Pisces male/Scorpio female

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Tiamat
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Im not sure, but are pisces male's kinda flaky? Some yes.

Is this an ok match?Sure

What attracts a pisces male? Do they like to be pursued? Should I call him? Text him? Let him do all the pursuing?Don't obsess about em but do leave em doggy treats here and there😉Also depends on the reality type of dude he is,some like to be more dominate while others like females who will grab em by the balls and just simply "inform" them that your going to take advantage of them in bad,bad ways...,or a mixture of both.It just depends on what you find🙂

Never had any experience with a pisces male or female. New territory for me.



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Hmmm....

I noticed my pisces likes to take his time with contacting me....I like a more aggressive male. He claims he is interested in me but likes to take things slow as he doesnt want to get too wrapped up in one person becuz he wants to make sure he makes the right decision. And while he is interested in me, he isnt going to just jump all over me (darn...please do!).

Sooo, is this typical of a pisces? And how do I counteract this? I mean, yes, slow is good, but too slow is boring and I will lose interest for cyrin out loud! Should I be a bit more aggressive? My usual style is to let the man pursue me. If he wants it, he will have to come and get it. Good tactic here or no? Advice please!
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ScorpioSweetie

No offence, but you sound like deseperate about wanting that man. Excuse me, but don't you have a life outside of this guy? If he wants to take it slow, then relocate some of your interested into your own life (in case you still want this guy) or find a better guy who would have a closer understanding of your demands. In either case, this guy is not gonna match up with your speed and there is nothing wrong about that. Pisces is very deep personality and taking everything into account is something we do always. There is no other way to make this faster.

He probably comes to you closer, because he probably has nothing else with you in common to share with prior to your meeting. This is usually how dating happens, and this is usually how things work in this case.
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Means he may be a flaker or slut boy trying to not tell the whole truth on the negative side possibility.For the positive side possibility,some play flighty and hide feelings under a nonchalant attitude as to not get themselves hurt and/or is just being honest about not "feeling" anything about you yet very bluntly.Seems like you may have to be slightly more agressive with that one but not too much,he might not be the guy for you if the physical passion actions is what your looking for.They can be freaks in the private,bedroom department though so you could be underestimating him also,it really just depends if you wanna find out or not:S
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LOL I'm a Pisces female...I can say that with the men they can be flakey acting, like the females...we are the prostitutes of the zodiac (lol), and with us we can go back and forth when it comes to matters of the heart. But it depends on the level of maturity also. I've had my fun, doing the serial dating and all that...dying when there is a breakup but finding someone new pretty soon after...but I'm 32 now and I'm tired of the games and the aggravation that is dating. Its like going to job interviews. lol. Now I'm really just wanting to find someone who can make me laugh and turn me on, and be my best friend. I think that's what most Pisces people need in a mate, but you could say that about anybody.... we get our feelings hurt very easily. We can be lazy. We think outside the box. We can act tough on the outside to hide our insecurities. Finding someone that can ignore the "noise" and get to the heart of the matter is a dream. We need someone who is grounded but who won't stomp on our dreams. Who will give us attention but not be completely bossed around by us. (Yes, we can be very bossy.) We're a bit of everything in the zodiac. Good, bad, and psychotic. lol
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Gee, I guess I'll add my .02 thought that's all it is -- .02.

Making love with a Pisces man can be pretty exciting -- they really are like the "ocean" and they can blend with everything your sexy self wants to bring up. That's a beautiful feeling of oneness and very spiritual -- which is something Pisces men all are, as they are compassionate. But if you want to get the shit fucked out of you, try a more aggressive sign like Aquarius. Although I guess Pisces could play this role if you asked, but it's not really who he is at heart.

I met a younger Pisces guy and we really had some fantastic talks about life, God and spirituality. He said to me "I don't like people who use God as the yardstick for their pain." I nearly fell off my seat. He is absolutely brilliant. I hope we can be lifelong friends. He is as deep as the ocean -- but not confident, so when I started "loving on him" Scorpio style , he really appreciated it.

Pisces "wuvs" everyone, so don't expect the specialised attention we Scorps love to get.
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Outcast,

Thank you for clarifying your point. I certainly didn't mean to portray Pisces men as ass-lickers 🙂 although they are certainly not ass *kickers* either. (Sorry, my Gem rising coming out.)

Actually I found this younger Pisces man's intellect to be rather intimidating, and certainly superior to my own. And just because the Pisces man is adaptable in bed doesn't mean he kisses ass. But I think it's certainly true that many Pisces men enjoy nurturing others (like all the water signs) to a point. Is that a sign of ass-licking?

::breathlessly awaits Outcast's next fit of rage::

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I'll tell you straight up..don't rush him....Having been with mine for 5 months now..I can safely say they like to travel at their own pace...meandering, wondering, dithering, swaying..but they do make it eventually...They need a kick up the backside every now and then.

You will drive yourself potty if you try and make him do something he doesn't want to...Trust me..If he's being slow and giving you that information, you do the same...watch his reaction..be there for him but also let him know your not prepared to put up with crap...