Pisces\Libra fight

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P-Angel
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Sounds to me like you are the type of person who stands in the shadows to throws stones, rather than talk to a person openly.

Here's your PM posted openly, which is the only way I roll.

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from PiscesChicka sent on 10/23/2010 at 9:32:18 AM
You didnt have to be rude with your reply. After all, You don't know shit about me and that libra. Oh.. and btw the only immature person here is you. Get a life you pathetic loser instead of hanging around Dxpnet.com. Shouldn't you be cleaning the house and taking care of your family? or has your husband left you? Idiot.
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The above has been the only time I've said anything besides the initial answering of this post .. in other words, I didn't respond to you in a PM, only openly in here.

And another PM you sent to me .. openly posted below.

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from PiscesChicka sent on 10/23/2010 at 11:13:58 AM
Listen.. why are u such a bitch with me? I asked a question.. i did NOT ask ur opinion about me so take ur useless opinion and shove it up ur ass you old hag. No wonder so many people hate ur guts on this board. Go do some housework. Dumb bitch. Next time a new person comes to this board .. be nicer! Being a bitch with someone and assuming they are immature for no apparent reason makes u extremely pathetic. You have my sympathy. I was nice to everyone who replied back nicely, except u. It's people like you that make America such a hateful country. I'm gonna leave u now so u continue your cleaning. Whore.
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It is quite apparant that my assessment of your maturity is accurate.

Instead of acting like a raving lunatic .. why don't you try and reason out what I was saying?

When you get older, you will be able to have real relationships where you are able to talk to your partner about relationship issues, rather than have to play games for attention.


The fact that you cannot handle the truth .. doesn't discredit me.

don't worry .. you will grow up.
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So you hide it, as if this is suppose prove it's ok for you to act like a child simply because you were told the truth about yourself?

Seriously?

Ok here is a copy of the OP, then ....

Posted by PiscesChicka
A couple of months ago me(pisces) a libra friend fought.. well.. it was really a fight.. he just kept ignoring me and i insisted on texting him to see him. Eventually, he blew up in my face and started ignoring me ever since. I got really hurt and started turned really cold towards him and have been ignoring him ever since. Now he keeps trying to get my attention and every now and then I find him staring at me. What's his problem?

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As a Pisces woman with a Libra man, I'm tempted to try giving some advice. However, I realize that nothing I say will change anything if the hot/cold and ignore/seek head games continue.

Let's see if I have this straight - you had a big fight, apparently. Big enough that he was extremely pissed/hurt and withdrew for a time, during which you blew up his phone, but he coldly ignored your attempts to talk or fix anything. Now he's making overtures to reestablish communication with you, and you're feeling justified in ignoring him this time. You occasionally find him staring at you, but you're enjoying the smug feeling you get by continuing to blow him off.. paybacks for him hurting you? That's a vicious cycle to get into, you know. And yes, it smacks of immaturity. Mature adults communicate, they don't ignore and play games and refuse to talk.

What I don't understand is.. what is so confusing about this? What do you hope to get help with? If you want him in your life, you'll have to swallow your injured pride and communicate with him. If you want him OUT of your life, you can certainly continue what you're doing and hope he gets the hint. But it would be much more effective to simply communicate your desires and wishes to him.

Your PMs to P-Angel were certainly not one of your shining moments, PiscesChicka. If you were trying to prove how mature you are, you fell short. Lashing out in anger at (or passive-aggressively ignoring) the Libra guy (OR P-Angel!) clearly is not helpful to your situation. Deal with your anger in order to see situations more clearly.

/ $ 0.02