Pisces Man Help

First off I am a pisces too (Venus- Aquarius, Moon- Aquarius) I have been friends with my pisces (Venus-Aquarius, Moon Virgo) for over 15 years. We lost touch but got back into touch. Two weeks ago we went out and had a great time. We kissed and as the night went on and we kissed more. He said I have something to tell you, I have been sorta seeing someone. I said that is fine, got up and started to leave. I had recently been involved with a hot/cold tarus and couldn't do something like that again. I told him I wish him all the best, he told me I love you, please don't leave like this. I told him I love you too, but I have to go and left with tears in my eyes. It was not a manipulation move I just couldt take it.
Next day he called to check up on me, and I stayed the same. He kept saying, we are still going to talk right? I said I just cant make that kind of promise. I like you and don't want to keep anything open.
A few hours later I got a text message saying "I think we should start something up. I broke up my relationship. We had such a good time." I said not because of me. He said "just Because" He said "Can we make this work" I Said yes. He said so we have something...? I said Yes we have something. So we texted and set a date to see each other. We live a little bit away from each other but not far.

Since then.. I haven't heard much from him. I texted him a hello the other day. And he has been workign alot, I don't want to be pushy. Last friday I sent him a text that said "Remember what we were doing last Friday". His response was "Not what I am doing tonght. Still at work. Going on 15 hours" then a few hours later he sent me " Left work and getting ready for bed. Ill text you later. Night" Im just scared to get in another hot/cold situation.
I am a pisces too with the same Venus sign as him and I am not sure how to be. Any insight would be great?

Patience

@ PiscVirgAquafish.... Actually he texted me last night to tell me a friend of his killed himself. I responded to see how he was and we went back and forth.
This morning I did text him to see if he was ok. He responded within an hour and said he was OK, but went running. All I did was respond with a smiley face. I will leave him be.
He hasnt been very texty or chatty. So I will take the hint. I assume he will reach out when he is ready. We still have plans to see each in two weeks and I am looking forward to that.

@djbuck1 - Yes you are correct I was involved with a taurus not so long ago. I have been waiting around for him with no answers. My pisces friend and I hit off and I can't deny our feelings. We will see what happens.

I have the same sun sign and venus sign as this guy. I don't know why i am not as "tuned In".
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Thanks PiscVirgAquafish..
He and I have been friends for over 15 years. I wanted him to know I care about him after what happened. I only thought it appropriate.
I will leave him to his solitude. He can reach out to me. I don't want to bother him, although he usually says.. "You are never a bother to me"

Posted by 88PisceScorp
Now being back to being serious, if I meet a man, and I like him, and he gives me space to day dream about our next encounter, Ohhh my!!

during those day dreamings I have the UPS guy delivering my next cute outfit coz I'm so ready to make my day dream come true with him next time.. 😛

You'd like me then. I'd give you all the space you'd need... and then some.

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Wow. Yeah I usually prefer to be alone with my grief. But I don't mind getting texts. Nice to know somebody cares.

Emails.. words.. or something. Proof of loyalty and devotion now and again. An empty, selfish wish.. but alas.

How to prove that?

Yesterday... I texted my Pisces to see if our Plans were still good for July 27. He responded and said that he would need to double check and let me know tommorrow (which is today). I said sure. Then I said are we good? Just wondering.. He said yeah. My response "Ok I was just having a chic moment"
Later last night out of no-where my pisces texted me and said "Im Sorry I just need a day off from work." Me: Its ok. I wasnt sure if you felt differently towards me, he said just exhausted.
I said ok just get some rest.
I feel better. Just wanted to see what you wise people thought.?

@ PiscVirgAquaFish...

Yes I am a pisces too. This pisces confuses me. I don't know he is canceling. I was trying to find out if the plans we had were still good.
And he said he would have to doublecheck and let me know today.
I am just nervous...

Posted by woodenmeow
Yesterday... I texted my Pisces to see if our Plans were still good for July 27. He responded and said that he would need to double check and let me know tommorrow (which is today). I said sure. Then I said are we good? Just wondering.. He said yeah. My response "Ok I was just having a chic moment"
Later last night out of no-where my pisces texted me and said "Im Sorry I just need a day off from work." Me: Its ok. I wasnt sure if you felt differently towards me, he said just exhausted.
I said ok just get some rest.
I feel better. Just wanted to see what you wise people thought.?

idk about u or other pisces but when ive been really busy or drained I need a day or a couple days to unwind. And I dont really wanna see anyone haha.

I'm a fish too, and I had (sort of) the same situation with a Pisces that I've known for the same amount of time. Although we talked about it and how we both desired it deeply, we didn't push through with getting physical because we'd both been in committed relationships (one of us at least, at every given point in time. But we have a strange relationship, sort of a drawn-out yet sporadic emotional affair.

BELIEVE me these men need their space. When they are in their monastic modes, I try to keep in touch, I text, etc. You never really know when they are in a really bad place and need you. I just try to fill any needs they have. Usually it would be some nurturing or compassion, even via SMS. Sometimes I would feel that something isn't right and would make a point to see him or give him a call. These guys have a tendency to clam up and withdraw when they're stressed. I am the same when I feel nasty, but I usually just sleep for extended periods of time.

My Pisces is really confusing, totally hot-cold, but I don't sense evil games... But I'm glad he's not my boyfriend lol. I feel like he will outgrow this though, eventually, when he's more resilient against the world around him.

When he has an intense problem about him, he wants to channel all his energies into dealing with it, because he can be really escapist sometimes, but he knows he'll fail in life by ignoring the problem. It really is an effort to them.

Thank you all for the imput.
I agree, some of my behavior may be a little insecure. That is just because of my previous love battle scars.
I am a pisces too, and when I am sad,depressed,stressed like fiskebab.. I sleep alot.
For now I have and will just lay low. I am sure he will come back around at some point.
As far as asking him 10 in advance. I was checking car rentals and hence why I wanted to know if we were still good for that date. The older I get the more of a planner I have become.
I will just relax. Just scared of getting hurt again. Like I think any one of us can feel from time to time.

Me too. I am very horrible at receiving compliments and attention. Also I really dislike being in the spotlight. Or being in a position where people are anticipating a reaction from me.

Posted by juke
Some good insight from fightkebab. lord knows I make it hard for others to keep in touch with me. it's as if too much attention throws me off center, and i start acting too impulsively, making silly yet costly mistakes when in the spotlight too long.

Well... I am glad I didn't book that rental car. I got a text msg from my Pisces last night.
"I got so caught up in last month I didn't realiaze this weekend would be my last weekend for the end of the year. I switch back to shooting sports. Next weekend would be a bad weekend to come, but I will have another before Sept. Sorry 😢 I just didnt' realize it was the end of July. We went back and forth. At the end I just told him to have a good weekend. My pisces intuition said not to push, so I didn't. So we have no plans at this point.
Thoughts? Input?

@Conflictedfish...

That is what I have to do. I put a little pisces fin of my own out there to meet him halfway.

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish

Posted by myheartisanarcticstation

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Wow. Yeah I usually prefer to be alone with my grief. But I don't mind getting texts. Nice to know somebody cares.

Emails.. words.. or something. Proof of loyalty and devotion now and again. An empty, selfish wish.. but alas.

Are you a pisces? You post was ambiguous. I couldn't decide if you were saying as a pisces you would like these things for yourself, or saying that you wish your pisces would send you emails, words, etc.

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Aye. I'm my own 'pisces'.

And I would.. from time to time. But it is, as said, an empty wish. I get what I give out. No surprise there.

Thanks for the input.
He did call me this weekend but to ask me about some flights on a trip he was going on.
After that I didn't hear from him, then after him telling me he wanted to sleep and jog.
Saw pics of him hanging out with some friends.
I plan on NOT contacting him anymore.

What info do you need?