Went on a tinder date one time, was half assed interested in her, she asked to come back to my place and I figured she wanted to smash for sure. Played myself. She wanted to sleep, literally sleep, next to me in my bed. I tried to kiss her and it was so awkward. Dropped her off the next morning and blocked her

Posted by bmoon8
😑

I have deleted and gotten rid of pictures of past exes. With the last ex, I could not even be bothered to block her let alone be bothered to go through and untag photos. 🤷🏻‍♀️

You still like her??

Posted by saggurl88
I only had photos up when I was married. The rest get photos up that look like this. So it's not necessary to take them down.

That food looks great!! I see what you did there, shared memory but no face

Posted by TxOgal
I don't post them at all for this reason lol

Planning a head I like that lol

I was just discussing this with two friends of mine and wanted to try and get more insight in other peoples opinions about photos on social media with your ex’s. Do you keep them or do you delete them?

I’ve left them on in past relationships in hopes of reconciliation, but once the ship sailed so did the pictures from my accounts.

One of my ex’s still has profile pictures of me and her on her social media(trying to get back with her), and another deleted all profile pictures between us but still has the ones on her Instagram because “they were solid memories at that point in time of her life”

What do you do with them and what’s your reasoning for it?

Posted by DMV
She went back to her ex several times and look how well that worked out for her...

Yeah you have a point. She did mention months ago that if she ends a relationship again she’s not going to the back and forth again. I don’t blame her at all, just wish she could look at the situation for what it actually is and understand I was dealing with somethings

Posted by DonnaLibra
The Leo ladies I know have gone back to those they love. Very forgiving if they know there will be a change and improvement.

Do you know how quickly that happened for them? Weeks? Months? Years?

I’m making improvements in myself, I just think I’ve made a few mistakes out of frustration and anger of losing the relationship and certain life things I was dealing with that I’ve pushed her away, she felt I was putting things on her

Once they’re totally gone, I’ll respond with whatever, I know the relationship won’t go any further again. If you’re close to my heart and your my ex( the most current one is in this spot) she’ll melt my heart and I’ll want to go right back to her, that’s just the situation of us though.


Taurus sun
Cap moon
Leo Mars

Trying to get some insight from the Leo lady’s on this, do you or have you gone back to an ex? And what makes you do so? And what are your thoughts on the below??

I’m in a situation now with one, I have a post about it under relationships, I was pretty unavailable due to my own life circumstances and mental health at the time and I know it drew on her forsure and brought her down a little just generally because that’s where I was at. We never really talked about the big main issues because I didn’t know what to tell her, she pretty much planned the split for after Christmas and things were still good between us but I kinda lost my butter one day and forced a meet up to try and talk like 2 weeks after the split, out of my own life frustration the conversation got negative because I focused on small things she did that didn’t even truly matter and I upset her by it. I’ve apologized and I’ve tried to convey where I was at in life and the problems I was facing(she was aware of the problems I was getting hit with, during the relationship) but it’s like she doesn’t care, doesn’t want to look at things differently than how she wants to look at it. 4 months into the break up, I’m in a much better life spot and I tried shooting my shot over text cause she’s kind of blown me off on meeting up, she told me she 100% physically and mentally doesn’t want to be with me right now and that if we got back together she doesn’t know what it’s look like or if she’d be able to look at me the same.. I tried telling her she’s only basing that off how I was at my lowest low and that I was dealing with real life problems.

I know her last serious relationship she went back to her ex several times, not sure how bad things got for them at times but I know it ended bad with him and his family kinda of verbally trashing her.

Thank you for any input

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Posted by MyStarsShine
You chose weed over the woman
Maybe this is something to learn from?

I didn’t even realize it at the time. So much mental fog and it’s something that gradually came on as something little and just consumed me, big lessons here

Have you given up smoking it now?

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Yeah I gave up on the weed, best thing for me but it’s like dude should of done it months ago. Minds so much clearer, but now I can’t stop focusing on how badly I messed up with her, and I have huge motivation to try and make it right but even tonight I texted her and she didn’t respond. I think I’ve made things to negative over the broken up months now that she just doesn’t care anymore

Posted by MyStarsShine
You chose weed over the woman
Maybe this is something to learn from?

I didn’t even realize it at the time. So much mental fog and it’s something that gradually came on as something little and just consumed me, big lessons here

Posted by shakedown
It sounds like you have been through a lot. Be proud of the progress you've made and continue working on yourself. Maybe revisit love after you have completely healed from past events. Good luck.

I’ve been thru harder and worse, I feel like I finally got myself to spot in life where things were going great and honestly once covid hit everything went straight down hill again. Just that life deal I guess, go thru it again maybe I’ll get myself somewhere I didn’t realize I could be at now

Posted by alexscaries
Sounds like you have a victim mentality, the weed did it, dead dogs, covid crisis, dental pain. Might as well blame Trump as well.

Honestly just going by what you said and I don't know her story, but she sounds like a drama queen. That aside if she says she is ready to move on let her. It's selfish to keep trying it on with her. She's probably angry with you because she can't help you or you're not the person she wants you to be.

At the end of the day some people just aren't right for each other. Stay off the wacky baccy and don't waste your time on people who can't reciprocate affection. Above every else stop feeling sorry for yourself.

I’ve been trying to not be in that victim mentality but with the crap I was dealing with, even more honestly than mentioned, it’s kinda hard not to let yourself dwell down there. But I know that’s not the mentality to have, and yes she is some what of a drama queen especially when things don’t go her way(negative emotion type attached to situations)

Posted by alexscaries
If she's a hairdresser she's used to making cuts.

That’s a good one lol, and honestly true

Posted by Undine When trying to win someone’s heart, we are inclined to show them the best of us. Instead, you mind and body did everything possible to sabotage your chances. Listen to them, lol. Maybe they are trying to tell you something you didn’t grasp yet.

See that’s just it, I totally sabotaged things, but the more I think about it I’m like wtf were you doing dude! I did have to be a “teacher” somewhat often just thru life things for her and that did draw on me from “a lack of perspective/life openness” on her part but I wouldn’t say it was make it or break it

Title says it all for the most part. She was hairstylist for 2 years and I crushed on her hard, I finally made my move when I knew she was available and swept her off her feet things were amazing between us! I’m a Taurus, she’s a Leo. We got a long great, until I had life issues. Somewhat of a snowball effect, I started to smoke a lot of pot and it totally altered my mind and my personality(I was doing so because I was starting to run into a lot of life stress, used marijuana to cope) I became pretty closed off, in terms of just not opening myself up much to her and being very emotionally available because of the turmoil I was creating in my own head( terms of moving states to be closer with to my family due to my schooling getting finished up, job losses during covid, and oddly enough I made it a point to try and convince her whole family to move states with me they were 50/50 on it she wouldn’t move alone was the case) she was scared I was going to up and leave her, I severely abused the marijuana for MONTHS, and left myself in this mental battle with myself and never really knew what to tell her and I knew it was draining her because I think she thought I was going to leave, not matter how much I reassured her I wasn’t going to, she would say she felt like the only thing holding me back. Right after Christmas she ended it with me and I sunk deeper into depression, I had just lost both my dogs the month previous, I was stressed out, I was extremely stoned to try and escape my problems and the same week a good friend of mine hung himself and an aunt passed away. I was not in a good place, and for awhile. 4 months later now basically, I’ve been doing work on myself, figuring out what I want which path to take and put an end to the marijuana use. I’m doing tremendously better mentally for the most part, the weed did a lot of damage, but shes telling me she 100% physically and mentally doesn’t want to be with me again. She’s upset because I wasn’t allowing the deeper connection to happen between us and says our relationship was almost more of a friendship and I wasn’t very romantic and open with her, obviously. I also had an issue for a while with one of my testicles and the dentist had messed up one of my nerves and I couldn’t stick my tongue out really without incredible pain, so the sex wasn’t really there. But when we would I would defiantly try, she was upset because I wasn’t pursing her more. I completely understand where she’s coming from and how she feels, I just hate that I feel like my situation I was dealing with is something unimportant to her or she over looks it maybe, doesn’t take it into consideration. I really want to get back with her but she told me it’s been 4 months now and she’s ready to move on. We were amazing together at the beginning we never were mean to each other but when I try to talk to her about us now it’s almost like she’s angry if I bring it up and shuts me down with it, we’ll talk every now and than usually over Snapchat texts, she sent me one of the memory things the other week, I’m really not sure what to do here

Just something some guys do. My women’s beyond financially stable, She goes out with the girls? I’ll give her some money to make sure she has fun. Or I’ll get spa packages, pedicures, anything! Just accept and enjoy it!

Yes.

She ended it, petty reasons yet again(probably the 100th time now)

I’d take her back if she got her mind right for once. She’s out treetrunkingn every guy now unfortunately

Straight 10 homie