about how he was acting made him turn cold in an instant and want nothing more to do with me. I'm not trying to say I'm not at fault ...not in the least...but how someone can go from saying "he is the luckiest person in the world to have someone like me in his life and how he trusted me like he never has trusted anyone before" and then just walk away...I don't get it. Not at all. I am lost and 100% heartbroken over this. Some days I get through fine and others I am a mess 😢 I have tried apologizing to him a few times and he wants me out of his life...period 😢
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Posted by Awake
I can relate to basically nothing in this entire thread, and I am a Pisces. I think the 'disconnecting' bit comes gradually, it isnt just something instant, but rather a gradual detachment. I dont understand how if you truly love someone, you can just instantly unplug, it isnt possible. I think maybe from their perspective that is what it seems like, but I think the opposite of that is quite the reality. I think when people see a pisces 'unplug', there has been problems there for quite some time, and that person simply failed at actually considering their actions/words and did not try to put themselves in another's shoe-violence in silence. I could write a few pages on this from my perspective, but there is a very brief and not very well explained theory of this 'swimming away' bit.



So are you saying that deep down, the way you felt about a person is still there or that those feelings just disappeared over time?
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Posted by valeria25
lol 😛 You're a fire sign. You express 'caring' in a completely different way.

Although...I wonder, if one has a moon in taurus or leo for instance (a fixed sign)...how does that affect?



Yes that's true. As a Leo I'll never reach that level of emotional excellence 😉 I don't know exactly what the Taurus placement does to me, but the Cancer moon is very much influential. I get easily attached and feelings are tough business. No off-buttons here.
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yeah, what p-angel said initially makes sense but sorta doesn't. i just don't know this sign well enough to get my mind wrapped around it.





Isn't sorti a virgo? Wouldn't virgos analzye more (being very grounded) and look towards the future and what it may or may not hold; they want to look at all sides of a relationship, even if that's 20 years from now - the good and the bad, and what you can live with. While alot of times, pisces can live for the moment and enjoy life (sometimes to an extravagant level) but they do see/anticipate the future and choose wisely who they want to spend their time with.(because of that famous intuition).

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In some sense, to follow intuition is to follow illogical suspecion, not that I am trying to offend people, but i find that this method only works half and half, and so many of which (like many of my pisces cousins) ended up hurt with "men" they thought were soulmates.

The difference is that I would rather see if the person has a "good will", which is to know whether or not the motive of her claim of being with me is "real" rather than thrown at me with "words" because i find that words hold no meaning to their actions. Thefish and Ian follow this method to a certain extent: Ian makes sure that his women introduce him to his family while thefish observes his woman's interactions with his/her family. Yet, the way P introduced the "switch" of turning love on and off so quickly only proves that they are only illusional, but thefish made a far satement to understand, so i understand now.

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valeria, i'm not questioning his reason/need to ANALyze. i'm saying what he wrote initially was incoherent. he redeemed himself with the second one...a bit so i think i understand what he's saying now.

i'm gathering that sorti is saying that piscean emo is based primarily on intuition and that once reality sets in and the fantasy/good feeling the pisces used to enter the relationship no longer meshes with reality, the bond can strengthen/fall apart over time. it's not that their lover changed, it's that they finally became "more than a feeling" and pisces did/didn't like who was really in front of them even though the real deal was there all along. is this true? do you enter relationship solely based on feeling/intuition? does this mean that pisces are quick to enter relationships? are you even quicker to get out when your intuition is wrong?

@sea - are you're saying that when the relationship is over and you "swim away," it's after you feel you have exhausted all options within the relationship? so where it may feel like an abrupt/cold dismissal to the other person, it's actually not because the decision to leave came over time and they should've known you were pulling away?

if so, this makes perfect sense. the only issue i'd see is how you communicate your concerns/need for improvement during the relationship. are you giving your lover/spouse CLEAR indications that changes need to be made before you reach your breaking point?

this is trippy because this is exactly what i perceive about aqua and in a way about caps. both have the ability to come to abrupt, full-stops. their reasons for putting an end to it are valid but HOW/WHEN they choose to do it, not so much. it's like they could be unhappy for months/years but their partner is none the wiser. i think that's why a lover/spouse can feel more frozen out by an aqua post breakup. the aqua failed to make their lover/spouse part of the decision making process. they clearly had one, it clearly wasn't easy but the partner gets the conclusion, not all the details that led up to it. does pisces bottle emo/concerns/become non-expressive when things start to go down hill? or do you do the opposite?
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"Pisces people have the ability to not suffer .... we simply disconnect ourselves."


Agreed. Although, the switch doesn't necessarily mean we can just completely abandon a loved one. Quite the opposite in many cases, unless of course abandoning is the only alternative....but basically, the switch just allows us to endure without suffering.


Pisces are master escapists, and the "switch" is exactly that....a form of escapism. Sometimes its through fantasies, addictions, or delusions where we can actually convince ourselves everything is alright, and even find ways to justify the most seemingly unjustifiable shit. This is why Pisces can seem deceptive. We have an ability to lie to ourselves in such clever ways, that those lies can actually manifest into truths....if only in our minds. The world doesn't really matter anyway, so as long as we convince ourselves, we're okay.

We'll do anything to free ourselves from feeling what we don't want to feel. If we suffer, it is a choice. Some enjoy the suffering because they like being martyrs...so in essence, they're not really suffering in the first place.

Tough to explain.
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i agree with p angel. I always new this was a trait about me but didnt realie it was a pisces thing thats cool I no that. If I think dat something is dead in the water even though it hurts i completely block that off to save myself from self pity and despair. its definatly a behaviour learned to save yourself from the harsh reality of what ever is going on. Don't think I would ever forget about that person though I think I still love everyone who I ever have loved just sometimes things are best left alone rather then making them worse
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Posted by MsPisces.
"Pisces people have the ability to not suffer .... we simply disconnect ourselves."


Agreed. Although, the switch doesn't necessarily mean we can just completely abandon a loved one. Quite the opposite in many cases, unless of course abandoning is the only alternative....but basically, the switch just allows us to endure without suffering.


Pisces are master escapists, and the "switch" is exactly that....a form of escapism. Sometimes its through fantasies, addictions, or delusions where we can actually convince ourselves everything is alright, and even find ways to justify the most seemingly unjustifiable shit. This is why Pisces can seem deceptive. We have an ability to lie to ourselves in such clever ways, that those lies can actually manifest into truths....if only in our minds. The world doesn't really matter anyway, so as long as we convince ourselves, we're okay.

We'll do anything to free ourselves from feeling what we don't want to feel. If we suffer, it is a choice. Some enjoy the suffering because they like being martyrs...so in essence, they're not really suffering in the first place.

Tough to explain.





ya think?

r u saying virgos like playing the victim whereas pisces doesn't relish in being victimized but position themselves in ways that they often are? in other words, if pisces is suffering, unlike virgo, it's not complete BS. virgo plays victim. pisces are victims?

'*confused*
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Posted by cathy89
(Surely you can remember the leo-thread, that went on long enough)
But when I'm done, I'm done..


Yeah I was wondering what became of that. Now I know -- that's that huh? 😉 That dude has got to learn how to set his priorities straight around Piscean ladies!


Posted by valeria25Your Moon in cancer just means you are at home there. Cancer rules the Moon doesn't it? Lucky the girl who gets you, Leo guy! 😄
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Yeah I'm a keeper 😉 I just wish those Cancer emotions wouldn't lead me astray all the time, sometimes it feels more like a curse. I know how to listen to my inner voice, yet I always go with my emotions.
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i was being facetious about taurus being slow 😛

and badu, i can't really evaluate pisces in terms of her. she's what her record company wants her to be versus and actual person. i mean, she's an ex-beauty contestant for cripes sake. just like lauryn hill was a young actress. that's not to say they don't have depth but what we see is a product, not the individual.

i've BRIEFLY dated two pisces males in the past and i wish i had of dealt with them a little longer to figure out what makes yall tick. i'm not even sure why i stopped talking to them. i think i just didn't feel grounded in dealing with them...which sorta makes sense given they're water signs.
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valeria, i'm not questioning his reason/need to ANALyze. i'm saying what he wrote initially was incoherent. he redeemed himself with the second one...a bit so i think i understand what he's saying now.



Don't get it?

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hmmph...as a badu fan you should know this isn't a hijacking. it's a cypher. we're building. knowledge plus understanding blah blah blah...

sorti, no, i didn't get the post i questioned and if you read it again, neither will you. maybe it was the late hour in which it was written and the typos. the second one made more sense.

anyhoo, pisces sounds interesting and you're right, it's hard to pick up on any ques astro-wise without having real life examples.
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sorti, no, i didn't get the post i questioned and if you read it again, neither will you. maybe it was the late hour in which it was written and the typos. the second one made more sense.





I multi-task with my job and this site, so i never have the time to glance back at the minor errors i make. The company I am working for took down any site that isn't work prohibited, so i have to use the proxy sites to get on, and i take psychology courses during the afternoon till night, so i get home pretty late, so i never really get the time to work on surface structure. Ah well.

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and for what its worth, ill tell you again.... you dont know much of anything about me.... so im not sure why you like to play it off like you actually know me or my "boss"..... shit i got you all so fucking fooled it aint even fun anymore...



Wow, your unique. I guess your life is that sad to start pretending to pretend that you aren't real to make people think that you truly who you aren't to only show them that you are who you truly are. Dude, your not original and your not an engima, this is social sites for people who have "problems". C'mon, don't try to be kvlt and mysterious, only fucking babys do shit like that.
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Maybe that's the reason you guys are on here...not enough care to or "work" to actually get a relationship going besides mirroring their "emotions" to only act as though you do.




funny coming from the guy whos a permanent bachelor...



I thought you knew why i remained single, as how i know about your "business" with your boss, but i guess you are the only one who didn't catch the reason why I remained single, but thats another fact i'll point out later...


im 27, married and have a kid on the way, im not sure how youre gonna tell me i am the one who cant put enough work into making a relationship work....



Call me in 10 years buddy! Don't worry, I'll be alive by then and if things are stil up and running then you can fucking shot me for all i care!




from what ive gathered from your posts, the reason you are single would be because you dont care that much about women to actually stick around and try to make it work, you just bail at the first sign of trouble... im sure you will deny this... but your previous posts speak volumes about you....
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If so pull out the threads that do, then i'll agree if it is true or not.
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convenient that you deleted your account and all your posts went with it......

okay, what does this prove?

but i do have a memory.. a good one, when i want to utilize it....



I guess this is the right time to use it, but you don't have any real evidence to state any "facts", so this utilize method fails.

get over yourself sortilege you are not the cool dude that you once thought you were.....

but carry on projecting all the things that you hate about yourself onto me.... i dont mind...
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NO, i think i'll pass, save that for domino, he loves talking too you. He's YOUR e-bestfriend...

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Okay this is completely off topic.

Thanks thefish, for helping me out understand pisces nature.
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Posted by wtf?
they are both dreamer and realistic..

they won't forget about good times spent together..
things they liked about you..
they will cherish those moments.. in their heads..

BUT: they also keep in mind reasons why they cut you off..
if for "X" reason, you decided to cut someone off..

why would you come back on your decision ?
to show you're willing to expose yourself to more pain ?

good times spent together belong to the past..



I can totally understand this and in some ways I am the same with some (most) people but not him. I wish in time i could show him i would never ever hurt him like he has been in the past but he does have trust issues and difficulty getting past things because of all his past hurts 😢 I just wish I could fix this somehow, not today or maybe next month but maybe someday :/ I really miss him more than I have ever missed anyone. He is just the best most wondeful person I have ever met and he truly let me see the real him...deep inside....not the face he shows everyone else. I miss our closeness and abilty to sense when either one needed the other one without saying a word.
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http://2unblocksites.info/browse.php?u=Oi8vd3d3LmR4cG5ldC5jb20vb3Bpbmlvbi9tZXNzYWdlcy5hc3A cD01JmlkPTE5NjYxOA% 3D% 3D&b=5#1968095">Posted by ianthefish
why wait 10 years ive already been with my wife for 7 years....

maybe you can come back in a year if you can get a relationship to last that long?



No evidence for me to know that I runaway...Fine! We'll discuss my "affairs" at another time.