Pisces guys.. HELP.

ok..ive this pisces friend of mine. he is ten years older to me, but is pretty chill n a nice guy. i was having an interesting conversation with him about childhood. he stopped n told me something really big...very very personal which hardly few people know. Instinctively i told him not to think over it for a second, and that he was great the way he is. He immediately ran off. Did i offend him in anyway? Cause i know some pisces people who just dont tell us what they are feeling and expect us to understand. I just wanted to be supportive. But was i too hasty being as optimistic as that..when he was just starting to open up? please give me some insight.

*raising hand* I've got a water leak that needs sussed out, will that help?

What isn't the problem is more apt. The lady that heads up billing says this house went through more water than a fully functioning restaurant last month, the thousands of gallons. I've checked the basement, no flooding. Checked the perimeter of the house for bubbling, loose ground, etc. A leak of that magnitude inside the house would be causing major damage. So, either it's a problem on the towns end with their pipes, or a HUGE one of mine and it's all leeching into the soil. In any event ( bathroom faucet needing replaced, part of problem, but a neglible one ) it's equalled big bucks and a headache.

No, meter outside the house. One single ballcock mechanism in basement which feeds the entire house. The faucet is for an old pedestal sink ( they only had one in stock, yep, bought it. ) Single handle, B&K model 120-003.

Posted by amrutha92

Instinctively i told him not to think over it for a second, and that he was great the way he is.

Did i offend him in anyway?

I just wanted to be supportive.

You wanting to be supportive is for yourself. There's a difference between helping a person in the way they need to be aided, and helping a person in the way you need to help.

You need to place a superficial supportive, non-feeling blanket over him .. which does nothing for a Pisces at all, but in which obviously made you think you were doing something.

Yes you offended him, and not in any way .. in a specific way.

Telling you how would be fruitless, since you cannot grasp it, since you are superficial.

you said: "I just wanted to be supportive" ... which means you just blurted out a response that sits on your surface, and which is in place to offer no support at all in the way he needs it. so, if this is an instinct to you, as you said, then there would be no point in telling you how this was offensive to him.

And in what I've said here, if you still don't know and have to be told ... then there lies the answer.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by amrutha92

Instinctively i told him not to think over it for a second, and that he was great the way he is.

Did i offend him in anyway?

I just wanted to be supportive.

You wanting to be supportive is for yourself. There's a difference between helping a person in the way they need to be aided, and helping a person in the way you need to help.

You need to place a superficial supportive, non-feeling blanket over him .. which does nothing for a Pisces at all, but in which obviously made you think you were doing something.

Yes you offended him, and not in any way .. in a specific way.

Telling you how would be fruitless, since you cannot grasp it, since you are superficial.

you said: "I just wanted to be supportive" ... which means you just blurted out a response that sits on your surface, and which is in place to offer no support at all in the way he needs it. so, if this is an instinct to you, as you said, then there would be no point in telling you how this was offensive to him.

And in what I've said here, if you still don't know and have to be told ... then there lies the answer.

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go get laid oldylocks. u sound frustrated lol 😄