Thee_Infamous
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This is a long post, and I'd appreciate and input....
In June 2014 I met a Pisces man and we started a friendship, soon after he told me he had to go home for a bit (he's originally from Egypt) and he asked if we could continue our friendship via Skype, WhatsApp and so forth. I really liked him and so we continued chatting on an almost daily basis.
In December 2014 I was in an accident and needed help with fixing the damage on my car. I asked Pisces if he has any contacts and he told me to contact his younger brother to help me. We met (he's a Scorpio) and sparks flew....
Soon after meeting him, we started dating. Keep in mind, I never had a relationship with Pisces, only a platonic friendship.
Pisces came back in February 2015 and I told him about my relationship with his brother. He was hurt and upset. In the mean time I found out he's married to a lady back home and to a local one too.
And he wanted a relationship with me too?!
No, I wasn't looking for that! Pisces left the country for a few years and we rarely had contact. I married his brother in September 2015 and he's never spoken to me since.
Fast forward to 2018....
My marriage had broken down and I filed for divorce.
November 2018 Pisces came back to South Africa and I messaged him 'Welcome back'
Got a lukewarm reply, not that I expected anything anyway....
Few weeks into him returning, he phoned me and we had coffee and a long overdue talk.
He asked me why I married his brother if I knew he had feelings for me. Told him he was married to NOT ONE, BUT TWO WOMEN and that didn't sit well with me.
Anyway, sparks flew and we got it on real heavy. We spent hours making love in the mountains in the open air and I admitted that I had feelings for him since I met him in 2014
All went well until one evening when he told me he's getting married again (after divorcing both wives)
I was shocked!
How? What?
Since then, he's been pulling away from me and hardly talks to me. I just don't understand what is going on. I really care for this man and to be honest, I realized I've always loved him, even while married to his brother.
I don't know what to do....
I've been messaging him non stop and I also realize I might be pushing him away further, I just can't stop thinking about him.
I know I hurt him by marrying his brother, but I'm trying to make things right, I just can't seem to break down the walls around him.
Walls that I put up, no doubt.