Pisces ex- lover returning into my life?

Hi there! This is my first topic on the forum.About my situation; I had a pisces lover just before I have got separated from my husband. I really loved him and we were planning a future together. However the situation at the time of the separation got complicated so I finished my relation with my loving pisces man too😢.it really did leave me heartbroken and I was told by many of our friends that he was suffering very much too. So after a year without contact he called me and a few weeks later we went out for a date. We had a nice time and kissed. I think he really enjoyed himself too. Now there are a few things which make me crossed: the communication. He hardly ever calls me or starts conversation😢.however if I call him he would be sweet and trying to arrange us to go out. I cant understand?if I like someone I would like to communicate with them?!now he will come to mine in two days for a coffee and then next weekend we go out for a dinner....and I am clueless how I should behave around him...shall I call him in every few days if there is nothing from him or shall I stay distant as he does sometimes? When we are together how shall I behave? I am a gemini he is pisces... Anything good coming out of that?

Thanks for your advice, it is just the anxiety I have, it just feel like he is uninterested....I am so scared he will just swim away

Posted by MissGemmi
Very good things come out of Pisces and Gemini. I think Pisces is the only sign that understand Gemini without really judging them and being patient. So do the same with him. He loves you, because he understands you and he can see traits in you, he recognizes. He needs to be understood as well. Pisces can swim away if you try to catch them or put to much pressure on them to do things. Don't. And don't become uptight about the whole communication thing. If you wanna call, just call. Pisces are not really traditional when it comes to who needs to call who.

Yeah true,

keep things cool and enjoy the time with him,things will get better 😄

Really? I am just getting worried that I am pushing him away or already pushed him away with my calls and my interest.I can be too much sometimes.i will need to wind myself down.

two things
1-you hurt him the first time. He might be waiting for you to show real interest before comitting again.
2-the situation is not the same, one year has passed and you're not married anymore so the relationship will be different

Just wondering if it will work out between us or if I have missed my chance to be with someone so special for my heart.i do feel that we were made for each other.

Posted by Lindacarlos12
Just wondering if it will work out between us or if I have missed my chance to be with someone so special for my heart.i do feel that we were made for each other.

Just make a note to yourself when you think the grass is greener and choose to screw around on this Pisces as you did your husband:

Be honest and leave him first, the next guy might see you more as an honest person and not question your shady character and behavior.

Posted by LetltB

Posted by Lindacarlos12
Just wondering if it will work out between us or if I have missed my chance to be with someone so special for my heart.i do feel that we were made for each other.

Just make a note to yourself when you think the grass is greener and choose to screw around on this Pisces as you did your husband:

Be honest and leave him first, the next guy might see you more as an honest person and not question your shady character and behavior.

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I agree with you LetItBe but what does it say about the character of a man who would mess around with a married woman? Maybe these two losers deserve each other?

Thanks for calling me a loser, I know people would judge me.Actually I do not feel that I am a loser. I was living in a very bad relationship where I had to take abuse of all kind.it took me a year and a half to get my ex husband move out of this flat.he did not want to accept that we were over.