I am a cancer and this is the 1st pisces male I have dated..can someone please give me a little insite on these 3 things.
1) At times he withdraws his emotions for a while and I can't tell if it is something I have done or he is just trying to deal with other things in his life. 2) Kinda embarrassing, but sex. It is the absolute best I have ever experienced because it is so emotional, almost other worldly. He says the same thing. BUT...he has a low sex drive and it is a lot less frequent than i would like it to be..he says he has always been like that and it has ruined relationships in the past. I'm not sex focused, but i have never been deprived either and it gets a little frustrating at times... 3) Total momma's boy (he's 27). I am glad he is family focused, but sheesh...it is a little overboard sometimes... I know that is a line with him I can NEVER cross. His last girlfriend and her HATED each other. Caused a lot of problems with them and I am very careful to kinda stay away from this subject except for giving him all the support I can. I didn't even meet her until day before yesterday for just a few mins at our work. don't get me wrong, I do not feel like I have to compete with her for anything, it is just a little wierd sometimes. Like he gives her ALL his money, I mean every penny. He has a cold and I overheard her tell him to come home so she could take care of him..(we lived together for the last month and 1/2, agreed we were going to slow things down a bit, but then he called her, she said that and..and boom..he was out the door)We are still together and everything seems ok, but....that was a little odd to me. His idea of slowing things down was moving back in with her and staying here on the weekends. Last nigh he came over for 1 hour, called her, said he was gonna run over there for a min..got there, shes sick (so am I) and he stays there. To take care of her..He did call me 3 times and told me what was going on...but we had plans last night. I told him, "baby, take care of her, you can't be in 2 places at the same time"
he said "finally, someone who understands,I will make this up to you, I promise" "Tomorrow, I am all yours" Now, I know this "mom" line is one I can never cross...but I bought all her christmas gifts and he was supposed to pay me back. He got his check and gave it all to her for another christmas gift. He has gotton paid 3 times since then and always deposits his whole check into her account. i really do not care how he spend his money, that is totally his business...but i even lent him the money for my gift..kinda ticks me off that he hasn't paid that back because it makes me feel like i bought my own gift..I don't mind the money stuff as much, because i make way more then he does, but he even asked (and got) $ 100 from me to give to her...im not stingy, but come on..im not gonna support her also. what is going on here?
I am a pisces and was engaged to a pisces guy. He was also a mommas boy, gave her most of his money not all, sex drive was kinda of low but when we were intimate it was really heartfelt and he was very quite at times. The main reason i ended our 3 year relationship was because we didn't communicate well enough. there was too much silence between us and when i would approach him he sincerely thought our relationship was fine. i can understand your dilemma. i am not suggesting you leave him just letting you know there are very common traits that you mentioned that i have experienced as well.
I am a pisces and was engaged to a pisces guy. He was also a mommas boy, gave her most of his money not all, sex drive was kinda of low but when we were intimate it was really heartfelt and he was very quite at times. The main reason i ended our 3 year relationship was because we didn't communicate well enough. there was too much silence between us and when i would approach him he sincerely thought our relationship was fine. i can understand your dilemma. i am not suggesting you leave him just letting you know there are very common traits that you mentioned that i have experienced as well.
the sex thing.. i felt the same way about it until we discussed it one day..i told him i was glad he confided in me, (also glad that it was not me)..i told him just to say" babe, you are sexy as h.ll, but im not in the mood" i told him that would heal my ego and i wouldn't pressure him...it has helped..he doesn't have to say it, i just tell myself that and i am ok with it. it has been a week since we did and when we did, i said..boy, that was so worth the wait..and ment it. maybe it will help his insecurities about it also. we are also looking into an herb that is supposed to stimulate testerone.. i got to say it...when it does happen, it is like being outside myself somewhere else and i have to remind myself of where i am..i know that totally sounds crazy, but it is true. i catch myself having a consious thought to come back to where i am because he takes me to another plane.
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1) At times he withdraws his emotions for a while and I can't tell if it is something I have done or he is just trying to deal with other things in his life.
2) Kinda embarrassing, but sex. It is the absolute best I have ever experienced because it is so emotional, almost other worldly. He says the same thing. BUT...he has a low sex drive and it is a lot less frequent than i would like it to be..he says he has always been like that and it has ruined relationships in the past. I'm not sex focused, but i have never been deprived either and it gets a little frustrating at times...
3) Total momma's boy (he's 27). I am glad he is family focused, but sheesh...it is a little overboard sometimes... I know that is a line with him I can NEVER cross. His last girlfriend and her HATED each other. Caused a lot of problems with them and I am very careful to kinda stay away from this subject except for giving him all the support I can. I didn't even meet her until day before yesterday for just a few mins at our work. don't get me wrong, I do not feel like I have to compete with her for anything, it is just a little wierd sometimes. Like he gives her ALL his money, I mean every penny. He has a cold and I overheard her tell him to come home so she could take care of him..(we lived together for the last month and 1/2, agreed we were going to slow things down a bit, but then he called her, she said that and..and boom..he was out the door)We are still together and everything seems ok, but....that was a little odd to me. His idea of slowing things down was moving back in with her and staying here on the weekends. Last nigh he came over for 1 hour, called her, said he was gonna run over there for a min..got there, shes sick (so am I) and he stays there. To take care of her..He did call me 3 times and told me what was going on...but we had plans last night. I told him, "baby, take care of her, you can't be in 2 places at the same time"