Pisces I need your help??

So, are you saying I should let it be? I can, but I need to know where I stand or is that asking too much all of a sudden?

Thanks for another judgement. How about a tip now? Ha

i'm no pisces, but have known a few, and i'm a girl so i think this qualifies me to say a coupla things.
you said you knew her when she was 15. what makes you think she has been dreaming of the day that you two could be together? 15 is pretty young to expect that she hasnt met a ton of guys that have made an impression on her.
she may remember you fondly, but i doubt she has been saving herself for the day you two would be together again.

you say you haven't dated in 7 yrs? for god's sake don't tell her that. it's odd.
also, do you really think she can live up to your expectations? you've obviously been building this girl up in your head for 7 yrs. that's alot to live up to, even if she gives you a chance.

and and you are far to impatient to deal with a pisces. two days to them is nothing!
last but not least, keep in mind, pisces women usually make everyone feel "special". that's their way from what i understand.

moreover, calm down! slow your roll! you are going to freak her out!

lol let me try this, I don't think she's been dreaming about the day we meet again. I've been dating but never had that connection with any other girl ive dated since...I didn't really think of her for a long time either, 7yrs is a very long time 🙂 I've been building it up for last few days, coz I wonder how she feels about it all and if I should come forward and talk about it 🙂

I probably said too much and too little in my initial posts 🙂

thanks

ok well in that case, just calm down. you are doing the right thing by telling strangers how you feel so you can get your complete and udder craziness out in the open without revealing it to her! (not intended to sound mean at all) i know you are excited about the possibilities, but contain yourself.
give her time to respond. pisces does everything on their time. know this!!!

maybe you should read some of the prior posts about pisces women. this should help. and in addition, you'll have something to do while you wait for her response :-)

I like you haha much more helpful than the one with the gun (didn't mean to offend either) appreciate it!

I'm a pisces girl, so hopefully I can shed some insight here.

1. Reign in your impatience. You are upset over 2 days of non-reply when you yourself gave her a 2year period of non-response? Cut her some slack. She mayyyy have some things she's busy with and she did say she's not that big on the whole facebook thing. Believe her.

2. If she did like you at any point in the last 7 years or so. And you vanished. She got hurt. And now she's built a wall up to protect herself. We may appear weak because we can get hurt easily. But we also learn from our mistakes. So this comes down to patience on your part again. You have to be willing to prove yourself to her and not all at once. Trust isn't just a gift after this sort of situation. It must be earned. She will be wary of your intentions.

My advice is the same as ariesgirl, take your time. I don't think she'll be scared by your feelings, but she may not believe them if you rush it. I would expect full out skeptical protection mode from her. Be consistent with her (with your communications, your feelings, etc. everything you can think of. Keep it consistent). Even if she isn't with you. She'll get there if she ever thought of being with you at any time, she'll get back there as long as you prove worthy.

Dezzie, what you two girls said answers all my questions, it really does. And if that's what it is I'm more than happy to gain her trust and prove myself again..also a very good point about me not being in touch for 2yrs! I guess if she was not interested she could have easily not replied at all. What got me questioning her was the fact that she asked from me to get in touch with her as often as I can and very next email she didn't reply for 2 days.

Ian, your already wasting you time replying to my posts. May as well make yourself useful, otherwise its pointless being here? And let me answer you other silly question, I'm here asking for help to learn if you have not noticed yet?

Oh I saw it, I just didn't like the way you presented.
And just because I reacted the way I did doesn't mean I didn't take it on-board. Talk about easily swayed lol
Its easy to be mean 😉

Glad to help scorp. Be careful about your ability to "question" her, when you aren't fully questioning your own actions and how she may perceive the situation. You know why you did what you did. She doesn't necessarily know. You can question her actions all you like, but ask yourself if she has ever given you reason for you to question her. Or is that you being defensive and trying to protect yourself from getting hurt? I'd wager it's the latter

You are right again, its totally me trying to protect myself. She has never given me a reason to question her actions, in fact that's the reason why I feel so strongly about her. However due to previous experiences, and the fact that I'm a scorp after all I can't help but wander "question"
Let's not forget that because the way I feel about her i feel very exposed, and I'm not used to it, hence the guard goes up lol scorp damn!

Also I don't think I'd be wandering at all if I could only see her in person..emails can be interpreted in so many ways but you can't fake emotion (from what I know this fish wouldn't fake it anyway) lack of physical presence is what gets me wandering. I guess I answered my own question before though! She's never given me a reason to question her before so I shouldn't be doing it!!

I'll let you know when she does get back to me 😉 x

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