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scoppisce
@scoppisce
13 Years

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Hi Pisces, Plz tell me what to do to have you forever. i am in a relationship with this Pisces man, he is 29 and i am 27. we are
all residents in one university and therefore we are together from Monday to Friday. our relationship is 7 months old and no one at the university knows that we are in a relationship. he has never introduced me as his girlfriend to anybody up to now.

he is so sweet and lovely,and the romance... Pisces..you are the best!!

here the thing i does not understand.
at first he was so interested to spend his weekends with me. these days he does not do that anymore. He will promis to come to visit me and he will never show up and no excuse or reasons for not coming. In case he did not promis to spend the w. end together, on Monday he will come up with alot regarding how busy was his w. end or just tell me that he was at home watching movies. Note: i usually does not ask him. he just tell me that. i wonder if you Pisces normally pull away if girls act too interested in you?
it was going really good at first but now he has seemed to pull away, Maybe I acted too interested or ,he is very busy with school which i am also but he reads a lot. i feel like He only see me when he want sex from me. he always seems too busy,ignoring my texts and such.

and this Friday he left early with another class-met (a girl) and never check on me the whole w. end. Plz
Dear Pisces men in this forum. help me. you are too good for me to loose
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P-Angel
@P-Angel
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Posted by scoppisce

... at the university ...








Americans usually say, "the" in front of university, or hospital, etc ... Europeans, and countries where english isn't thier first language don't put a, "the" in front of university and would say ..


at university



Therefore I want to know what high school english class let you graduate?



"here the thing i does not understand"

What the hell is that? ^^^^ ...


Maybe if you attempted to have an intellect, he would give you another go, besides satisfying his woodies
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Striking
@Striking
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"i feel like He only see me when he want sex from me. he always seems too busy,ignoring my texts and such."

I would back away from this dude. It sounds like he only wants to be bothered when he wants sex and thats not what you want. If you want more from this guy I would stop all physical contact and verbal contact too. Maybe he will start to see things in a diffrent light and if he doesnt then fine, you will have the strength to go on with your life bc you have cut him off. Scorp and Pisces is great together and I know plenty of couples with in this combination and have been together for a long time. But you better start putting you and your needs first.
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Striking
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She wants the sex but she also wants him to be the perfect bf too. He is only interested in the sex and could care
less about the bf part. She is confused, clear case of confusing love with sex..The reality she needs to face is he does
not want to be her bf and if thats what she really wants she better stop having sex with him,otherwise it will only get
harder for her. (No point inteded) lol..
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tiki33
@tiki33
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Desperation will absolutely suffocate a man's love for a woman.

You NEED him and that's why he's gone. Some men that are just dating, having fun don't really want to be responsible for a woman's happiness, NEEDING him feels like you're begging him to be responsible for you and your happiness, revolving your life around him places a lot of pressure on him to fulfill your unmet expectations, having to show up because you need him to feels like a chore, feels like another RESPONSIBILITY outside of his daily life pressures, no longer does he see you as someone who takes away his pressure, you become another thing-person he's responsible for and YES THEY'LL RUN away from that kind of pressure.

If he's ignoring you it's over, if he's not doing the things he used to and down graded you as someone he only has sex with well you've been dumped.

To remedy this NEEDY DESPERATE VIBE well you have to forget about him and get on with your life, basically stop revolving your heart, your feelings, your thoughts around HIM as if he's your whole identity and immerse yourself INTO YOURSELF by creating--developing a fun--happy--fulfilling life, go out with friends, go out on FRIENDLY dates with a guy or guys and he'll most likely NOTICE you are not worried about him being gone, he'll think to himself maybe I'm not as important to her as I thought and he'll swim back your way but instead of giving him sex use that as an opportunity to figure out things with him.

Oh and stop having sex, he's DOWNGRADED YOU to be his fuck buddy, NOT GOOD. This can all change in a positive direction but you MUST stop needing him, stop expecting anything from him including him calling--giving you his attention because you don't need that from him, you don't need him to be who he was for you to be happy and if YOU DO NEED HIM then you have a co-dependency problem.

The quickest way to get him back is to move on, no sex, no initiating contact, stop allowing him to have his cake and eat it too, meaning stop allowing him to have you for sex and at the same time pursue other women in your face, don't be a doormat, don't lose your self respect because you don't need him for anything, let him do his thing and you focus on your own life....
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Nefer
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+1 Tiki - Girl, I love you.

If I "dated" and slept with a man for seven months, and he would not let anyone know he was seeing me, started ignoring me and blowing me off and only coming around for sex, and decided he'd rather spend time with some other girl.. there is no way I'd consider him "too good" to lose. I'd lose him with much haste and little regret, and make room for someone who really IS too good to lose.
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P-Angel
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Indeed .... but the thing is, she knows this, so why bother to tell her as if she doesn't?

She's the one who told us .. read the OP again.


Why would people bother to come in here to tell her what she wrote?

She's not here to those words, she knows those words .. she wrote them. She wants to hear how to change a person, how to MAKE him be the image she has in her head.
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scoppisce
@scoppisce
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Posted by P-Angel
Indeed .... but the thing is, she knows this, so why bother to tell her as if she doesn't?

She's the one who told us .. read the OP again.


Why would people bother to come in here to tell her what she wrote?

She's not here to those words, she knows those words .. she wrote them. She wants to hear how to change a person, how to MAKE him be the image she has in her head.

I CAN NOT BLAME YOU BECAUSE IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. THERE MUST BE SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU. GO AND SEE A PSYCHIATRIST..
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scoppisce
@scoppisce
13 Years

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Posted by scoppisce
he is very busy with school which i am also but he reads a lot. i feel like He only see me when he want sex from me. he always seems too busy,ignoring my texts and such.

and this Friday he left early with another class-met (a girl) and never check on me the whole w. end. Plz
Dear Pisces men in this forum. help me. you are too good for me to loose


He is now taking you for granted...he knows you will be there for him when he is being a jerk...

What you need to do now is rip that attention away from him...he no longer deserves it nor appreciates it...

A Pisces will want to make *you* happy no matter what if they truly feel for you...after that if they ignore your texts/contact on a continuous basis they are not into you ...unless say they are pissed off at you or something...but given the fact he doesn't spend time with you anymore and has time for other girls...my bet is the honeymoon stage wore off he got everything on a plate...and now looking for something new...

To be with a Pisces and for it to work...you really have to be like a Pisces a little unpredictable and independent...there are times a Pisces needs to feel wanted...we are talking about a sensitive man here...however if he has no respect for your feelings...he simply won't care and his actions or lack of it will show this...as he is showing you now...

So my advice is mirror him be busy no contact etc...and go about your life...oh you can bet he will come seeing what happened...but don't mind the sweet words he now would need to earn what he had before...but you need to be the stronger one...

You basically need to over haul everything...get that confidence in you that you are the prize walk that walk...don't be scared to ignore him [heck I do it to my Pisces if he's not doing something right then he doesn't get my time - and it works every time because he knows I mean business bahahaha] he is no longer entitled to it...and let's see how busy he is then 😉
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WOW...I BUY YOUR ADVICE... THANK YOU SO MUCH. I HOPE THIS WILL HELP ME. I REALLY APPRECIATE!!!
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scoppisce
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Posted by tiki33
Desperation will absolutely suffocate a man's love for a woman.

You NEED him and that's why he's gone. Some men that are just dating, having fun don't really want to be responsible for a woman's happiness, NEEDING him feels like you're begging him to be responsible for you and your happiness, revolving your life around him places a lot of pressure on him to fulfill your unmet expectations, having to show up because you need him to feels like a chore, feels like another RESPONSIBILITY outside of his daily life pressures, no longer does he see you as someone who takes away his pressure, you become another thing-person he's responsible for and YES THEY'LL RUN away from that kind of pressure.

If he's ignoring you it's over, if he's not doing the things he used to and down graded you as someone he only has sex with well you've been dumped.

To remedy this NEEDY DESPERATE VIBE well you have to forget about him and get on with your life, basically stop revolving your heart, your feelings, your thoughts around HIM as if he's your whole identity and immerse yourself INTO YOURSELF by creating--developing a fun--happy--fulfilling life, go out with friends, go out on FRIENDLY dates with a guy or guys and he'll most likely NOTICE you are not worried about him being gone, he'll think to himself maybe I'm not as important to her as I thought and he'll swim back your way but instead of giving him sex use that as an opportunity to figure out things with him.

Oh and stop having sex, he's DOWNGRADED YOU to be his fuck buddy, NOT GOOD. This can all change in a positive direction but you MUST stop needing him, stop expecting anything from him including him calling--giving you his attention because you don't need that from him, you don't need him to be who he was for you to be happy and if YOU DO NEED HIM then you have a co-dependency problem.

The quickest way to get him back is to move on, no sex, no initiating contact, stop allowing him to have his cake and eat it too, meaning stop allowing him to have you for sex and at the same time pursue other women in your face, don't be a doormat, don't lose your self respect because you don't need him for anything, let him do his thing and you focus on your own life....

THANK YOU.THIS IS HELPFUL
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scoppisce
@scoppisce
13 Years

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Posted by Nefer
+1 Tiki - Girl, I love you.

If I "dated" and slept with a man for seven months, and he would not let anyone know he was seeing me, started ignoring me and blowing me off and only coming around for sex, and decided he'd rather spend time with some other girl.. there is no way I'd consider him "too good" to lose. I'd lose him with much haste and little regret, and make room for someone who really IS too good to lose.

oKEY....
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brokenbutfixableLibragirl
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my first and only love is a Pisces. If he really wants you. you will know and he will trust you enough to tell you. iv know mines well over 7 years since high school and we have been together for almost five and we separated for 6 months and let me tell you when i finally understood his :space thing: and I developed my own life he came back on his own and has always treated me like a princess since day one. so point you cant keep him. he has to want to stay and that with anybody, but with a Pisces man trust me if they love you they are not far and will never leave just giving them space and let them know they can trust you. my luvbug and I are at a point where we agree and we meet in the middle and the augmentative stay low of course i think im more secure in myself so that make him feel less pressure. having to always looking out for me they hate stress lol
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Posted by scoppisce

you are too good for me to loose








Objectify


Scorpios seem to do that a lot. The person never matters, if they are even noticed.

Upon realization of this, the fish jump stream without notice .... and will justify it as - it's your fault


You've made him into an "It" .... you make that statement for Pisces as a whole to infer that the Piscean nature is too good for you to loose, which completely disregards him as an individual.

You lost him, and you should have .... I say good for him that he realized your motive