when a pisces man fancies a woman...

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by tauruslady000 on Sunday, October 22, 2006 and has 102 replies.

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@tauruslady000
20 Years

dont you think pisces men are a bit shy? and they take things so slowly... the dont like thr rush and the pressure and they plan the relationship so forward that they sometimes reject the person after the 1st date because of certain reasons (for example the person smokes or likes different style of music)

so is pisces man looking for miss perfect?

and how does he approach her? cause from my experience what i see is that pisces men are not too keen on making a first move and would rather wait and dream what could happen than making it real...

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@Judah
20 Years

dont you think pisces men are a bit shy? and they take things so slowly... the dont like thr rush and the pressure and they plan the relationship so forward that they sometimes reject the person after the 1st date because of certain reasons (for example the person smokes or likes different style of music)

MOST CERTAINLY. AT LEAST FOR ME. BUT THEY WILL GIVE THEM ANOTHER TRY IF THEY FEEL THERE IS SOME CONNECTION THERE.

so is pisces man looking for miss perfect?

NOT NECESSARILY PERFECT 10 IN THE REAL WORLD, BUT PERFECT FOR HIM.

and how does he approach her? cause from my experience what i see is that pisces men are not too keen on making a first move and would rather wait and dream what could happen than making it real...

COULD BE THAT HE'S SHY. HE MAY WANT YOU, BUT HE WANTS TO BE ABSOLUTELY SURE THAT YOUR INTO HIM AS MUCH AS HE MAY BE INTO YOU. PISCES HAVE A TENDENCY TOO FEEL EMOTIONS DEEPLY AND DON'T WANT TOO GET HURT OR FEEL REJECTED. THAT HURTS THEM THE MOST, REJECTION.

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@tauruslady000
20 Years

what if he doesnt fancy me?

i kinda tried to check out the ground but all he says is that he doesnt know... he doesnt show like if he was really into me and when i think he;s not into me at all he says he doesnt know... does he say so cause he doesnt want to hurt me with the hush truth? i heard pisces would lie in order not to hurt other people... :/

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@Judah
20 Years

if you really like him and would like to have things go further with him i would say to give him some big hints that your open for something. not so big as to scare him off but to open up the door so that he knows that its safe to come in.

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@tauruslady000
20 Years

he started to act weird so i called him and ask whats going on. he said im a bit persistant with sending him msgs and when he doesnt answer them within 5 minutes im getting mad and thinking he's ignoring me.. then i said sorry and felt embarrased and then he goes like that he doesnt know if that would work out and then striaght away he says he actually doesnt know.. and repeats that he doesnt know and doesnt know what to tell me.

i thought he wanted to be just friends but then he had to say this all HE DOESNT KNOW story again and im confused. i like him a lot, i havent showed it in a right way, but i really do... 😢 and i dont want him to get distant... i feel like he's slipping away off my hands 😢

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@Judah
20 Years

if he doesnt take the hints that your sending him..well then he's just not interested in you more than just a friendship more than likely. Although if hes really shy shy he may be trying to get the courage to go for it or figuring out what he should do next.

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Give him a little space. Let him collect his thoughts and feelings...by that time(however long that takes), he will let you know how he feels. If you keep persisting,. he will make up his mind hastily based on your impulsive acts...which wont be a good thing.

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@Judah
20 Years

most certainly lady M. Give him space and he will let you know by his actions whether hes into you or not. he will call you or get in contact with you. Believe me if he likes you he will have no problems getting in contact with you somehow.

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@tauruslady000
20 Years

we see each other every day at work. very briefly cause we work in the same building but different companies... he's obsessed about people talking about us so he doesnt want to go lunches with me which is quite sad...
i think you're right lady m, i was a bit pushy and the more i pushed him the more distant he seemed to be... but in the end when he actually could tell me LETS BE FRIEND he cut in the middle and said he doesnt know.. so maybe theres still a hope?

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@Judah
20 Years

Yep tlady000, it sounds like you may be pushing him to much. Does it seem that your the one always asking him or calling or text msging? Does he ever contact you first or talk to you first?

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@tauruslady000
20 Years

yes he contacts me first sometimes but i must say last week it was always me 😢 before it was still more me than him though anyway... but he does contact me first too, especially when i thought he doesnt care so i started ignoring him.. then he was very surprised and kept asking whats happening... etc
i dont want to be always the first to ask him out though..

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@Judah
20 Years

tlady000, i thnk hes not into you very much. sounds like a friend scenario. that asking whats happening by him when you ignorred him sounds like he missed the attention you were giving him. If i were you i'd look around for someone that gives you the attention that you want. Pisces men, when they really like someone and they know the other person likes them as well...well they'll give you all the attention you can stand and probably more.

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@tauruslady000
20 Years

but i want him.. he's so sweet and ironic...i was thinking that maybe it would be good to be friends then and let him get to know me better in that way...? and i dont want too much of attention... im freaking out when i dont have my space

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@Judah
20 Years

But see that sounds like the problem tlady000. You want him so much and he knows that by your actions. He knows that you will be there for him whenever he so desires. Listen, with you being so available to him it's a turnoff for guys and girls i believe. no matter whether he likes you or not dont be so available to him. Yes, be his friend but not available around the clock. If he wants you more than just friends he will take action. Your actions already speaks for themselves, you want him and he knows. Backoff a bit and let things progress naturally. If he really wants something with you he will let you know.

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@tauruslady000
20 Years

ok i'll try to back off a bit... but he's so sweet that i cant resist... im just afraid he might think i lost interest in him... and i know he likes me but he moans that we work together etc etc... oh well, ok i'll give him some space. i'll let you know if it worked. thanks for your words though! 🙂

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

"dont you think pisces men are a bit shy? and they take things so slowly..."

Yes, could be. But I mostly think it's because of premature introduction of relationship materials before a Piscean mind has made up.

Sorry, at this point of situation it's very hard to predict why and when things will happen. Perhaps Lady M is right. Giving space is what he needs. But I can't be sure.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Redrovertoo

You are right. No any usual technique that you use on anyone else will help you to get any Piscean for you. It simply doesnt work.

I know it never did work for me and apparently never would.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Pisceans have two ruling planets. Jupiter and Neptune. Jupiter is also ruling planet of Saggitarius. So we are 50% Saggitarius. And I heard in many places that in the duality part of Pisces (upstream fish and downstream fish) the upstream fish is actually the Saggitarius.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Well we share the same cultural background with user Sagi since we was born in the same country. Perhaps that why we might look a bit similair.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Now if you two have finished your shit in here, would you please piss off from this Pisces board.

Head to your own board and forget about this ones existence.

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