Pisces Men and love?

I am in love with a pisces and I have never been more confused in my life!

I can't read him at all and it's driving me crazy :/

Any suggestions would be helpful, I don't know what to do 😢

Hey ME TOO 🙂

1.The best thing to do is stop trying to figure him out, it'll drive you crazy.
2.Don't put too many expectations into the relationship...you be you, let him be him.
3.Give him space to breathe, but also let him know every so often how much you care.
4.Keep things interesting in the bed.
5.DON'T let his "don't bother me" moods (if he has them) get to you.

This is what works for me...GOOD LUCK! Oh yeah, they think a little jealousy is cute.

Cancerlady

What cancer lady said works big time,other than that they are always up for fun so definitly don't take things personaly and you'll get a better reaction from simple and innocent fun and games then drilling them.They tend to get quite and walk away from confrontation.

Cancer, you are right about the jealousy thing, I rarely get jealous and the one time I did he kept saying how cute it wasm but I wasn't trying to be cute lol

And he does have those "don't bother me" moods, he won't talk or call me for a few days, he says he gets antisocial... I used to think it was b/c I did something and took it personally...

Is your guy more passive?

Tia, you are so right on the confrontation thing, he like completely avoids it

Thanks so much for the input... I do try to figure him out, maybe that's why I am confused, sigh, I dunno

See, you have made me feel better about my Pisces man...I think they try to be so much for so many people that they wear themselves out and need replenishing. I have one more thing that I have recently discovered...

KEEP A MYSTERY ABOUT YOURSELF!

What I mean by that is don't always make yourself readily available to him...I don't think they take it for granted necessarily, but you will become "boring" to them if I can use that word.

My P-man told me he always wants what he can't have...

Cancerlady

We're tough to read sometimes because we hide our feelings in the beginning. Once we feel secure enough though, we come out with all barrels cocked. 😉 The more reassurance you give him, the more he will reveal.

To comment on the jealousy thing, when our partners get jealous it makes us feel wanted. Some Pisces may provoke jealousy to see how badly the person they are with wants them. It seems, in my experience, the men are a tad more prone to this than the women, though. This may also be why some Pisces women find themselves drawn to posessive/controlling men.

I SAID we come out with all barrels c*cked. Sheesh. Stupid censorship! 🙂

WOW Sea Siren...So some of the things he does are purposely to make me jealous? Man, that is enlightening...it explains alot!

Cancerlady

think of it as reverse psychology

Yes, even I have to admit to this at times. I do it only once in a blue moon to see if its a surface type thing. But then I feel bad for doing it later. 😢

Reverse psychology my @SS! Think of it as playing mind games...Why do things to make another person jealous, then get mad that they are jealous.

Can't win for losing sometimes!

Cancerlady

The jealousy thing seems to be something us pisces love to see our partners become I know I do it to the guys I go with at times just to see their reaction, then I pretend to not know what they are talking about my cappy calls me the social butterfly when we go out together, but then again he says were arent together as boyfriend/girlfriend for now we are friends with benefits. It takes me a long time to open up and be comfortable with expressing my feelings to someone new. The antisocial thing I have days where I don't want to talk to anyone I need major alone time but the next day or maybe the next hour I want the world around me. I don't know us fish can be odd at times but we seem to understand each other no problem.
I need to date a pisces man and see how we get along together.
Waterbaby

You're right Waterbaby- we do need our alone time- it's just who we are- I have learned with myself is that I love people- I truly do- but when I am ready to be myself, that's it. I find that the only someone I can be around constantly is the person that I am in love with. I can be around that person sometimes TOO much, lol but that's just how I am and I think that's how all Pisces are in general. I personally think it's one of our strengths- being able to be alone because a lot of people are afraid to be by themselves. It rejuvenates us Fish though🙂

I've always said about myself too is that I am a social camel in that if I go out with friends or go to a party or other special event, that social time satisfies me for weeks on end- it's like I store it in my "social interaction hump" and I'm good for a while, lol. Let me know if you other Pisces can relate to being like this.

Well just wanted to add mine before I'm off to dream land.

Good Night All

OBPisces

Ok Ok I know I said I was off to dream land but there's been a detour...

About what Sea Siren wrote, though it's been a while back, about us Pisces women being drawn to possessive/controlling men, that is SOOOO true for me- my current Cancer Sweetheart is very much possessive and controlling and I LOVE IT! One day when we were at Joe's Crab Shack, I started "fussing" about how he trys always trying to tell me what to do, and with the most calm and sexiest response, he said to me- "that's how you want it to be- you like me being in charge and telling you what to do"- I was sooo shocked and turned on at the same time that he sensed and knew this about me, I could have jumped his bones right there on the table, lol. All that time up until that point, I thought he had no idea about that aspect of me because I had never told him that and I would always try to act so independent and strong when I was with him.

He has a very dominant personality and that's so how I want it. It's not one of those dangerous dominance situations, I could never let myself be hurt by being in an abusive relationship, but it's the perfect kind- the good kind😉

Ok, back on the road to dream land- no more detours...

OBPisces

I just loooove Joe's Crab Shack!

I am so glad you and your Cancer are getting along well...Speaking of rejuvenating fish

It was weird because men & my Pisces had this long conversation where he pretty much told me EXACTLY what you guys are saying. That sometimes he spreads hiimself out too thin and he just needs some alone time. He doesn't even answer the phone for anybody.

I can relate to the dominating man thing...that's the good thing about P-men, they can be strong and vunerable at the same time. That shit is just sexxxy!

Cancerlady

Pisces always seems to spread themselves too thin, we can't say no we will always do for others, and it's very hard too tell someone that you can't help them. I was asked about 4 months ago to help clean this huge factory on a sunday, so I said yes I'd help for the day, I already work a full time job. Well now every Sunday I've been cleaning this place with this friend of mine, I never remember saying I wanted to do this every week but she always says see you next Sunday when we are done, I'd like to say no you won't but I guess I don't want her to be mad at me so I say nothing and just keep on going. I get mad at myself sometimes.

Waterbaby18...

Don't let it get to the point where you are so fed up that you feel used...You might lose a friend inadvertently. Saying no is a learning process for people like us...I read this today and I want you to read it to, for it might help you in your quest for a backbone. (Not intended as an insult because I myself am a spineless jellyfish when it comes to helping others)

Ironically it is my daily horoscope reading for today so perhaps this is fate that I am giving this to you to read.

Daily extended (by Astrology.com)
There's an awfully big difference between being 'nice' and being 'kind.' Usually being 'nice' involves saying yes to a whole bunch of stuff you don't actually want to do in order to get everyone to like you. Being kind, on the other hand, usually involves thinking independently and about the long term, and saying 'no' to something when you know it's just going to mean more fuss and trouble in the future. So which would you rather be? Nice or kind? The choice is up to you. -

Cancerlady

I guess I'd rather be kind I need to really work on that I have to say no to people thanks for the horoscope reading it made sense. How funny it fit to just what I was talking about Thanks Cancerlady