Pisces Men + Capricorn Women

Although this looks ideal (water + earth), I am still wary of how things can be, especially from Pisces's side.


Enlighten me pls of the characteristics. So far, I've read that they can be manipulative - acting like they really care and are in love with you but in the end, they take that as friendship; contrary to the above, i also read that they are really affectionate people, who arent afraid of showing how much they care - minus the lies of course.


anyway , anything abt the relationship, positives, negatives, things to watch out for, will be appreciated.



thanks

Lol Just that i seem to attract a lotta pisces men lately - one in particular told me that 95% of his circle are gay but assures that he isn't and yes, I believe him LOL

Why do you think they should stick to themselves Evan?

LOL aaah I think i geddit now

>>..they are really affectionate people, who arent afraid of showing how much they care - minus the lies of course.

Definately, this would be the confident, mature-minded fish swimming upstream, who know who they are, and what they want out of life. I would say first & foremost, stay optimistic and positive about your relationship at the outset. Pisces can sense self-doubt 10 miles away and would never want to live in a world of second guesses and cynicism based on the experiences, advise or bias of others they don't even know. The one thing a pisces WILL respect is those who CAN think for themselves and see the glass at least half-full, until and (if) proven otherwise. (not only what one may read or hear about, neccessarily.) Unless there is something real, consistent and concrete that is complicating things; heresay, doubt, and pushing the cart ahead of the horse only leaves a sour taste..

Generally-speaking (Sun to Sun) Pisces will feel secure with practical determined Capricorn. In turn Pisces brings a breath of romance and idealism to Capricorn's more staid approach to life, and Pisces lavishness with passion and affection will delight the Capricorn. A Pisces will intuitively recognize a cappie's loyalty and passion, even if their words become hard to verbalize. Sex is fine, and their contrasting temperaments neatly compliment each other.

Also: A Cap will provide the ballast for Pisce's drifting dreaminess and supplies the stability that Pisces needs and admires. And there's nothing Capricorn likes better than being admired. Capricorn is the boudior captain, Pisces the willing crew. Pisces taste for the bizzare may even influence Cap's conventional passions. Pisce's generous affections and Capricorn's strong sense of loyalty combine to make each other feel safe and protected. These very different people can meet each other's needs.

Hope this helps a pinch.. =)

Lol yea Salmon rocks!


I met up with one of the pisces ( he just stood out for me and was v attentive compared to others..second in running is a gemini lol )- had fun, so as a result he wants to see me again in about 2 weeks time (cos thats when both of us haf the week free). He initiated the conversation,so sweet. is that a sign of interest or is that how a pisces generally works - going out of his way but with no particular intention?


Im not so sure about pisces but from wad i know of water signs..I have to be careful around them,right? as in, not to expect anything until they themselves want something with you.


I also read somewhere that most pisces are great in bed lol - i think its abt them being water sign..flow's just right lol



/rambling

There are two problems that are hard to fight but they are both smart and if willing to fight it together all can be solved. One is in Pisces side, other in Capricorn side. this two problems were mentioned in this thread.

For the rest, only the sky is the limit.

I think this pairing can go either way. I think Pisces woman with Capricorn man can work more easily but like I said it can go both ways.

When its good:
The capricorn can offer some structure and work ethic to the pisces, channeling their ideas (like a river) into something productive. As a team they can work well. The pisces can in turn get the capricorn to feel secure and open up their more emotional side. This is how it works with two mature, open individuals.

When its bad:
When one or both is insecure or not mature enough it can get to be a bit of a mess. The capricorn may become dominant (as a cardinal sign) and if the pisces is male and feels that as a male should be more dominant it can cause some friction. The pisces can hide in a dream world, not breaking up for whatever reason and pretending things are better than they are. The capricorn can stay closed off emotionally, which in turn makes the pisces more emotionally restrained because they pick up on this intuitivly. The cappy can get arrogant and too controlling, not breaking up cause the pisces can give them and easy life and they think that being provided for or being in control is love. Neither sign with cause a fuss though and wants commitement and security and so things get dragged out for years before they admit to any of it.

I've seen it go both ways. I think it depends on maturity

Hmm Sagigoat - he's born on March 21st, any ideas? =D

should i play it cool or let him do the chase? As some threads have mentioned, they like this hot and cold thing, but wont doing that just makes it awkward, since theyre intuitive and as a result, wont know how to proceed?

Are you sure he's not an Aries?

I thought this pairing always worked better when its Pisces female, Male Capricorn.....

March 21st is Aries cusp.
you should probably check out his exact placements, see how much pisces influence he still has going on.

Pisces-Aries Cusp 😄

Gaaah ~~~ I suppose this may be a sign for me to just let it be lol

bt so far hes been very attentive to me, nice, charming,sensitive, goes all out to make me comfortable, a FLIRTER, keeps giving hints in wanting me to ask him to come down to my place often lol - an aries i know isnt like this at all - has a love/hate relationship with mom I think. we also went to a party when he went to see me, he was very friendly w other people but at the same time, made sure to tend to me i guess lol not that i wouldve minded if he hadnt - the gesture (amongst others) as you could prolly tell now, has made an impact on me.

when he was abt to kiss me, he asked if i'd mind - was on the fence at the time but before he left, we kissed (really, who could resist the urge lol--chemistry baby!). he wants to see me again soon.

furthermore, I came to understand that like other watersigns, he likes having some one to hold whilst sleeping, to wake up to in the morning and would wake up in the mid of the night to watch me sleep. haha

he wasnt fussy, easygoing, and as funny as hell!! he made my housemates comfortable and they enjoyed talking to him (albeit more talkative than other guests theyve met, they laughed and had fun.and i believe one of them was even being a bit flirty with him lol


careful lil ol me~~~=D

My pisces ex just came back into the picture. We're still friends and we talk once every once in a while. I forgot about how good that sweet water sign affection can be. I've had a few pisces in my day and they were all wonderful, just a little too selfless for my taste.

what cause the breakup between u and pisces..u are a cap right? just curious

"what cause the breakup between u and pisces..u are a cap right? just curious"

well the one i mention, we were just dating, then someone i was already in love with finally came around so we stopped dating but kept in touch.

I was with a pisces for 2 years. we broke up for silly reasons. I was young and thought I was hot shit.

"lol you prefer someone who can kick your butt when you need it eh? "
Yeah, in a way. I just don't like hearing "whatever you want" all the time. Pisces are very accommodating that way.

"I just don't like hearing "whatever you want" all the time. Pisces are very accommodating that way."

oh so true. everything is :

"sure if you want" "watever you want" "we dont have to do this, if you want to go home.." etc etc lol

how can we tell if a pisces - even tho cusp aries - is interested anyway? i cant get him to give me his time of birth LMAO

"Capricorns are interesting people. They try to show themselves as different, but in fact they are very simple people." -- some one once said that im mysterious, an enigma, unpredictable and spontaneous

sounds contradictory to wad a cap is spose to be lol but i like keeping ppl guessing

once the truths were out - they would never have thought ina million years that Id do the things I did - thanks to a drinking game LMAO

but yes, we're simple people

" the capppies i know in my life generally don't care much about peer pressure"

i concur. most cappies i know including yours truly dont really give a shit abt what ppl think where they (caps) are concerned...although lately this cap has been thinking A LOT abt what a piscesan thinks of her lol

love complicates matters, no?=P

"Pisces men can be deliberately contrary just to prove a point. but also one of the few signs to understand, really know and love a cappy for who they are."


worth a go then, eh? lol i believe he is sensitive too, almost like cancer. too sensitive. and wants to know everything ina short period of time, whereas i do my own thing at my own time~~sigh

ian - i suppose as a cap, personally i am cautious. water signs tend to be wishywashy and though i believe both enjoys flirting w each other, i cant tell whether this pisces-aries cusp is just innit for fun or for long term. and as a cap (or probably just me LOL) i dont like to see my efforts go to waste =D

just today - he didnt feel comfortable talking with me simply cos i refused to tell him some things abt my life; hej, im all up for being honest w him and bare my soul and everything bcos i feel comfortable enough w him but my cappy sense tells me that there is a time n place for everything, take things slow and steady until i feel both he and i can be stable,that he accepts me as i am

obviously he felt that my friends (to whom i told things to-according to him) are more important to me than he is and that he thought i think he is untrustworthy.


i adore him to bits but i cant help but think "is this emotional drama worth it?"