Hey Guys, this is my first post. Im not Pisces but a Capricorn and I was just *seriously* infatuated with a Piscean. But now it's over and he doesn't speak to me anymore. 😢 I thought he was feeling me, but he wasn't. 😢 I'm delusional I guess.
Ok so this happened on the workplace. So I initiated us communicating first via FB. I added him cause he seemed cool and we always made alot of eye contact & alot of smiling at each other. I felt like he wanted to talk to me but prob was scared to, me being older I made the first move. One of the first things he tells me is that a another co worker really likes me, so basically we converse abt that for abt a week. Then we progress to conversing abt each other and getting more comfortable in person and talking & joking. Just really really flirty stuff.
When I would leave work everyday the area where I pass to go out him and others co workers are always kicking it on the benches there. He ALWAYS had something to tell me *very loudly* in front of the others. E.g when I was getting a ride home w/ a worker he was like real LOUD. U betta go straight home and no where else! I was like WTF? Another time he overheard me and another co worker(male) joking around abt being a couple and he wasn't too happy abt that convo. Another time I was leaving having a convo with another co worker, I was telling him that i wouldn't be in the next because of training and he (Pisces) just completely butt in and was like, what, you're not coming in tomorrow, I was like naw I have training and he FROWNED. lol haha! Now his behavior was very different to the others guys I speak too on work. To me he was pushing me to see how far he could go with me. Cause at that point we prob were talking for abt 3 wks. We didn't know each other well at all. And I was keeping my feelings tight, trust me he didnt know I liked him.
Now the other night we were chatting, talking abt a variety of things. He asked if I had a bf, where I lived at etc. The convo turned to relationships. So he says I like women to hit on me, so I can tell how serious they are so I will know how to respond. *wink wink* (SUBLIMINAL No?) I was like omggggg. All in all he said if a girl is not serious he's on to the next.
Now after there was some drama with him myself and an ex friend of mine. She told him that I was feeling him ALOT. I didn't like that at all, my position was like let me tell him and in the right setting. It wasn't her business. I was rough with her and he didn't like that and said that I'm a drama queen and stopped speaking to me. ;( I would admit I did over react. But when she told him I liked him, he said.....wait for it.... I WASN"T HIS TYPE!
WOMP WOMP!!!! OUCHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.
But damn I had fun when we spoke. he was sooo different to ANYBODY I met! I miss him!
Picses love the attention and flirting but if they aren't ready for you or to close there options then they will clamp down when you make a move. They are the most adorable guys though and super sexy ESP their eyes!! Move on.
lmao lmao. Yeah I'm moving on. 🙂 Ok apart from me liking him. What did I do to him that was so bad that he stopped speaking to me? Ok I know that when u guys see drama, you "swim" away. But my ex friend had to no right to tell him, and well she was hitting on him as well and he just played along. Typical guy. So I was wrong for roughing her up? I think not. She started the drama not me. And he had the nerve to say I'm a drama loving bird. OMG and cut me off, but here's the kicker still speaks to her even though he never met her in person. WTH— Thats why Im confused.
But he's 6 years younger than me. So he has some growing up to do.
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Ok so this happened on the workplace.
So I initiated us communicating first via FB. I added him cause he seemed cool and we always made alot of eye contact & alot of smiling at each other. I felt like he wanted to talk to me but prob was scared to, me being older I made the first move. One of the first things he tells me is that a another co worker really likes me, so basically we converse abt that for abt a week. Then we progress to conversing abt each other and getting more comfortable in person and talking & joking. Just really really flirty stuff.
When I would leave work everyday the area where I pass to go out him and others co workers are always kicking it on the benches there. He ALWAYS had something to tell me *very loudly* in front of the others. E.g when I was getting a ride home w/ a worker he was like real LOUD. U betta go straight home and no where else! I was like WTF? Another time he overheard me and another co worker(male) joking around abt being a couple and he wasn't too happy abt that convo. Another time I was leaving having a convo with another co worker, I was telling him that i wouldn't be in the next because of training and he (Pisces) just completely butt in and was like, what, you're not coming in tomorrow, I was like naw I have training and he FROWNED. lol haha! Now his behavior was very different to the others guys I speak too on work. To me he was pushing me to see how far he could go with me. Cause at that point we prob were talking for abt 3 wks. We didn't know each other well at all. And I was keeping my feelings tight, trust me he didnt know I liked him.