Pisces Men...

I'm a Scorpio female and I really like this Pisces Guy. The thing is we both play mind games...I'm trying to stop doing that, I just can't tell if he likes me or not. He does the disappearing act to and I can barely deal with that...As a scorpio we go after what we want but with him its hard because I don't want to mess this up and I know they are very sensitive..
What I'm asking here is how would I know he likes me??...And why does he play mind games??

I don't really play mind games really...but I would not text him all day to see if he would text me that type of deal. And I feel like he does that too..

Posted by cornfuzzled4ever
And WHY do you do that?

ive done it.

1. Im too scared to open up -- things seem way too good to be true, and ive been hurt before by trusting someone so quickly

2. I want to make the other person think of me a little bit before i reply.

I dont like playing games but when I meet a kindred soul its hard not to. :/

BUT idk if this is the case because after all this pisces could just be being polite and not saying ghe's interested.


I disappeared from a scorpi about two weeks ago...she seemed cool, got along well, but whenever we make plans to hang out she would always subtly say something to get herself out of it, mainly an excuse of being really busy, but the week before say she was free. this happened on multiple occasions so I gave her an effigial middle finger and just stopped talking to her.

To protect my self from getting hurt. (I have to see if he feels the same)

*Placidd* lol.
Well this Scorpio female isn't like that one.
But I would have put the finger up too.
And thanks for your reply.

Yeaaaa...which is how I'm feeling right now.

Haha yeah, Cornfuzzled spelled the word correctly but I added the extra letter in there back in march for some stupid reason I cant remember 😛

thanks for the insight. she was pulling some moves my ex did and her behavior towards other guys was the same. cant do that again no matter how much I want to right now! 😛

no problem! he is right though. After a while I did get insecure, but eventually I couldnt take the emotional toll that I was putting myself through. One one side I got to play chess so-to-speak, but on the other I was playing regardless of how I felt. eventually it got unbearable and I was upset for most of each day until I let go. then, I was happy -- and relieved most of all.

I really liked that scorpi chick no lie. so I think that your feelings towards this fish dude are off the charts if you two have been talking to each other for a little while.

id say meet up a couple times and just be straightforward after the third or maybe fourth time.

Posted by cornfuzzled4ever

Posted by Scorpio23
Yeaaaa...which is how I'm feeling right now.

Problem is both of your insecurities feed each others insecurities. So to answer the question of how do you know if he actually cares about you? You don't. And until shit REALLY hits the fan, I daresay you never can know how someone actually feels about you. So either take the risk with him, or don't. But being insecure and having power struggles/mind games to try and keep yourself from getting hurt isn't going to result in a happy ending.

People are like stocks. You can make educated decisions about them. But you'll never know what your return will be until after you've invested in them.

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Thank you guys!!! Helpful advice!!!!