Cancer Guy Help

Hi, i'm a pisces girl n i just had a date with my cancer guy friend .. we recently met again through our grad show .. he asked me out 2 days later to watch a movie.. the date went great, and he said we should get together and watch a movie together again if there's a good movie .. after that he didn't call or message me back .. so i messaged him after 4 days asking him to go out and watch a show this weekend .. he said he'll call me back if he can .. and he hasn't.. do you guys think he's not interested anymore?? or did i turn him off because i called him first??

thanks ..

Sounds like he's no longer interested, if he was, you would have heard from him before 4 days had passed.

Thanks for replying so quickly .. thanks for the input too .. 🙂

Hi there, I have to agree with LunarLady, I think that if he was interested, he would have texted you or called you. dont initiate any more contact, if he wants to see you again, he will let you know!!
hope this has helped, Im also a pisces girl dating a crab.

Hey PiscesArgie .. it helps a lot .. thank u ,,,

well, this cancer guy has called back last week, he said he hasn't call because he was sick .. and we went on a second date to see the show that i asked him, we went out sunday after that we went to dinner.. we talked for hours about our history, etc .. is that a good sign?

HI there...just take it slow, dont put too many expectations on this relationship, just let it flow...it seems he is not sure of what he wants yet...he is young, isnt he?? maybe it is time to have fun, go out with him and just let things happen in their own rhythm. If it is meant to be, it will. Good luck!

@ PiscesArgie : he's not really young we're both 25 .. what i forgot to say is that he just got his heart broken by his ex girlfriend who cheated on him ,, so i'm guessing he's taking it slowly, looking for the right one .. i'll just let it flow .. thanks .

@CancerLeoCam : i'm kinda shy.. i really don't know what to say if i ever message him first again .. any suggestion ??

@ PiscesArgie : he's not really young we're both 25 .. what i forgot to say is that he just got his heart broken by his ex girlfriend who cheated on him ,, so i'm guessing he's taking it slowly, looking for the right one .. i'll just let it flow .. thanks .

Well then you must understand things will not be so easy and natural after he was betrayed. He will need time, patience, trust and undesrtanding, and above all, lots of affection and love and reassurance. If you like him and see potential, go for it! You will find a treasure if you keep digging up...

Hi Ana16kin
You don't have to go around chasing him but every now and then you can send him a message saying you wanted to say hi or just ask how is his day going. Just something simple so he knows you think of him.

Hey thanks VirgoDreamz .. i think i'm going to message him soon .. i'm just kinda afraid that he won't reply .. 🙂

Thanks so much piscesargie .. btw when's your bday??

If you are still with him and he hasn't fled yet it's actually simple. He was just betrayed, he is not going to let anybody into his world but it looks like he is just testing the waters, getting to know you and gauging if he will be hurt again. Just know that he won't easily forget that he was hurt Cancer hold onto experiences closely, especially painful ones we don't live them down and we usually feel like we weren't good enough and it will just happen again. My advice, don't get attached too quickly cause there is a good chance he won't let himself get attached. If you do go for it simply nurse his wounds, let him know that he is something worthwhile, that he is desired and wanted cause if he is like me after getting burnt we feel worthless.